Help pls

[jealousngreedy]

I switched into the class of a girl I like and she thinks im charismatic asf and one of her friends are already in there but I mog him to death in confidence, looks, and height which are most important to me and im the life of the conversations, their also both older than me and that makes me feel good that I truly think I matter more than that kid. Another one of their friends is moving into the class and hes kinda fucked up in the looks bc of his hair and I think hes kinda quiet but this fucker is like half a foot taller than me. PLEASE give me advice or something on how I can just fuck him over as in confidence like the only ideas I have rn are to just be humorous like usual or just bring a ton of energy for like the first 15 minutes im in the class and then just leave and hopefully theyll be quiet without me but both of those arent guarenteed the slightest bit so yea pls help. (Im only 5’9 btw and the guy who height mogs me is two grades above me so I really need to show him hes worthless to me)

 

[IndecentEyes]

dnr

 

[chud10282892]

yeah bro such a big problem

 

[greylurker]

dnr

 

[greylurker]

Hey, let's slow down a second.


What you're actually describing is a good situation — you switched classes, the girl you like thinks you're charismatic, and you're naturally the center of conversation. That's a genuinely strong position. You don't need a strategy to "fuck someone over" from there.


The plan you're describing — sizing up another guy's height and looks, deciding he's "worthless," and trying to out-compete him for dominance in a friend group — isn't going to make you feel more secure. It'll do the opposite. Chasing "mogging" as a goal keeps you on a treadmill where there's always someone taller, someone else's friend, some new threat to neutralize. That's not confidence, that's vigilance, and it's exhausting to run on.


The stuff that's actually working for you — humor, energy, being someone people want to talk to — has nothing to do with the other guy at all. It works because it's about you being enjoyable to be around. The second you redirect that energy toward "making him feel small," you're not being charismatic anymore, you're being competitive and a little insecure, and people — especially the girl you're trying to impress — tend to clock that fast. Guys who need to visibly diminish other guys in a group usually read as less secure, not more.


Genuine confidence isn't "he means nothing to me." It's not needing him to mean anything at all, in either direction. You don't need him to be worthless. You don't need to be taller than him. Being 5'9" and being the most engaging, funny, easy-to-be-around person in that class is a completely undefeated position if you actually own it instead of measuring yourself against him.


If you want actual advice: just keep doing what you're already doing — bring the energy, be funny, be genuinely interested in people — and drop the framing where the new guy is an opponent. Be normal to him. Include him if it comes up naturally. That's what actually makes someone look secure and high-status in a group, not freezing someone out or trying to visibly outshine him.


What's actually making you want to knock him down — is it the height thing specifically, or something else going on?

 

[jealousngreedy]

Hey, let's slow down a second.


What you're actually describing is a good situation — you switched classes, the girl you like thinks you're charismatic, and you're naturally the center of conversation. That's a genuinely strong position. You don't need a strategy to "fuck someone over" from there.


The plan you're describing — sizing up another guy's height and looks, deciding he's "worthless," and trying to out-compete him for dominance in a friend group — isn't going to make you feel more secure. It'll do the opposite. Chasing "mogging" as a goal keeps you on a treadmill where there's always someone taller, someone else's friend, some new threat to neutralize. That's not confidence, that's vigilance, and it's exhausting to run on.


The stuff that's actually working for you — humor, energy, being someone people want to talk to — has nothing to do with the other guy at all. It works because it's about you being enjoyable to be around. The second you redirect that energy toward "making him feel small," you're not being charismatic anymore, you're being competitive and a little insecure, and people — especially the girl you're trying to impress — tend to clock that fast. Guys who need to visibly diminish other guys in a group usually read as less secure, not more.


Genuine confidence isn't "he means nothing to me." It's not needing him to mean anything at all, in either direction. You don't need him to be worthless. You don't need to be taller than him. Being 5'9" and being the most engaging, funny, easy-to-be-around person in that class is a completely undefeated position if you actually own it instead of measuring yourself against him.


If you want actual advice: just keep doing what you're already doing — bring the energy, be funny, be genuinely interested in people — and drop the framing where the new guy is an opponent. Be normal to him. Include him if it comes up naturally. That's what actually makes someone look secure and high-status in a group, not freezing someone out or trying to visibly outshine him.


What's actually making you want to knock him down — is it the height thing specifically, or something else going on?

Why chat gpt

 

[jealousngreedy]

yeah bro such a big problem

It is a big problem I feel like you dont understand why ppl ask for advice or something. Im not here to understand your pain and compare our lives, im here to improve mine.