Help! A senior at my workplace booked a hotel room for me and expects me to come at 9pm tonight. What should I do?

[Xangsane]

A senior colleague at my new workplace (50s white male) said he was very impressed with my hard work and decided to book a "luxury 5 star hotel room in the city" (35 minute journey) this evening without my permission, and invited me to the room (he said I'd be alone). He said he wants me to enjoy the night and all the facilities the hotel has to offer. He gave me the invite at like 5pm and expects me to come at 9pm at a particular room number. He said I'd get to enjoy a nice breakfast.

I'm suspicious, why me?

I spoke to my parents and my fiancée and they already are telling me don't do it even if I'd get bad blood between me and him. He already booked it without my permission.

My fiancée lives 2 hours away from me.

My dad also finds it highly suspicious he booked the hotel room for a male colleague (me) and not for a female colleague.

 

[Xangsane]

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[Xangsane]

@apemaxxed

 

[Sprinkles]

he wants a piece of

 

[Xangsane]

@slayer69

 

[Xangsane]

he wants a piece of


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What?

 

[Deleted member 21661]

A senior colleague at my new workplace (50s white male) said he was very impressed with my hard work and decided to book a "luxury 5 star hotel room in the city" (35 minute journey) this evening without my permission, and invited me to the room (he said I'd be alone). He said he wants me to enjoy the night and all the facilities the hotel has to offer. He gave me the invite at like 5pm and expects me to come at 9pm at a particular room number. He said I'd get to enjoy a nice breakfast.

I'm suspicious, why me?

I spoke to my parents and my fiancée and they already are telling me don't do it even if I'd get bad blood between me and him. He already booked it without my permission.

My dad also finds it highly suspicious he booked the hotel room for a male colleague (me) and not for a female colleague.

It's common for top performers.
He just wants to reward you. It means he's proud of you.

 

[Deleted member 32973]

if its just you then go idk whats wrong with ith bring your fiancee with you sneak her with you, and like if the dude is butass naked in the bed just turn around and walk away

 

[Sprinkles]

What?

I thought he booked a room for you and him lol.

I think you should go and enjoy it with your gf.

 

[tyroneorkms]

Perform a cost-benefit analysis of your ass getting pounded v.s. expected pay increase.

 

[wsada]

Take ur fiancee with you

 

[Xangsane]

if its just you then go idk whats wrong with ith bring your fiancee with you sneak her with you, and like if the dude is butass naked in the bed just turn around and walk away

My fiancée is in a different town. Like 2 hours away from me.

 

[Xangsane]

Take ur fiancee with you

My fiancée is in a different town. Like 2 hours away from me.

 

[Xangsane]

It's common for top performers.
He just wants to reward you. It means he's proud of you.

Why does he want to reward me?

 

[kebab]

A senior colleague at my new workplace (50s white male) said he was very impressed with my hard work and decided to book a "luxury 5 star hotel room in the city" (35 minute journey) this evening without my permission, and invited me to the room (he said I'd be alone). He said he wants me to enjoy the night and all the facilities the hotel has to offer. He gave me the invite at like 5pm and expects me to come at 9pm at a particular room number. He said I'd get to enjoy a nice breakfast.

I'm suspicious, why me?

I spoke to my parents and my fiancée and they already are telling me don't do it even if I'd get bad blood between me and him. He already booked it without my permission.

My dad also finds it highly suspicious he booked the hotel room for a male colleague (me) and not for a female colleague.

Bring ur gf

 

[Xangsane]

I thought he booked a room for you and him lol.

I think you should go and enjoy it with your gf.

My fiancée is in a different town. Like 2 hours away from me.

Perform a cost-benefit analysis of your ass getting pounded v.s. expected pay increase.

But why me, I'm not gay nor am I a woman.

 

[Xangsane]

Bring ur gf

My fiancée is in a different town. Like 2 hours away from me.

 

[Deleted member 21661]

Why does he want to reward me?

Because you're smart and good at your job.

 

[wsada]

Idk man if this is even real then just go and enjoy!!

 

[Xangsane]

Idk man if this is even real then just go and enjoy!!

I hope it's not suspicious. It seems so

 

[Deleted member 28927]

Xangsane i think he might want to be your boyfriend

 

[Xangsane]

Because you're smart and good at your job.

Thank you! But does he mean good?

 

[Xangsane]

Xangsane i think he might want to be your boyfriend

What?

 

[Deleted member 6583]

Xangsane, do you remember when we talked about how lying is not good? We learned that when someone tells lies, it makes it hard for other people to trust them, right?

 

[Deleted member 28927]

What?

 

[horizontallytall]

Xangsane, do you remember when we talked about how lying is not good? We learned that when someone tells lies, it makes it hard for other people to trust them, right?

True ,teach ur kid some manner brah

 

[Xangsane]

What's this

Xangsane, do you remember when we talked about how lying is not good? We learned that when someone tells lies, it makes it hard for other people to trust them, right?

I'm not.

 

[Xangsane]

@depressionmaxxing why report?

 

[Deleted member 21661]

Thank you! But does he mean good?

I think so, but since you have your own room you can always stay inside if something happens and say you feel sick or something.

 

[Xangsane]

I think so, but since you have your own room you can always stay inside if something happens and say you feel sick or something.

he said it's my own room but I don't even know now with all these comments.

 

[Deleted member 21661]

he said it's my own room but I don't even know now with all these comments.

If it's a shared room then you should try and leave, I don't think he would be able to overpower you easily tbh.

 

[Xangsane]

If it's a shared room then you should try and leave, I don't think he would be able to overpower you easily tbh.

he's like 6'2 and burly.

 

[Deleted member 21661]

he's like 6'2 and burly.

Maybe meet him outside and try to figure out his intentions, and leave if you think he's creepy tbh. Could hurt your career if you just didn't go.

 

[Xangsane]

Maybe meet him outside and try to figure out his intentions, and leave if you think he's creepy tbh. Could hurt your career if you just didn't go.

should I then?


@Debetro

 

[Xangsane]

Maybe meet him outside and try to figure out his intentions, and leave if you think he's creepy tbh. Could hurt your career if you just didn't go.

but why me, and not someone else?

 

[Deleted member 21661]

but why me, and not someone else?

career performance/intelligence maybe?

 

[Xangsane]

career performance/intelligence maybe?

but the hotel is a bit suspicious

 

[Xangsane]

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[Xangsane]

@Meraki

 

[Xangsane]

@Average Aryan @joao @Ryldoo IS COPING

 

[Deleted member 47552]

@Average Aryan @joao @Ryldoo IS COPING

Ok dude.
This could mean that:
1-He's hired an escort for you (happens sometimes)
2-Wants to kidnap you/molest you.

It's probably number 1.

 

[Xangsane]

Ok dude.
This could mean that:
1-He's hired an escort for you (happens sometimes)
2-Wants to kidnap you/molest you.

It's probably number 1.

@apemaxxed please help, the place feels weird

 

[Deleted member 47552]

@apemaxxed please help, the place feels weird

Bro just don't go, make up some BS excuse.

 

[Deleted member 51465]

Go there.

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

A senior colleague at my new workplace (50s white male) said he was very impressed with my hard work and decided to book a "luxury 5 star hotel room in the city" (35 minute journey) this evening without my permission, and invited me to the room (he said I'd be alone). He said he wants me to enjoy the night and all the facilities the hotel has to offer. He gave me the invite at like 5pm and expects me to come at 9pm at a particular room number. He said I'd get to enjoy a nice breakfast.

I'm suspicious, why me?

I spoke to my parents and my fiancée and they already are telling me don't do it even if I'd get bad blood between me and him. He already booked it without my permission.

My fiancée lives 2 hours away from me.

My dad also finds it highly suspicious he booked the hotel room for a male colleague (me) and not for a female colleague.

Ask Thompson, I mean Alex what to do.

 

[Xangsane]

Bro just don't go, make up some BS excuse.

I am not going
I looked it up and while the place looks so nice and luxurious it just seems so dodgy, so I just said I'm with my father.
I am surprised he asked me as I am not a woman or a gay/lgbt man (my dad thinks he might molest me)

Go there.

not going but why did you think I should?

 

[PLA1092]

A senior colleague at my new workplace (50s white male) said he was very impressed with my hard work and decided to book a "luxury 5 star hotel room in the city" (35 minute journey) this evening without my permission, and invited me to the room (he said I'd be alone). He said he wants me to enjoy the night and all the facilities the hotel has to offer. He gave me the invite at like 5pm and expects me to come at 9pm at a particular room number. He said I'd get to enjoy a nice breakfast.

I'm suspicious, why me?

I spoke to my parents and my fiancée and they already are telling me don't do it even if I'd get bad blood between me and him. He already booked it without my permission.

My fiancée lives 2 hours away from me.

My dad also finds it highly suspicious he booked the hotel room for a male colleague (me) and not for a female colleague.

Rape is imminent

 

[Xangsane]

Rape is imminent

I am not going
I looked it up and while the place looks so nice and luxurious it just seems so dodgy, so I just said I'm with my father.
I am surprised he asked me as I am not a woman or a gay/lgbt man (my dad thinks he might molest me)

not going but why did you think I should?

 

[Deleted member 47552]

I am not going
I looked it up and while the place looks so nice and luxurious it just seems so dodgy, so I just said I'm with my father.

Should've just said I'm at xyz, can't make it, or I have to take care of blah blah relative.

I am surprised he asked me as I am not a woman or a gay/lgbt man (my dad thinks he might molest me)

Smart dad.

not going but why did you think I should?

He's trying to set you up for rape brah.

 

[Xangsane]

Should've just said I'm at xyz, can't make it, or I have to take care of blah blah relative.

Smart dad.

I love my dad

He's trying to set you up for rape brah.

should I report to hr?