help me get over my ex please

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bump, help my nigga out
 
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You're slayer, just get another one.
 
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warmth said:
if only we could be like women. men actually fall in love bud
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women act like romantics but arent, men dont act like romantics but are
 
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sub5179 said:
its insane how fast they move on :feelswhy:
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it's mostly because they are analytical about relationships, more than us. when they break up, they had already made the decision weeks or even months ago.

so when you start the grief phase, she's already almost fully healed.
 
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warmth said:
it's mostly because they are analytical about relationships, more than us. when they break up, they had already made the decision weeks or even months ago.

so when you start the grief phase, she's already almost fully healed.
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in the end i always get stonewalled lol.
 
warmth said:
it's mostly because they are analytical about relationships, more than us. when they break up, they had already made the decision weeks or even months ago.

so when you start the grief phase, she's already almost fully healed.
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What grief phase jfl
 
sub5179 said:
in the end i always get stonewalled lol.
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also normal. women are biologically afraid of confronting men. birth control and laws can make them less afraid, but a fairly healthy woman will always be scared of you when things go south, either she admits it or not.

in a natural environment, you could literally kill her on the spot.
 
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warmth said:
also normal. women are biologically afraid of confronting men. birth control and laws can make them less afraid, but a fairly healthy woman will always be scared of you when things go south, either she admits it or not.

in a natural environment, you could literally kill her on the spot.
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do they come back? weve been back like 5/6 times, broke up 2 months ago almost, had sex 2/3 weeks ago lol. said she missed me and loved me then back to no contact lol
 
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sub5179 said:
do they come back? weve been back like 5/6 times, broke up 2 months ago almost, had sex 2/3 weeks ago lol. said she missed me and loved me then back to no contact lol
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oh, then it's different. you still hold control of the relationship.
 
sub5179 said:
do they come back? weve been back like 5/6 times, broke up 2 months ago almost, had sex 2/3 weeks ago lol. said she missed me and loved me then back to no contact lol
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they do come back but it doesn't sound like for the right reasons. it sounds like you guys just keep coming back to each other because of the familiarity/safety aspect. this is not good though, she sees you as a backup option that she can freely come back to anytime. you want to know how to get over a girl? realize how badly she treats you, leaving you constantly to go do whatever the fuck she wants. in my head, I get over girls like that almost instantly because what the fuck is there to miss? she’s no good for you, focus on improving yourself and the rest will follow.
 
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valcovax said:
they do come back but it doesn't sound like for the right reasons. it sounds like you guys just keep coming back to each other because of the familiarity/safety aspect. this is not good though, she sees you as a backup option that she can freely come back to anytime. you want to know how to get over a girl? realize how badly she treats you, leaving you constantly to go do whatever the fuck she wants. in my head, I get over girls like that almost instantly because what the fuck is there to miss? she’s no good for you, focus on improving yourself and the rest will follow.
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holy shit she treats me like fucking shit. i have attachment issues, she even stonewalls me/ ghost me. its always her that want to break up and get back cus when i wanna get back its no. i cant say no im jus chasin the feeling of her. thinking of her all day. i know im just a stupid teenager but shes really all i want. and if dont i dont really care i know my life isnt over. first love theory. dont even know man its so complicated, so hard
 
valcovax said:
they do come back but it doesn't sound like for the right reasons. it sounds like you guys just keep coming back to each other because of the familiarity/safety aspect. this is not good though, she sees you as a backup option that she can freely come back to anytime. you want to know how to get over a girl? realize how badly she treats you, leaving you constantly to go do whatever the fuck she wants. in my head, I get over girls like that almost instantly because what the fuck is there to miss? she’s no good for you, focus on improving yourself and the rest will follow.
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she also "pinky promiesd" i know it sounds corny but she promised to stop partying and the next week she broke up with me to party lol. as soon as she got with her hoe ass nigger freinds it went downhill. their always the reason. + im always there for her when she didnt have no freidns even when her partents were fighting/ her mom even got cancer and my family did everything for them and as soon as it got better she left me. l:feelswhy::feelswhy::feelswhy::feelswhy::feelswhy::feelswhy:
 
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she also "pinky promiesd" i know it sounds corny but she promised to stop partying and the next week she broke up with me to party lol. as soon as she got with her hoe ass nigger freinds it went downhill. their always the reason. + im always there for her when she didnt have no freidns even when her partents were fighting/ her mom even got cancer and my family did everything for them and as soon as it got better she left me. l:feelswhy::feelswhy::feelswhy::feelswhy::feelswhy::feelswhy:
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listen man, you think I don’t know how it feels? probably about 2 weeks ago I finally manned up and left the girl I thought I was going to marry. do you know how much I loved this girl? probably equally as much as you do to this girl or more, hell, I still love her hella, but some people are just better caring for, not being in a relationship with. you are doing everything you can to be a good man to her, so don’t act like you are at fault here, don’t overcomplicate what is going on here, she takes you for granted, dosent respect you, let’s her friends heavily influence her whore habits all while she knows she has you tightly wrapped around her finger. I know it’s hard bro, but let it go. she will not magically get better, she will not stop leaving you, and you won’t be happy. accept it, the person she is right now is not even close to a person you should want to settle down and start a family with. the next time she tries coming at you, be a fucking man and tell her no, and thank her for everything she’s done for you and that you enjoyed all the time spent with her, I trust you understand this is for the best
 
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were you her first?
 
valcovax said:
listen man, you think I don’t know how it feels? probably about 2 weeks ago I finally manned up and left the girl I thought I was going to marry. do you know how much I loved this girl? probably equally as much as you do to this girl or more, hell, I still love her hella, but some people are just better caring for, not being in a relationship with. you are doing everything you can to be a good man to her, so don’t act like you are at fault here, don’t overcomplicate what is going on here, she takes you for granted, dosent respect you, let’s her friends heavily influence her whore habits all while she knows she has you tightly wrapped around her finger. I know it’s hard bro, but let it go. she will not magically get better, she will not stop leaving you, and you won’t be happy. accept it, the person she is right now is not even close to a person you should want to settle down and start a family with. the next time she tries coming at you, be a fucking man and tell her no, and thank her for everything she’s done for you and that you enjoyed all the time spent with her, I trust you understand this is for the best
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ts is going to change me lol. i really like how you think. thank you :love:
 
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Var ingen cuck och bryt all kontakt du har med henne, aldrig mer ska du ge henne uppmärksamhet, det är det enda som jag tror funkar, men jag har inte nog med erfarenhet för att vara säker på det
 
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gymcel64 said:
Var ingen cuck och bryt all kontakt du har med henne, aldrig mer ska du ge henne uppmärksamhet, det är det enda som jag tror funkar, men jag har inte nog med erfarenhet för att vara säker på det
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tack för tipsen, uppskattar det. är typ blockat överallt men får väl ta det som det kommer
 
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