CelestialEmpire
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So basically all of these strategies are how to ruthlessly social climb by avoiding socially dilutive situations (where people witnessing it will lower your social status) and putting yourself in socially accretive situations (increasing social status).
I'll break it down into three sections. The first is how you interact with people on social media, the second is how you interact with people IRL and the third is how you place yourself to be "seen".
SOCIAL MEDIA:
So on social media, you want to put a cutoff requirement for your friends in order to even interact with them beyond DMs and following each other.
I would say cutoff for girls you interact with publicly should be rich, blonde, attractive, 2500+ followers, good follower to following ratio (like 3200:1800).
Cutoff for guys is attractive, rich, touse, 1500+ followers, good ratio.
Everybody else you want to AVOID being associated with, so do the following:
- Don't tag them on your post but don't leave them out entirely, otherwise they won't think they're in good social standing with you. Put them as the background in picture #7 of a photo dump.
- Don't comment on their posts, don't reply or like their comments on your post (so they look like fans)
- Don't repost their stories or mention them on your stories
- You CAN feel free to follow each other, DM them, be in group chats with them and each other's private / close friends stories
For people you WANT to be associated with (high status rich whites with lots of followers and touse posts), repost each other's stories, comment inside jokes on posts, tag each other in posts, etc.
Now for IRL scenarios, like going out to the bars, etc
Cutoff for guys should be 6'2+, fratty/preppy attire and hair, white, good frame. It's not a social death sentence if there's one or two shorter guys in your walking group or going out group under 6 foot but the majority of a friend group being under 6'2 will be a laughingstock. Their followers don't matter as much IRL.
For your friends who don't meet this cutoff, just hang out in private like at each other's houses or in the library when studying for finals. Avoid sitting with them in lectures, walking together in public, etc. If they come up to you at the bars and dap you up keep the interaction brief and shoo them away ASAP.
For girls it's similar. I have some girl friends I fw and they're nice but they're not tall rich blonde skinny smokeshows so I avoid being seen with them and separate from them ASAP after the pre.
Don't be seen talking to mid girls who approach you at the bars either. Use your body language or posture to avoid looking like you're interacting while telling her you're not interested or have a GF. For example, turn your entire torso and shoulder facing away from her so people from a distance can't tell you know each other.
If popular smokeshows tall rich blondes flirt with you at the bars, subtly try to get clipped by friends and acquaintances so everybodys group chats see it. Like for example when flirting ask her if she wants a drink and lead her to the most visible / crowded bar on the dance floor.
Now for being "seen" around campus / your city
You want to boost both your social media and IRL presence. You need to take like 3-4 high end international vacations per year (2 in the summer, 1 during the school year, 1 on spring break or winter break). Think Mallorca, Mykonos, St Barths, Vail, etc.
Post photo dumps or on your story on a boat, behind the DJ booth with famous DJs, etc. If you don't do this people will think you're poor and can't afford vacations.
For being seen IRL, you need to be at the top bars on campus or the city every weekend, but don't linger too long. Stay for like an hour max at a function (dap up 15-20 acquaintances, make small talk, get approached by a couple girls then GTFO to the next function. Like head to an AP, bar hop, etc. Only exception is if your own frat is throwing then it's socially acceptable to stay longer.
The quickest way to social suicide is to stay at a bar until 2:10AM when everybody is leaving and your friend group is awkwardly still there.
I'll break it down into three sections. The first is how you interact with people on social media, the second is how you interact with people IRL and the third is how you place yourself to be "seen".
SOCIAL MEDIA:
So on social media, you want to put a cutoff requirement for your friends in order to even interact with them beyond DMs and following each other.
I would say cutoff for girls you interact with publicly should be rich, blonde, attractive, 2500+ followers, good follower to following ratio (like 3200:1800).
Cutoff for guys is attractive, rich, touse, 1500+ followers, good ratio.
Everybody else you want to AVOID being associated with, so do the following:
- Don't tag them on your post but don't leave them out entirely, otherwise they won't think they're in good social standing with you. Put them as the background in picture #7 of a photo dump.
- Don't comment on their posts, don't reply or like their comments on your post (so they look like fans)
- Don't repost their stories or mention them on your stories
- You CAN feel free to follow each other, DM them, be in group chats with them and each other's private / close friends stories
For people you WANT to be associated with (high status rich whites with lots of followers and touse posts), repost each other's stories, comment inside jokes on posts, tag each other in posts, etc.
Now for IRL scenarios, like going out to the bars, etc
Cutoff for guys should be 6'2+, fratty/preppy attire and hair, white, good frame. It's not a social death sentence if there's one or two shorter guys in your walking group or going out group under 6 foot but the majority of a friend group being under 6'2 will be a laughingstock. Their followers don't matter as much IRL.
For your friends who don't meet this cutoff, just hang out in private like at each other's houses or in the library when studying for finals. Avoid sitting with them in lectures, walking together in public, etc. If they come up to you at the bars and dap you up keep the interaction brief and shoo them away ASAP.
For girls it's similar. I have some girl friends I fw and they're nice but they're not tall rich blonde skinny smokeshows so I avoid being seen with them and separate from them ASAP after the pre.
Don't be seen talking to mid girls who approach you at the bars either. Use your body language or posture to avoid looking like you're interacting while telling her you're not interested or have a GF. For example, turn your entire torso and shoulder facing away from her so people from a distance can't tell you know each other.
If popular smokeshows tall rich blondes flirt with you at the bars, subtly try to get clipped by friends and acquaintances so everybodys group chats see it. Like for example when flirting ask her if she wants a drink and lead her to the most visible / crowded bar on the dance floor.
Now for being "seen" around campus / your city
You want to boost both your social media and IRL presence. You need to take like 3-4 high end international vacations per year (2 in the summer, 1 during the school year, 1 on spring break or winter break). Think Mallorca, Mykonos, St Barths, Vail, etc.
Post photo dumps or on your story on a boat, behind the DJ booth with famous DJs, etc. If you don't do this people will think you're poor and can't afford vacations.
For being seen IRL, you need to be at the top bars on campus or the city every weekend, but don't linger too long. Stay for like an hour max at a function (dap up 15-20 acquaintances, make small talk, get approached by a couple girls then GTFO to the next function. Like head to an AP, bar hop, etc. Only exception is if your own frat is throwing then it's socially acceptable to stay longer.
The quickest way to social suicide is to stay at a bar until 2:10AM when everybody is leaving and your friend group is awkwardly still there.