heres how 90 percent of tinder matches go

[Amnesia]

Opener is "lets watch a few episodes of _______ show, I am on a binge atm"

They reply almost every time "I am so down!"

I ask for snap they give


On snap I send a snap verification they snap back a pic of them. I ask if they are free THAT NIGHT or tomorrow (always try to hang out as soon as possible) usually they say "I am busy" "I have work" so I ask when their next free evening is, and they say they dont know, and then they never get back to me ever


fizzles out, they unfriend me etc. Its just a numbers game, u do it so that 10 percent of girls who say they are down and when u ask if they are free that night or tomorrow they actually say they are and then hang

 

[justadude]

why tho

 

[Deleted member 5189]

why do u think this is?

 

[volcelfatcel]

Chad talking about how difficult his life is when most people in this forum it never began for them on tinder

 

[Amnesia]

why tho

why do u think this is?

most girls arent actually on there to seriously meet anyone, there just to feed their ego/flirt

also lots of girls on there are under 18 and know they cant really meet guys cause the age thing


Also girls are just fucking weird and make no sense, they psyche themselves out thinking guys are serial killers or have too many options IRL they just dont care about theit tinder matches

 

[volcelfatcel]

most girls arent actually on there to seriously meet anyone, there just to feed their ego/flirt

also lots of girls on there are under 18 and know they cant really meet guys cause the age thing


Also girls are just fucking weird and make no sense, they psyche themselves out thinking guys are serial killers or have too many options IRL they just dont care about theit tinder matches

Tldr women don't need sex they just want validation.

 

[Amnesia]

Chad talking about how difficult his life is when most people in this forum it never began for them on tinder
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this wasnt a thread complaining, rather just giving a realistic perspective to guys on what its like even when u have 100's of matches, not even close to a half of them ever convert to lays

 

[Jagged0]

why do u think this is?

why tho

He has low smv do you think Chris hemsworth is not getting a slay that day or even the biggest male model chads? No girls know they live exciting lives from their social media amnesia is just this gl guy that has no status for them to leech to or show off about

 

[Deleted member 7044]

its because ur a giga truecel doomed to rot

 

[Jagged0]

@realklay11 i can tell you have no irl experience the guys that slay have status in their city/town social media period even the GL ones rarely do you see a guy with no social circles or friends slaying 6+ girls consistently

 

[Deleted member 13094]

 

[uglynihilist]

I think when you are trying to invite girls right away and asking if they are free tomorrow or same night it comes off as tryhard and that as if you are really desperate. Even tho you may look hot being needy like that is still unattractive.

You are not filtering those who are down and who are not.

You are filtering those who are so attracted to you that everything else doesn't matter and they are down to bang right away
from
Those who are attracted and will potentially sleep with you if you "play your cards right".

It's same as with normies. They might get a fat ugly whore uber straight to their house but for something better than that they will have to go out with her, show that they are NT and not retarded socially before they will bang.

 

[ItsOver.com]

@realklay11 i can tell you have no irl experience the guys that slay have status in their city/town social media period even the GL ones rarely do you see a guy with no social circles or friends slaying 6+ girls consistently

wtf I was agreeing wit you jfl

 

[Amnesia]

I think when you are trying to invite girls right away and asking if they are free tomorrow or same night it comes off as tryhard and that as if you are really desperate. Even tho you may look hot being needy like that is still unattractive.

You are not filtering those who are down and who are not.

You are filtering those who are so attracted to you that everything else doesn't matter and they are down to bang right away
from
Those who are attracted and will potentially sleep with you if you "play your cards right".

It's same as with normies. They might get a fat ugly whore uber straight to their house but for something better than that they will have to go out with her, show that they are NT and not retarded socially before they will bang.

i have no fucking time to have week long convos with these girls when I have 20 new matches a day and 200 new adds on my snap a month

 

[Deleted member 14303]

Tinder is the most retarded thing there is jfl if tinder whores live rent free in your head you stupid nigger

 

[Amnesia]

I think when you are trying to invite girls right away and asking if they are free tomorrow or same night it comes off as tryhard and that as if you are really desperate. Even tho you may look hot being needy like that is still unattractive.

You are not filtering those who are down and who are not.

You are filtering those who are so attracted to you that everything else doesn't matter and they are down to bang right away
from
Those who are attracted and will potentially sleep with you if you "play your cards right".

It's same as with normies. They might get a fat ugly whore uber straight to their house but for something better than that they will have to go out with her, show that they are NT and not retarded socially before they will bang.

so muh looks theory out the window, social status/text game/PUA displaying low value vs high value are important


hmmmm looks theory destroyed more and more

 

[uglynihilist]

so muh looks theory out the window, social status/text game/PUA displaying low value vs high value are important


hmmmm looks theory destroyed more and more

I didn't say that. Your problem is that you have no time to maximize your match to lay raito and mine is that I don't have anything to maximize to begin with. Looks is where it all begins.

 

[Looks234]

Nt is life even at psl 6.5 @Biggdink

 

[Mateusz74]

i have no fucking time to have week long convos with these girls when I have 20 new matches a day and 200 new adds on my snap a month

Talk a bit and leave her on delivered. After a few days reply. Try not texting so quick and long

 

[Amnesia]

Talk a bit and leave her on delivered. After a few days reply. Try not texting so quick and long

o believe me i do that all the time, girls quickl;y forget who they are talking to also

 

[Mateusz74]

o believe me i do that all the time, girls quickl;y forget who they are talking to also

Ur right though somewhat about the numbers game thing. A lot of them are on tinder for the ego boost. I heard Cali is brutal though. Have u tried other locations?

 

[AlexAP]

Nt is life even at psl 6.5 @Biggdink

What does he do wrong? The girls ghost after normal conversations, they clearly don't have the intention to meet up in that case.

 

[Looks234]

What does he do wrong? The girls ghost after normal conversations, they clearly don't have the intention to meet up in that case.

Low snap score, no Instagram and probably takes weird pictures.

 

[reptiles]

most girls arent actually on there to seriously meet anyone, there just to feed their ego/flirt

also lots of girls on there are under 18 and know they cant really meet guys cause the age thing


Also girls are just fucking weird and make no sense, they psyche themselves out thinking guys are serial killers or have too many options IRL they just dont care about theit tinder matches

Your a chad though I was expecting a higher IRL approach rate ?

 

[datboijj]

Your a chad though I was expecting a higher IRL approach rate ?

he would have a better chance cold approaching in clubs

 

[Deleted member 7580]

Low snap score, no Instagram and probably takes weird pictures.

Also luck pill

girls aren’t as horny as guys, they’re not gonna leave their comfort zone to meet a random guy

girls would even fuck a nt normie if he messaged them they’re horny

 

[Deleted member 12234]

Opener is "lets watch a few episodes of _______ show, I am on a binge atm"

They reply almost every time "I am so down!"

I ask for snap they give


On snap I send a snap verification they snap back a pic of them. I ask if they are free THAT NIGHT or tomorrow (always try to hang out as soon as possible) usually they say "I am busy" "I have work" so I ask when their next free evening is, and they say they dont know, and then they never get back to me ever


fizzles out, they unfriend me etc. Its just a numbers game, u do it so that 10 percent of girls who say they are down and when u ask if they are free that night or tomorrow they actually say they are and then hang

JFL. I just ask can they twerk and if they say "yes", i'll ask to see it in person. If "no", i'll offer to teach them. Binging movies? I'm trying to fuck.

 

[AlexAP]

JFL. I just ask can they twerk and if they say "yes", i'll ask to see it in person. If "no", i'll offer to teach them. Binging movies? I'm trying to fuck.

Based Tyrone.

 

[Deleted member 14274]

Tldr women don't need sex they just want validation.

Sex is also validation to them. Even guys do this, I mean sometimes if you bang a hot girl and the sex isn’t even that good, you feel good after because it’s the high of banging a hot girl not the actual sex.

 

[volcelfatcel]

Sex is also validation to them. Even guys do this, I mean sometimes if you bang a hot girl and the sex isn’t even that good, you feel good after because it’s the high of banging a hot girl not the actual sex.

pretty much the only reason they do hookups with hot guys regardless of dick size, they just like the excitement of fucking a hot guy and if he is dominating in bed even better.

 

[tyronelite]

What’s your point? This ain’t nothing new lol

 

[Deleted member 14274]

pretty much the only reason they do hookups with hot guys regardless of dick size, they just like the excitement of fucking a hot guy and if he is dominating in bed even better.

Yeah people say LTRs are more sexually fulfilling but that is far from the truth. Since girls only have ONS with hot guys the sex is a lot more freaky and fun. This past weekend I brought a girl home and she was begging me to cum on her face, grab her hair, etc. And since I took cialis before going out I was able to stay hard and bang her for hours and hours. Normies in LTRs will never get that kind of sex.

 

[Deleted member 6403]

most girls arent actually on there to seriously meet anyone, there just to feed their ego/flirt

also lots of girls on there are under 18 and know they cant really meet guys cause the age thing


Also girls are just fucking weird and make no sense, they psyche themselves out thinking guys are serial killers or have too many options IRL they just dont care about theit tinder matches

Paradox of choice

 

[volcelfatcel]

Yeah people say LTRs are more sexually fulfilling but that is far from the truth. Since girls only have ONS with hot guys the sex is a lot more freaky and fun. This past weekend I brought a girl home and she was begging me to cum on her face, grab her hair, etc. And since I took cialis before going out I was able to stay hard and bang her for hours and hours. Normies in LTRs will never get that kind of sex.

It depends if ur chad or normie in LTR, chad in LTR is the ultimate power sign, most chads do at least 1 ltr in their lifetime in their prime to get consistent sex and use a chick

Chad does LTR with a chick he wants to use -> breaks her heart when he is bored she gives him all his fantasies and tries to keep him -> girl looks for betabux and gives him vanilla sex

Hookups for women are definitely more dopamine fullfilling a hot guy fucking them is the main reason they do it, they do freaky shit if FWB or flings. give vanilla sex to ltr's because the ltr is 99% of the time not chad, chad does not commit though. He settles once he is 30-35 with an early 20s chick

 

[Deleted member 14274]

It depends if ur chad or normie in LTR, chad in LTR is the ultimate power sign, most chads do at least 1 ltr in their lifetime in their prime to get consistent sex and use a chick

Chad does LTR with a chick he wants to use -> breaks her heart when he is bored she gives him all his fantasies and tries to keep him -> girl looks for betabux and gives him vanilla sex

Hookups for women are definitely more dopamine fullfilling a hot guy fucking them is the main reason they do it, they do freaky shit if FWB or flings. give vanilla sex to ltr's because the ltr is 99% of the time not chad, chad does not commit though. He settles once he is 30-35 with an early 20s chick

Depends on the guy, you can’t make a blanket statement. I can go out every week and get laid. Why would I want to commit to an LTR? If I want consistent sex I can hit up a girl I’ve already banged. Most girls I go on dates with during the week say stuff like, you seem like a “hookup guy”. Also most girls don’t text me after ONS because they understand that it’s just a one night thing. There is a different code for how girls treat Chads and non chads.

 

[Cali Yuga]

or i could just play wow and watch anime alone

 

[Deleted member 6380]

sounds like a blackpilled moment. uwu

@sytyl @realklay11 please elaborate what made you laugh.

 

[Deleted member 8856]

Opener is "lets watch a few episodes of _______ show, I am on a binge atm"

They reply almost every time "I am so down!"

I ask for snap they give


On snap I send a snap verification they snap back a pic of them. I ask if they are free THAT NIGHT or tomorrow (always try to hang out as soon as possible) usually they say "I am busy" "I have work" so I ask when their next free evening is, and they say they dont know, and then they never get back to me ever


fizzles out, they unfriend me etc. Its just a numbers game, u do it so that 10 percent of girls who say they are down and when u ask if they are free that night or tomorrow they actually say they are and then hang

2 reasons this happens
1. You're not building rapport and gaming over text first. This matters contrary to what ppl say on here bcuz she wants to make sure you're not a wierdo
2. You're asking for her snap. JFL. Do you want your time wasted? Never get a girls snap, and if she offers snap instead number then shes a time waster, next her

Also another thing is dont be afraid to double text even triple. You just gotta wait a few days so you dont come off as needy.

 

[Amnesia]

2 reasons this happens
1. You're not building rapport and gaming over text first. This matters contrary to what ppl say on here bcuz she wants to make sure you're not a wierdo
2. You're asking for her snap. JFL. Do you want your time wasted? Never get a girls snap, and if she offers snap instead number then shes a time waster, next her

Also another thing is dont be afraid to double text even triple. You just gotta wait a few days so you dont come off as needy.

i mean the reason for getting snap tho is to verify not a catfish

if i get number straight away some girls think its fishy cause they think i am a catfish


when it comes to talking with a girl, I dunno, I do talk but admittedly its minimal, I have had plenty of instances where i meet with girls the day i match hardly texting first and it turns into a lay, I am looking at it from a numbers perspective.

 

[Deleted member 8856]

i mean the reason for getting snap tho is to verify not a catfish

if i get number straight away some girls think its fishy cause they think i am a catfish


when it comes to talking with a girl, I dunno, I do talk but admittedly its minimal, I have had plenty of instances where i meet with girls the day i match hardly texting first and it turns into a lay, I am looking at it from a numbers perspective.

Yea the girls that met you same day had High Initial interest and the rest either had medium interest or just thought you were a catfish, but yea from my experience its a waste trying to snap. I would try Facetime, and max out you're text/sext game, youd slay even more hot chicks if you did. Check out "Playing with Fire" on YT hes legit not some scam dating coach. Hes normie with over 300-500 lays. Copy his text game and thank me later. But if u dont care about all that you can just run the numbers game but success rate will prolly be lower

 

[Deleted member 13094]

it's because women are retarded creatures who have no idea what they're doing on this planet

sure, some are just fucking with you for validation but a lot really aren't prepared for this shit at all and they get terrified about being put on the spot actually having to set a date to meetup that's so soon so they self sabotage.

I think in many cases they'd rather just have you as a potential option than set something up so spontaneously

when this happens to me on snap I bitmoji swipe their response and then just leave them permadelivered until they inevitably unfriend me. My unread notifications are racking up

XD

 

[TITUS]

Since you spend most of your time trying to fuck latina goblinas, why don't you hire me as social media manager, and i take care of everything for you, your Instagram, your Facebook, your Tiktok, your Onlyfans... and you just devote yourself to fuck women everyday on a scheduled basis.

 

[OOGABOOGA]

this wasnt a thread complaining, rather just giving a realistic perspective to guys on what its like even when u have 100's of matches, not even close to a half of them ever convert to lays

Indeed people need to understand the sexual availability pill. Right place right time, same as irl. I’ll get ignored or curved by lower tier chicks I match most of the time. Even if I do get contact info it’s often days or weeks of dry convo and nothing happens. Then the hottest chick I ever fucked super liked me and I hit her up and I was in her bed a few hours later.

Online dating is like irl in this sense, just on a much larger scale than something like a club/bar

 

[Deleted member 14160]

Out of the ones you do end up fucking, how many end up showing attachment/feelings. AKA they havent completely lost their pair bonding abilities yet.

 

[Amnesia]

Out of the ones you do end up fucking, how many end up showing attachment/feelings. AKA they havent completely lost their pair bonding abilities yet.

They do exist but not many

 

[Chadakin]

Legit, same thing happens to me.

 

[Deleted member 14160]

They do exist but not many

In your view is there any physical feature that chicks love as much as men and tits/ass.

 

[Amnesia]

In your view is there any physical feature that chicks love as much as men and tits/ass.

abs, they all love abs literally every girl, the only muscle group i ever gotten a compliment on was abs from women

 

[Deleted member 14160]

abs, they all love abs literally every girl, the only muscle group i ever gotten a compliment on was abs from women

but they like to play it off as meh with the whole dad bod shit. Man fuck these lying whores

 

[Amnesia]

but they like to play it off as meh with the whole dad bod shit. Man fuck these lying whores

well twice now that i have leaned up and seen some FWBs i hadnt seen in months suddenly tell me how much they love my toned body and run their hands up and down my abs

no they never played it off like they were into dad bods but I would jokingly tell them "i cant wait till i lean up this summer and have abs" and they would reply "nooo ur sexy as u are dont worry about it"

so yeah they lie in that way, no matter what women tell u they love a toned low BF% body that has ABS


edit: butts too, like after sex when im walking around naked women comment on my "cute" butt