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so this foid in my class, we used to be buddies in 9th grade since i am a late maturing loser and she took me under her wings cause i was bullied. but now 2 years later we barely talk and i had a puberty ascension (Still in process) and she has been dropping ioi's but i am lowkey schizo so im not sure tbh. anyways yesterday she asked me if i see as a man that her shoes are a little bit different color all smiling and shit , i said yes i see it all smiling and shit too and i went back to instagram reels because im such a worthless looser. anyways an hour later she sat down next to me on the bench and asked whats up and did i get tired of (an activity i will not disclose) and i just said yeah and was looking away and fiddling with my hands because im scared of women, then she was just looking at her friend in silence and smiling and propably speaking with mouth movement (but im lowkey schizo so idk) and then her friend sat next to her and i was still just looking around like a retard then the bell rang. should i make a move or smth? i wanted to wait until i finish ascending completely to max my chances but maybe she already likes me? what yall think?:feelsrope:
 
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I had a crush on a girl but learned she doesn't like me and was just being nice, thing you have to realize is you have to find out if she's a foid that's nice to everybody so she can personality max and gain social credit amongst other moids and foids, if she only acts like this towards you and she isn't a foid that changes around the bruzz and other huzz, and is 100% herself with you and while speaking to her that would mean that she most likely likes you and shes worth either asking out or trying to flirt with her.
 
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I had a crush on a girl but learned she doesn't like me and was just being nice, thing you have to realize is you have to find out if she's a foid that's nice to everybody so she can personality max and gain social credit amongst other moids and foids, if she only acts like this towards you and she isn't a foid that changes around the bruzz and other huzz, and is 100% herself with you and while speaking to her that would mean that she most likely likes you and shes worth either asking out or trying to flirt with her.
shes only nice to me, but other people dont really need the niceness tho so idk
 
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im htn btw and she is giga stacy to me
 
also she is texting a guy on her phone (idk who) and today i heard she say he's dry as fuck rn
 
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shes only nice to me, but other people dont really need the niceness tho so idk
Nigga how abused of a dog are you :lul:

Ask her if she wants to come over next time this happens after some small talk

Do you have her number already? If so I'll drop game for you
 
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Nigga how abused of a dog are you :lul:
dawg you cant even imagine
Ask her if she wants to come over next time this happens after some small talk
thats a little bit too soon bruh dont you think? like we barely know eachother, i was thinking ill ask her what are her intentions with me and then ill ask her if she wants tome come to an abandoned place with me , ik she likes them too cause i stalked her tiktok reposts
Do you have her number already? If so I'll drop game for you
no, around here people text on instagram or messenger but ik her instagram. once we were like 6 people in class and she wrote her insta on the chalk board, me and 2 other guys were there but they both have gfs, so maybe that was for me. i havent followed yet
 
so this foid in my class, we used to be buddies in 9th grade since i am a late maturing loser and she took me under her wings cause i was bullied. but now 2 years later we barely talk and i had a puberty ascension (Still in process) and she has been dropping ioi's but i am lowkey schizo so im not sure tbh. anyways yesterday she asked me if i see as a man that her shoes are a little bit different color all smiling and shit , i said yes i see it all smiling and shit too and i went back to instagram reels because im such a worthless looser. anyways an hour later she sat down next to me on the bench and asked whats up and did i get tired of (an activity i will not disclose) and i just said yeah and was looking away and fiddling with my hands because im scared of women, then she was just looking at her friend in silence and smiling and propably speaking with mouth movement (but im lowkey schizo so idk) and then her friend sat next to her and i was still just looking around like a retard then the bell rang. should i make a move or smth? i wanted to wait until i finish ascending completely to max my chances but maybe she already likes me? what yall think?:feelsrope:
Why not you know her better so you know what to expect.

If you can tell by gut feelings that she acts different towards you, why don't you ask her out to hang out somewhere together, if you are autist best route will be if you take her to cinema, ask what kind of movie genre she likes and update her next day on your plans where you want to take her (bonus points if you are willing to buy tickets for both, so it will feel more date alike, but make sure she is comfortable about it cuz some chicks doesn't like to feel like they owe you and rather go dutch to avoid this discomfort, don't buy into betabuxx scarecrow redpill sells you, since you are not paying her full dinner set in a 5 star michelin restaurant).

If you actually see each other, just hug her as a "hi" and walk close next to her to that place, if you give her this much openings she should be trying to shoot her moves on you with an "accidental" brushes and touches and from now you can just go with the flow.

Seriously this is not that hard and it doesn't require you jumping through the loops to get her interested with some kind of mind games IF SHE REALLY LIKES YOU AND MEAN IT.
Also this is just further confirmation, whether she just felt flirty for fun, you read into it too far, or she actually is too much of a scared bitch to escalate it further, she already instilled a thought in your mind that she might like you and it will stay in your head as a mixed signal, unless you confirm it early enough, she will do it over and over to the point you will get obsessed and lose your mind, don't wait wondering what she wants, I was excatly in same position and limerencing for MONTHS was like my guts getting scrapped off the flesh and taking salt bath every second.

Just remember to keep eye contact while talking to her, not to cross your arms and keep your body language open.

AND DON'T ASK HER WHAT HER INTENTIONS ARE AS YOU SUGGESTED, UNLESS SHE FIDDLES WITH YOU BEING BUSY AND COMING BACK FOR ATTENTION, YOU WILL ONLY SCARE HER AWAY IF YOU JUST CORNER HER LIKE THAT OUT OF THE BLUE AND WILL MAKE HER THINK YOU FIND HER ANNOYING.
 
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dawg you cant even imagine

thats a little bit too soon bruh dont you think? like we barely know eachother, i was thinking ill ask her what are her intentions with me and then ill ask her if she wants tome come to an abandoned place with me , ik she likes them too cause i stalked her tiktok reposts
NIGGA :lul:

DO NOT INVITE HER TO AN ABANDONED PLACE

don't ask what her intentions are either that sounds retarded

Be direct women don't want this loverboy shit they want action

You gotta T up and fuck her at your or her house

Be more direct when she talks to you again, make eye contact and actively try to stimulate her

Maybe even lean In to ask if she wants to come over on the weekend while you lightly grab her shoulder and whisper it

Back out while maintaining eye contact

Don't break eye contact until she answers :ogre:

If she says yes then get her number and pick a day
 
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Why not you know her better so you know what to expect.

If you can tell by gut feelings that she acts different towards you, why don't you ask her out to hang out somewhere together, if you are autist best route will be if you take her to cinema, ask what kind of movie genre she likes and update her next day on your plans where you want to take her (bonus points if you are willing to buy tickets for both, so it will feel more date alike, but make sure she is comfortable about it cuz some chicks doesn't like to feel like they owe you and rather go dutch to avoid this discomfort, don't buy into betabuxx scarecrow redpill sells you, since you are not paying her full dinner set in a 5 star michelin restaurant).

If you actually see each other, just hug her as a "hi" and walk close next to her to that place, if you give her this much openings she should be trying to shoot her moves on you with an "accidental" brushes and touches and from now you can just go with the flow.

Seriously this is not that hard and it doesn't require you jumping through the loops to get her interested with some kind of mind games IF SHE REALLY LIKES YOU AND MEAN IT.
Also this is just further confirmation, whether she just felt flirty for fun, you read into it too far, or she actually is too much of a scared bitch to escalate it further, she already instilled a thought in your mind that she might like you and it will stay in your head as a mixed signal, unless you confirm it early enough, she will do it over and over to the point you will get obsessed and lose your mind, don't wait wondering what she wants, I was excatly in same position and limerencing for MONTHS was like my guts getting scrapped off the flesh and taking salt bath every second.

Just remember to keep eye contact while talking to her, not to cross your arms and keep your body language open.

AND DON'T ASK HER WHAT HER INTENTIONS ARE AS YOU SUGGESTED, UNLESS SHE FIDDLES WITH YOU BEING BUSY AND COMING BACK FOR ATTENTION, YOU WILL ONLY SCARE HER AWAY IF YOU JUST CORNER HER LIKE THAT OUT OF THE BLUE AND WILL MAKE HER THINK YOU FIND HER ANNOYING.
thanks bro, the problem is, im so much of an autistic abused schizo dog i actually have no idea. all of it could be a coincidence, but also 100% apperaent to other people that she likes me. i have a very high ego but also a very low self esteem and confidence. and im not showing nowhere near enough attention to her because of my incredibly high ego and self respect, i hate simping and orbiting and shit like that, but im definently taking it too far, she may think now that i dont like her, but also i get visibly nervous around her sometimes, but maybe its not visible. its so over for NDcels
 
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NIGGA :lul:

DO NOT INVITE HER TO AN ABANDONED PLACE

don't ask what her intentions are either that sounds retarded
bruh😭 im so retarded
Be direct women don't want this loverboy shit they want action

You gotta T up and fuck her at your or her house

Be more direct when she talks to you again, make eye contact and actively try to stimulate her

Maybe even lean In to ask if she wants to come over on the weekend while you lightly grab her shoulder and whisper it

Back out while maintaining eye contact

Don't break eye contact until she answers :ogre:

If she says yes then get her number and pick a day
holy shit nigga what are you on im not a chad i cant pull this shit😭 i also get too nervous around her and forget how to speak im so fucking retarded:feelswhy:
 
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bruh😭 im so retarded

holy shit nigga what are you on im not a chad i cant pull this shit😭 i also get too nervous around her and forget how to speak im so fucking retarded:feelswhy:
Nigga u gotta do it
 
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AND DON'T ASK HER WHAT HER INTENTIONS ARE AS YOU SUGGESTED, UNLESS SHE FIDDLES WITH YOU BEING BUSY AND COMING BACK FOR ATTENTION, YOU WILL ONLY SCARE HER AWAY IF YOU JUST CORNER HER LIKE THAT OUT OF THE BLUE AND WILL MAKE HER THINK YOU FIND HER ANNOYING.
true , how did i not think of that :feelswhy:
 
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I was excatly in same position and limerencing for MONTHS was like my guts getting scrapped off the flesh and taking salt bath every second.
what was the ending?
 
dawg you cant even imagine

thats a little bit too soon bruh dont you think? like we barely know eachother, i was thinking ill ask her what are her intentions with me and then ill ask her if she wants tome come to an abandoned place with me , ik she likes them too cause i stalked her tiktok reposts

no, around here people text on instagram or messenger but ik her instagram. once we were like 6 people in class and she wrote her insta on the chalk board, me and 2 other guys were there but they both have gfs, so maybe that was for me. i havent followed yet
DON'T ASK HER WHAT HER INTENTIONS ARE,
thanks bro, the problem is, im so much of an autistic abused schizo dog i actually have no idea. all of it could be a coincidence, but also 100% apperaent to other people that she likes me. i have a very high ego but also a very low self esteem and confidence. and im not showing nowhere near enough attention to her because of my incredibly high ego and self respect, i hate simping and orbiting and shit like that, but im definently taking it too far, she may think now that i dont like her, but also i get visibly nervous around her sometimes, but maybe its not visible. its so over for NDcels
Man just fucking ask her to hang out, or straight up suggest her a date cuz you find her fun, easygoing, pretty etc. and stop beating around bush.

That is not a fucking simping to give her attention like that, if she fw you like that. Get off BP science and org if you need mental refresh because I can see it takes a toll on your mind.

SHE CAN TELL YOU ARE NERVOUS AROUND HER AND SHE READS INTO THAT IT MIGHT BE CUZ YOU LIKE HER AND SHE PROBABLY WILL TAKE INITIATIVE KNOWING YOU ARE SHY, IF YOU GIVE HER A CHANCE TO START SOMEWHERE.
IF SHE WASN'T INTO YOU, SHE WILL JUST COME OUT WITH BEING BUSY OR TELL YOU SHE HAS BF, and from that point you will detach your thoughts on whether she likes you or not and avoid being obsessive about her later on, which hurts as fuck.

Just ask her if she is up to hang out to the cinema because it is easiest way to have fun withouth talking, and still having a topic of a movie afterwards.

If she tries to bring a third-wheel of a fat landhwale friend, or a "guy-friend" just flake on her next day saying that something came out if this case happens.
 
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what was the ending?
I mean I just healed after that and got the idea she didn't like me at all, she just acted interested and lovebombed me for the sake of me not leaving her as a "friend" cuz no boys around her liked her at all and needed that attention. If I were to just straight up set a date and from the first "no" go away and never look back, I would save myself so much misery and avoid getting lovebombed by a psycho-bitch
 
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true , how did i not think of that :feelswhy:
Yeah just don't push her to spill the beans if she doesn't play hot and cold for no reason for it, it will come to the point she will naturally just want you to fuck her ass and at some point and you won't have to double-guess if she wants it since she will start flashing her nudes and tits in your DMs.
 
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so this foid in my class, we used to be buddies in 9th grade since i am a late maturing loser and she took me under her wings cause i was bullied. but now 2 years later we barely talk and i had a puberty ascension (Still in process) and she has been dropping ioi's but i am lowkey schizo so im not sure tbh. anyways yesterday she asked me if i see as a man that her shoes are a little bit different color all smiling and shit , i said yes i see it all smiling and shit too and i went back to instagram reels because im such a worthless looser. anyways an hour later she sat down next to me on the bench and asked whats up and did i get tired of (an activity i will not disclose) and i just said yeah and was looking away and fiddling with my hands because im scared of women, then she was just looking at her friend in silence and smiling and propably speaking with mouth movement (but im lowkey schizo so idk) and then her friend sat next to her and i was still just looking around like a retard then the bell rang. should i make a move or smth? i wanted to wait until i finish ascending completely to max my chances but maybe she already likes me? what yall think?:feelsrope:
go for it
 
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I mean I just healed after that and got the idea she didn't like me at all, she just acted interested and lovebombed me for the sake of me not leaving her as a "friend" cuz no boys around her liked her at all and needed that attention. If I were to just straight up set a date and from the first "no" go away and never look back, I would save myself so much misery and avoid getting lovebombed by a psycho-bitch
brutal...
 
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Yeah just don't push her to spill the beans if she doesn't play hot and cold for no reason for it, it will come to the point she will naturally just want you to fuck her ass and at some point and you won't have to double-guess if she wants it since she will start flashing her nudes and tits in your DMs.
alr thanks for the help bro🙏💯
 
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also she is texting a guy on her phone (idk who) and today i heard she say he's dry as fuck rn

here comes reality: she's way above you socially, hooks up with guys etc. she sees you as a safe loser she can be sweet to when bored at school and pity like a dog that gets a pat before she enters the party
 
here comes reality: she's way above you socially, hooks up with guys etc. she sees you as a safe loser she can be sweet to when bored at school and pity like a dog that gets a pat before she enters the party
yeah thats what im overthinking about bro but also no guys give af about her in school she didnt have a bf in a year but she defs gets fucked around in the techno parties
 
yeah thats what im overthinking about bro but also no guys give af about her in school she didnt have a bf in a year but she defs gets fucked around in the techno parties

you need to stop being an autist first and portray some sort of confidence in general, not directed at her but in general, so that she notices you are socailly acceptable and a man and then you can try to get her. start drinking before/during (take a wine waterbottle or something that u can sip on all day) school, 100% srs. you probably don't have long left, no point wasting those last vital years, just do it.
 
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you need to stop being an autist first and portray some sort of confidence in general, not directed at her but in general, so that she notices you are socailly acceptable and a man and then you can try to get her. start drinking before/during (take a wine waterbottle or something that u can sip on all day) school, 100% srs. you probably don't have long left, no point wasting those last vital years, just do it.
i was thinking im gonna take pregab?? it makes you low inhib i heard
 
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you need to stop being an autist first and portray some sort of confidence in general, not directed at her but in general, so that she notices you are socailly acceptable and a man and then you can try to get her. start drinking before/during (take a wine waterbottle or something that u can sip on all day) school, 100% srs. you probably don't have long left, no point wasting those last vital years, just do it.
also i am confident and socially acceptable just not when shes next to me
 
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im not bro, im perfectly normal, only when girls i like are near me is when i get nervous

what you described wasnt normal. you need help man. you need liquid courage. drinking boosted me from social autist to socially normal, i wish i had done it at school. i drank on the last day and actually enjoyed school for once, was socially confident and free instead of anxious.
 
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what you described wasnt normal. you need help man. you need liquid courage. drinking boosted me from social autist to socially normal, i wish i had done it at school. i drank on the last day and actually enjoyed school for once, was socially confident and free instead of anxious.
U know what pregab is ?
 
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holy essay not a molecule
 
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im gonna take that instead, it makes you low inhib without being drunk and destroying your liver and brain

alc wont do that, you'rre only drinking a bit to give you a boost, not get wasted
 

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