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I'm 15, I've never had a gf ever unless you count the time my crush asked me out as a joke and I said yes...
Since that moment (5 years ago) I haven't spoke to a women unless I got asked something.

I'm very high inhib and maybe nd, I've always been shy talking to girls since im an ugly kid.
So basicly yiu can say that I was aware of looks and stuff, I got redpilled/blackpilled between the age of 9-11.

Last year I almost had a girlfriend for the first time but ofc... I fumbled:feelspepo:
She said that I wasn't good socially and therefore she ended up not liking me anymore... all of this lasted about a week before we got separated due to the vacation ending, she even wanted to spend an evening at the river with my but only if someone else came aswell just to keep the conversations going.

This year I might have a chance again, I just asked everyone in the vacation group when they went and she's going right when I leave to go home but maybe if I beg my parents I could stay with my grandparents and than I will end up seeing her there.

So basicly all of this text leads to one question. How can I get with her?
She's basicly high mtb/low htb so I feel like we somewhat are in the same looksmatch now since I was around mid ltn last year when she liked me.

Soooooo what could I do/change to up my chances of removing the khhv tag:feelsokman:


This is me now I'm 15 and 180cm (she's about 170cm)

Help me out please, I haven't even held hands with a girl yet...
 
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good forum to ask for advice on such things:feelshah:
 
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im still somewhat texting with her in the gc and the sweat is actually dripping down my arms.
Im way to nervous to even text her imagine speaking irl...
 
ngl at 15 i was an oblivious high ltn and i pulled like every girl i wanted to get with at my school
no fucking idea how

my main tip would be to not overthink this unless youre very apparently failing, the only thing you should be kinda aware of is shit tests and how to not fail them (although idek how applicable it is at ur age)
 
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ngl at 15 i was an oblivious high ltn and i pulled like every girl i wanted to get with at my school
How bro... I haven't even held hands yet:feelswah:
my main tip would be to not overthink this unless youre failing
The thing is I actually can't talk... I just have no idea what to say and whenever I speak to girls it's so dry and awkward.
And I overthink everything literally, I try to calculate my breaths, movements, words etc. After I'm done with.a convo I always think about the stuff I've said and what could gone better so that's how brutal my situation is...
 
if ur actually that high inhib u may have to take smth to make u lower inhib bro 😭
 
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if ur actually that high inhib u may have to take smth to make u lower inhib bro 😭
later on yes definitely, I'm even scared to ascend bc of the reactions of people:forcedsmile:
Like I just feel weird buying skincare products which results me in having none and basically leads me to just ldar the entire day
 
Soooooo what could I do/change to up my chances of removing the khhv tag:feelsokman:
Firstly you aren't "khhv," most people don't even get their girlfriend until around 18 - 19, and highschool relationships usually don't count since most people that get into relationships are NT-Maxxed and it usually has nothing to do with looks. (Also why some people think certain things e.g. height don't matter, because they see dudes of all shapes and sizes dating at their highschool).

Secondly, it's just a matter of confidence honestly, you seem not the slightest bit of confident in yourself, you have to force yourself to continue conversations and be the lead, that's what a man is expected to do usually as a norm. To train yourself I'd say to go out and try getting in conversations more, lines at restaurants are an excellent place for example, just try to open up a conversation with someone next to you and see how it goes, obviously don't force it, make sure you have enough of a reason to open something up, but even a little small talk can go a long way for your self esteem.

You aren't unattractive, you could easily get with her, it's just a question of commitment.
 
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I'm 15, I've never had a gf ever unless you count the time my crush asked me out as a joke and I said yes...
Since that moment (5 years ago) I haven't spoke to a women unless I got asked something.

I'm very high inhib and maybe nd, I've always been shy talking to girls since im an ugly kid.
So basicly yiu can say that I was aware of looks and stuff, I got redpilled/blackpilled between the age of 9-11.

Last year I almost had a girlfriend for the first time but ofc... I fumbled:feelspepo:
She said that I wasn't good socially and therefore she ended up not liking me anymore... all of this lasted about a week before we got separated due to the vacation ending, she even wanted to spend an evening at the river with my but only if someone else came aswell just to keep the conversations going.

This year I might have a chance again, I just asked everyone in the vacation group when they went and she's going right when I leave to go home but maybe if I beg my parents I could stay with my grandparents and than I will end up seeing her there.

So basicly all of this text leads to one question. How can I get with her?
She's basicly high mtb/low htb so I feel like we somewhat are in the same looksmatch now since I was around mid ltn last year when she liked me.

Soooooo what could I do/change to up my chances of removing the khhv tag:feelsokman:


This is me now I'm 15 and 180cm (she's about 170cm)

Help me out please, I haven't even held hands with a girl yet...

like idk.... just be chad i guess
but if been real, just do something to lower your inhib, go drink with her, alcohol always does his job
 
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later on yes definitely, I'm even scared to ascend bc of the reactions of people:forcedsmile:
im in the same position as u tbh, ive ascended from ltn to hhtn (will show pics if u pm me) and im 16. i have diagnosed anxiety and depression and honestly the reactions ive received from girls and people telling me i should model has made me feel a lot better so dont be scared thats just stupid 😭
Like I just feel weird buying skincare products which results me in having none and basically leads me to just ldar the entire day
wdym
 
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I'm 15, I've never had a gf ever unless you count the time my crush asked me out as a joke and I said yes...
Since that moment (5 years ago) I haven't spoke to a women unless I got asked something.

I'm very high inhib and maybe nd, I've always been shy talking to girls since im an ugly kid.
So basicly yiu can say that I was aware of looks and stuff, I got redpilled/blackpilled between the age of 9-11.

Last year I almost had a girlfriend for the first time but ofc... I fumbled:feelspepo:
She said that I wasn't good socially and therefore she ended up not liking me anymore... all of this lasted about a week before we got separated due to the vacation ending, she even wanted to spend an evening at the river with my but only if someone else came aswell just to keep the conversations going.

This year I might have a chance again, I just asked everyone in the vacation group when they went and she's going right when I leave to go home but maybe if I beg my parents I could stay with my grandparents and than I will end up seeing her there.

So basicly all of this text leads to one question. How can I get with her?
She's basicly high mtb/low htb so I feel like we somewhat are in the same looksmatch now since I was around mid ltn last year when she liked me.

Soooooo what could I do/change to up my chances of removing the khhv tag:feelsokman:


This is me now I'm 15 and 180cm (she's about 170cm)

Help me out please, I haven't even held hands with a girl yet...

If you're having trouble talking to some MTB chick its over lmao, on a real note just ask how shes doing/what she did today and expand on it. Ask questions, ask for more detail shit like that
 
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Firstly you aren't "khhv," most people don't even get their girlfriend until around 18 - 19,
how am i not khhv? i havent kissed, hold hands, hugged and im a virgin, and yeah if you dont count school relationships thats true bc thats when you finish school:feelskek:
Most people in my class have kissed and shit and im like the only one that hasnt.
Secondly, it's just a matter of confidence honestly, you seem not the slightest bit of confident in yourself, you have to force yourself to continue conversations and be the lead, that's what a man is expected to do usually as a norm. To train yourself I'd say to go out and try getting in conversations more, lines at restaurants are an excellent place for example, just try to open up a conversation with someone next to you and see how it goes, obviously don't force it, make sure you have enough of a reason to open something up, but even a little small talk can go a long way for your self esteem.

You aren't unattractive, you could easily get with her, it's just a question of commitment.
you cant just say 'get confident bro' i just cant no matter what ive got no idea what to say, i can talk to some people like males and elders but ive just got no idea what to say when speaking to a girl my age.
 
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i just feel weird when my parents ask me 'why did you buy that?'
i barely talk to my parents but i do have a good relationship with them and im gratefull for having them but the reason im like that is just all mentally.
 
stfu incel
you joined 10 days ago faggot, youve got no idea how brutal my situation is.
You probably dont know shit and your on here bc of tiktok (also the reason for me but i was red/blackpilled at 10)
 
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but is there anything i could do quickly to look better?
I will dye my eyebrows friday and ill show results(y)
 
how am i not khhv? i havent kissed, hold hands, hugged and im a virgin, and yeah if you dont count school relationships thats true bc thats when you finish school:feelskek:
Have you actively tried to get into relationships? Have you gotten into NT stuff? Do you actively try to talk to your classmates about NT topics? Probably not. Highschool is just like middle and elementary school, the people who were popular in the last two schools will be popular in highschool because everyone knows them. From the way you talk I can guess that you haven't tried to get into these things.


you cant just say 'get confident bro' i just cant no matter what ive got no idea what to say, i can talk to some people like males and elders but ive just got no idea what to say when speaking to a girl my age.
What I mean is forcing yourself to be less inhib. That is my method for it as well and it's worked perfectly. Whenever you feel too nervous to go up to someone for something or to do something in front of people, you should force yourself. It'll bruteforce the walls of inhibition down that you have built. Most people on the site are too scared to do that so they hide under things like drugs in hopes that it'll make them NT but that'll destroy their brain and health, whereas if they were to just force themselves instead of hiding, they would see real progress. This is a different type of looksmax, this one requires you to force yourself to do it.
 
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i just feel weird when my parents ask me 'why did you buy that?'
i barely talk to my parents but i do have a good relationship with them and im gratefull for having them but the reason im like that is just all mentally.
ur parents dont support u in stuff like that?

brutal parentpill i guess. they have me going to a dermatologist regularly, are going to pay for my tret, and they let me take compounds for bones lol
 
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ur parents dont support u in stuff like that?

brutal parentpill i guess. they have me going to a dermatologist regularly, are going to pay for my tret, and they let me take compounds for bones lol
nah mine would let me do anything aswell but i just feel weird that they know that im trying to improve my looks
 
Have you actively tried to get into relationships? Have you gotten into NT stuff? Do you actively try to talk to your classmates about NT topics? Probably not. Highschool is just like middle and elementary school, the people who were popular in the last two schools will be popular in highschool because everyone knows them. From the way you talk I can guess that you haven't tried to get into these things.
im not in america bro its not that easy, its way worse in the eu. Even worse in the goodlooking and tall nordics the competition is high.
But yeah i do agree with everything you say since that unfortunately is the truth and basicly the only way except from taking drugs.
 
ur parents dont support u in stuff like that?

brutal parentpill i guess. they have me going to a dermatologist regularly, are going to pay for my tret, and they let me take compounds for bones lol
Most parents don’t. Your just very lucky
 
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nah mine would let me do anything aswell but i just feel weird that they know that im trying to improve my looks
why would they care? my parents even know about the blackpill and terminology, i taught them it. they know the end goal i am trying to achieve idk why u have a problem with letting them know what your goal is.
 
im not in america bro its not that easy, its way worse in the eu. Even worse in the goodlooking and tall nordics the competition is high.
But yeah i do agree with everything you say since that unfortunately is the truth and basicly the only way except from taking drugs.
Really? I’m in America and it’s very hard to get a gf here, can’t imagine EU
 
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why would they care? my parents even know about the blackpill and terminology, i taught them it. they know the end goal i am trying to achieve idk why u have a problem with letting them know what your goal is.
its because im a mentalcel, they would probably understand everything and they know that looksmatter aswell.
 
Really? I’m in America and it’s very hard to get a gf here, can’t imagine EU
i mean america is like the more popular you are the more girls but in the EU everyone is like more equal ofc theres some popular groups but we have nothing crazy like sport teams and stuff
 
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Start accutane to get rid of that nasty acne(not short term, but it will ascend you), dye eybrows+eyelashes and then curl eyelashes! Also to get rid of inhibitions take propranolol 40mg before date
 
im not in america bro its not that easy, its way worse in the eu. Even worse in the goodlooking and tall nordics the competition is high.
But yeah i do agree with everything you say since that unfortunately is the truth and basicly the only way except from taking drugs.
If it's a physical analysis you want then that's what you'll get.

The main issue I see is your eyes. You mentioned you were EU so I'll use Zeta as an example. (Ignore the dumb thumbnail photo.)

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Take a look at his eyes, before and after. The eyes kind of resemble yours in shape, and they're the main part of his ascension. I believe getting your eye area to look like his is ideal for you. Your eyebrows are also mid set and unideal in shape and length. I recommend minoxidil for the eyebrows, as well as dyeing them which you've already said to do. A little bit of squinting could also help you (what Zeta does as well, as you can see his eyebrows used to be high set as well.)

Your coloring is the second issue I see, and the more I look at this, the more I realize that you could just use Zeta as your primary example, as his coloring would look good on you. There are guides on the forum on how to achieve his coloring and I'm pretty sure he should have a few videos on it himself.

Another thing you could work on is your body fat %, it's a bit hard to tell because of the anglemaxxed videos you've provided but it seems you could have a bit of face fat/bloat (whichever it is) and that's something pretty easy to work on that'll make you look much better when combined with the two other things I've already stated here.
 
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i mean america is like the more popular you are the more girls but in the EU everyone is like more equal ofc theres some popular groups but we have nothing crazy like sport teams and stuff
I think it’s more so the fact that girls have crazy high standards every where
 
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its because im a mentalcel, they would probably understand everything and they know that looksmatter aswell.
so just get ur skincare shit i dont see the problem 😭
 
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The main issue I see is your eyes. You mentioned you were EU so I'll use Zeta as an example. (Ignore the dumb thumbnail photo.)

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Take a look at his eyes, before and after. The eyes kind of resemble yours in shape, and they're the main part of his ascension. I believe getting your eye area to look like his is ideal for you. Your eyebrows are also mid set and unideal in shape and length. I recommend minoxidil for the eyebrows, as well as dyeing them which you've already said to do. A little bit of squinting could also help you (what Zeta does as well, as you can see his eyebrows used to be high set as well.)
yeah i will use topical minoxidil aswell and do some light squinting if necessary, the problem with eyebrow setness is that its due to your orbital compactness meaning the lower your supraorbital is the lower youre eyebrows can become (theory)

Another thing you could work on is your body fat %, it's a bit hard to tell because of the anglemaxxed videos you've provided but it seems you could have a bit of face fat/bloat (whichever it is) and that's something pretty easy to work on that'll make you look much better when combined with the two other things I've already stated here.
I wouldnt say that im fat but i can for sure be leaner,


and yeah i do have some bloat due to my bad diet and my 10k weekly steps. I will try to improve that
Your coloring is the second issue I see, and the more I look at this, the more I realize that you could just use Zeta as your primary example, as his coloring would look good on you. There are guides on the forum on how to achieve his coloring and I'm pretty sure he should have a few videos on it himself.
i will use accutane, ghk-cu and sunscreen to fix my skin problems and ill try to maintain a good tan.
another big problem i have is my teeth color so i will probably do a DIY to try and fix that.
and yet again another problem... i dont think ill use contacts while im still at school because everyone will say that im the weird kid who uses contacts to change eyecolor but later on in life i will definetly wear them.
 
I'm 15, I've never had a gf ever unless you count the time my crush asked me out as a joke and I said yes...
Since that moment (5 years ago) I haven't spoke to a women unless I got asked something.

I'm very high inhib and maybe nd, I've always been shy talking to girls since im an ugly kid.
So basicly yiu can say that I was aware of looks and stuff, I got redpilled/blackpilled between the age of 9-11.

Last year I almost had a girlfriend for the first time but ofc... I fumbled:feelspepo:
She said that I wasn't good socially and therefore she ended up not liking me anymore... all of this lasted about a week before we got separated due to the vacation ending, she even wanted to spend an evening at the river with my but only if someone else came aswell just to keep the conversations going.

This year I might have a chance again, I just asked everyone in the vacation group when they went and she's going right when I leave to go home but maybe if I beg my parents I could stay with my grandparents and than I will end up seeing her there.

So basicly all of this text leads to one question. How can I get with her?
She's basicly high mtb/low htb so I feel like we somewhat are in the same looksmatch now since I was around mid ltn last year when she liked me.

Soooooo what could I do/change to up my chances of removing the khhv tag:feelsokman:


This is me now I'm 15 and 180cm (she's about 170cm)

Help me out please, I haven't even held hands with a girl yet...

Have you tried getting a boyfriend?:ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO:
 
I might actually get her dudes, I've got no idea if this is for some random other boy or me but as yall know I'm a mentalcel.

She reposted these since the last time we talked.
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