Help me ascend

[johnsmithcel]

My main and really only reason for inceldom is a lack of a true social circle and being socially inept. My only real friends until recently were fags that always tried to bring me down and humiliate me. But enough of the sob story.

Since I don't have college currently and nothing to do, inceldom is once again eating me up inside.
What can I realistically do to at least make myself believe i'm doing something to get out of this hell? I was thinking of going to a nightclub on my own but I feel like it'd be a little cringe. So I might take a train to a different city and try going there so at least no one recognizes me? What do you guys think? is going to a nightclub on your own very weird?

 

[gribsufer1]

how old are you

 

[johnsmithcel]

how old are you

21

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

I was thinking of going to a nightclub on my own but I feel like it'd be a little cringe. So I might take a train to a different city and try going there so at least no one recognizes me? What do you guys think? is going to a nightclub on your own very weird?

what do you expect to get out of that exactly

 

[gribsufer1]

21

its pretty much over

 

[Nims]

My main and really only reason for inceldom is a lack of a true social circle

Join a club.
Maybe a gym or sport club and talk to the individuals there, find out what they like and if you like similar things and build a connection with them and build your social circle.

So I might take a train to a different city and try going there so at least no one recognizes me? What do you guys think? is going to a nightclub on your own very weird?

Probably a good idea if you do that. When I go to other parts of the country where I dont often go and have no connection to I have basically no anxiety as I dont need to return and no one knows me.

 

[johnsmithcel]

its pretty much over

nah, not yet.

Join a club.
Maybe a gym or sport club and talk to the individuals there, find out what they like and if you like similar things and build a connection with them and build your social circle.

I go to the gym, but I don't really talk to anyone there. I haven't played sports since I was like 12 either.

Probably a good idea if you do that. When I go to other parts of the country where I dont often go and have no connection to I have basically no anxiety as I dont need to return and no one knows me.

That's my thinking. Even if I end up being cringe, i'll just go home and forget it happened. I might say I was with friends but they went back with girls or something if someone asks why i'm alone.

 

[johnsmithcel]

what do you expect to get out of that exactly

I'd be happy to make out with a girl and ideally i'd like to fuck her. Would have to rent a hotel for that or hope she has a free place.

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

I'd be happy to make out with a girl and ideally i'd like to fuck her. Would have to rent a hotel for that or hope she has a free place.

i get it but when you try to do that during the holiday season then you'll be walking on eggshells even more when it comes to why you're alone in a different city during that time, etc.

 

[johnsmithcel]

i get it but when you try to do that during the holiday season then you'll be walking on eggshells even more when it comes to why you're alone in a different city during that time, etc.

yeah like I said above I might just say that my friends went back with girls or were sick and I decided to go out anyway.

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

yeah like I said above I might just say that my friends went back with girls or were sick and I decided to go out anyway.

gotta nuke all your inhibition to pull that imo. but gl. let us hear how it goes. you wanna do that on new year's or when?

 

[MadTwatter]

Join a club.
Maybe a gym or sport club and talk to the individuals there, find out what they like and if you like similar things and build a connection with them and build your social circle.

Based advices. Works really well because there will be tons of newbs joining for their new years resolutions.

BJJ is the best because you'll learn how to actually hurt somebody but its almost all men.
Kickboxing is 60% conditioning and 40% learning to fight, also way more girls do it.
Don't waste your time with krav maga, total meme.
Badminton club is good if you want to meet asian women.

 

[johnsmithcel]

gotta nuke all your inhibition to pull that imo. but gl. let us hear how it goes. you wanna do that on new year's or when?

Think i'll actually go out for new year's with friends if they don't cuck out like they always do.

Based advices. Works really well because there will be tons of newbs joining for their new years resolutions.

BJJ is the best because you'll learn how to actually hurt somebody but its almost all men.
Kickboxing is 60% conditioning and 40% learning to fight, also way more girls do it.
Don't waste your time with krav maga, total meme.
Badminton club is good if you want to meet asian women.

I did kickboxing when I was a kid and it had a few girls. Is that still the case for adults? I imagine it'd be dyke types doing it? or just bitches that are more effort than they're worth?

 

[johnsmithcel]

Based advices. Works really well because there will be tons of newbs joining for their new years resolutions.

BJJ is the best because you'll learn how to actually hurt somebody but its almost all men.
Kickboxing is 60% conditioning and 40% learning to fight, also way more girls do it.
Don't waste your time with krav maga, total meme.
Badminton club is good if you want to meet asian women.

Also i'm shit at any sport involving a ball.

 

[MadTwatter]

Also i'm shit at any sport involving a ball.

Badminton uses a shuttlecock. Just keep it out your mouth.

Think i'll actually go out for new year's with friends if they don't cuck out like they always do. They're such fucking boomer faggots. One of them is "dating" a girl he never met from some malnourished shithole and she wants to marry him before they have sex jfl.
I want to do this before new year.

I did kickboxing when I was a kid and it had a few girls. Is that still the case for adults? I imagine it'd be dyke types doing it? or just bitches that are more effort than they're worth?

My kick-boxing club is probably 70% women. Haven’t seen a single LGBT type.

New years is the easiest time to pull. Go to a club and find a girl who looks single and dance with her at 23:30. Prey on her sense of FOMO and kiss her at 00:00. I understand I’m making it sound easy but i managed to pull that off before I’d even heard of looksmaxing.

 

[jojoyou]

Join a gym fag

 

[johnsmithcel]

Badminton uses a shuttlecock. Just keep it out your mouth.

My kick-boxing club is probably 70% women. Haven’t seen a single LGBT type.

New years is the easiest time to pull. Go to a club and find a girl who looks single and dance with her at 23:30. Prey on her sense of FOMO and kiss her at 00:00. I understand I’m making it sound easy but i managed to pull that off before I’d even heard of looksmaxing.

I remember right before 2020 a girl came up to and started grabbing me and looking me in the eyes. I pretended I was too drunk to notice her. Would've been such a memorable start of a new decade. I was such a self-sabotaging subhuman before. I'd fucking behead my past self if I could.

Join a gym fag

I go to the gym.

 

[jojoyou]

I remember right before 2020 a girl came up to and started grabbing me and looking me in the eyes. I pretended I was too drunk to notice her. I was such a self-sabotaging subhuman before. I'd fucking behead my past self if I could.


I go to the gym.

Make high t friends there ig , that’s how I increased my circlep

 

[johnsmithcel]

Make high t friends there ig , that’s how I increased my circlep

I only talked to someone twice there. Once a foid asked me to pick some shit up for her that was too high for her to reach and the second time a guy asked me to spot him.

 

[jojoyou]

I only talked to someone twice there. Once a foid asked me to pick some shit up for her that was too high for her to reach and the second time a guy asked me to spot him.

Expand through them

 

[johnsmithcel]

Expand through them

It was ages ago, bro. And it wasn't anything other than a favour. I don't know anyone there other than my friend who's borderline incel also.

 

[jojoyou]

It was ages ago, bro. And it wasn't anything other than a favour. I don't know anyone there other than my friend who's borderline incel also.

Idk then nigga, I literally forced myself to make more friends when I started gym and it’s going well rn. I don’t have any other idea for you

 

[johnsmithcel]

Idk then nigga, I literally forced myself to make more friends when I started gym and it’s going well rn. I don’t have any other idea for you

what, you just approached people and started talking to them?
Actually you just reminded me that some Indian guy came over to me a few weeks ago and started talking to me, but I think he's an incel too jfl. I actually saw him cold approach some fat ass bitch and get rejected.

 

[jojoyou]

what, you just approached people and started talking to them?
Actually you just reminded me that some Indian guy came over to me a few weeks ago and started talking to me, but I think he's an incel too jfl. I actually saw him cold approach some fat ass bitch and get rejected.

I started out as a beginner so I talked a lot with the trainer so eventually through him he introduced me to the other gymbros and yeah joked around with them but I never approached a female jfl @ approaching them in a gym. But yeah that’s how I became acquainted with them all.

 

[johnsmithcel]

I started out as a beginner so I talked a lot with the trainer so eventually through him he introduced me to the other gymbros and yeah joked around with them but I never approached a female jfl @ approaching them in a gym. But yeah that’s how I became acquainted with them all.

hmm, might look into trying to get to know some gym brahs, but i'm still too DYEL for me to take them into their crew I think.

 

[jojoyou]

hmm, might look into trying to get to know some gym brahs, but i'm still too DYEL for me to take them into their crew I think.

What does dyel mean?

 

[johnsmithcel]

What does dyel mean?

"do you even lift?"

 

[jojoyou]

"do you even lift?"

I am also still too dyel tbh, trying to bulk hard because my metabolism is fucked up

 

[johnsmithcel]

I am also still too dyel tbh, trying to bulk hard because my metabolism is fucked upView attachment 2006615

Nah, you look good tbh. Focus on arms more.

 

[jojoyou]

Nah, you look good tbh. Focus on arms more.

Trying lol my fucked up long arms are a curse