help to be nt

[Deleted member 116288]

Im not the worst looking on this forum, I get attention from girls, it's after that which is the issue. I have horrible anxiety and am only really partially neurotypical when with friends.I think I've known this all my life but still, after some stuff from the recent couple of weeks, I feel that if anyone had some advice, it'd help.

 

[Deleted member 116288]

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[deadbydecember]

be your self king!

 

[Deleted member 116288]

be your self king!

thanks bro, i mess with the tg pfp

 

[IHATEINDIANS]

how old are you? every year after like, 16 it gets drastically harder. most of your social development happens from like 12-16 and basically sets you up the rest of your life. maybe could be extended for college at a lesser impact? it's technically 'changeable' but the further you are behind the much harder it gets and you'll need to do lots of social re conditioning

 

[Deleted member 116288]

how old are you? every year after like, 16 it gets drastically harder. most of your social development happens from like 12-16 and basically sets you up the rest of your life. maybe could be extended for college at a lesser impact? it's technically 'changeable' but the further you are behind the much harder it gets and you'll need to do lots of social re conditioning

im not gonna lie, im 15 but used to be fat and felt that also was a great aspect in increasing my social awkwardness. Still before that I was an akward child but still feel those years fat worsened it.

 

[ihateexplaining]

Im not the worst looking on this forum, I get attention from girls, it's after that which is the issue. I have horrible anxiety and am only really partially neurotypical when with friends.I think I've known this all my life but still, after some stuff from the recent couple of weeks, I feel that if anyone had some advice, it'd help.

I relate to the anxiety. From my own personal experience trying to force myself to be likeable it only ends up with me acting like a fool and regreting it almost as soon as i come home. The best way to fake being NT is through substances, try getting prescribed something by your doctor, tell them how crippling your anxiety is, exaggerating helps, and see how it goes from there.

 

[Deleted member 116288]

I relate to the anxiety. From my own personal experience trying to force myself to be likeable it only ends up with me acting like a fool and regreting it almost as soon as i come home. The best way to fake being NT is through substances, try getting prescribed something by your doctor, tell them how crippling your anxiety is, exaggerating helps, and see how it goes from there.

I have been pretty popular before, but finally zoned out of trying to be liked by everybody after i realized it was just making me a horrible friend. Thanks for the suggestions on the subtances i may research more this summer about possible substances

 

[ihateexplaining]

I have been pretty popular before, but finally zoned out of trying to be liked by everybody after i realized it was just making me a horrible friend. Thanks for the suggestions on the subtances i may research more this summer about possible substances

glad to have helped, hope you beat your anxiety bro.

 

[Deleted member 161065]

I get attention from girls

DNR

 

[Deleted member 116288]

glad to have helped, hope you beat your anxiety bro.

Thanks, same goes to you

 

[Deleted member 116288]

DNR

Not saying I look good, but usually the only time girls do show me attention is because they dont know how akward i am yet and have only seen my face