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from my past 2 exes gf and many short terms flings
the more you withholding commitment the more emotionally invested she is. The mentality here should be you just give as minimal commitment as possible to maintain her interest, and also after sometime of hanging out together repeatedly and sex. She will try to secure relationship with you. Your mentality here is important, it should be you giving her false hope of fake one sided relationship. she has to feels like shes in relationship with you but you must be one foot out the door kinda mentality.
As a man, dont yearn for LTR. If you have that mentality she will not want LTR with you.
Also never makes her feels like she fully have you, doesnt matter even 4months in or 4 years in. Let her wonder, you do that by try to maintain your own life(social circles, options, looks obviously).
Remember, foids attraction is like an oven, it grows over time slower than us dude. We love at first sight creature and day dreaming about family with her. Meanwhile, her attraction is over weeks/2-3months initially. But if you take it slow over the course of 1.5-2 years you fully have her heart.
the more you withholding commitment the more emotionally invested she is. The mentality here should be you just give as minimal commitment as possible to maintain her interest, and also after sometime of hanging out together repeatedly and sex. She will try to secure relationship with you. Your mentality here is important, it should be you giving her false hope of fake one sided relationship. she has to feels like shes in relationship with you but you must be one foot out the door kinda mentality.
As a man, dont yearn for LTR. If you have that mentality she will not want LTR with you.
Also never makes her feels like she fully have you, doesnt matter even 4months in or 4 years in. Let her wonder, you do that by try to maintain your own life(social circles, options, looks obviously).
Remember, foids attraction is like an oven, it grows over time slower than us dude. We love at first sight creature and day dreaming about family with her. Meanwhile, her attraction is over weeks/2-3months initially. But if you take it slow over the course of 1.5-2 years you fully have her heart.
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