Alienmaxxer
That is exactly why humans can never achieve it
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For those who don't know, femdom is female domination: when you get off on girls being dominant (or from the woman's perspective, dominating men).
But this fetish is pure male gaze make-believe fantasy that not one woman likes. Let's go through the evidence on this subhuman fetish:
First, most girls who say they are into dominating are actually "switches." A "switch" is when a girl is both submissive and dominant. These girls often overdramatize their dom aspect to make themselves seem more interesting (like bi girls do to get into LGBTQ+). They often basically want CNC: they want to start by dominating, but then have the guy stop listening to her orders, ignore her pleas, and dominate her. They strongly lean submissive, and would be more than happy in a relationship with just submissive elements, yet would quickly bail on a relationship with only femdom.
Many of these girls just want a roided guard dog type simp who also dominates them sometimes and is possessive. They fantasize about a drug dealer bully psychopath that simps for them and only them. Or a boss CEO dominating other men all day who protects her. Here is a high IQ thread written awhile ago on this specifically:
Next, other girls just LARP it for money, called "findoms." You've probably seen videos of the cucks giving a girl money in front of an ATM. They LARP liking femdom to take advantage of mentally ill guys who will give them money for nothing. Note that most of the girls in the "femdom" community are findoms. They even buy sets of femdom captions online to use as twitter posts so they can LARP JFL. Check this shit out, they even have scripts they buy.
The whole thing reminds me of niggas who LARP as little girls on snap and go after pedos to try to get money out of them. I could imagine them buying a scamming pedos on snap guide off telegram.
The dommes even sometimes find socials of family members after making the subs send inappropriate photos to blackmail them, and keep sending them more money
In a similar vein, there are dominatrixes, who are essentially prostitutes specializing in femdom. Since no women are into femdom, most people into it (especially ugly guys) have to pay a dominatrix to fulfill their fantasy. The fact that paying dominatrixes is so popular in the femdom communities is more proof that there aren't women who like it.
Next, we have the reddits specifically for these types of women. You'd figure a reddit full of women supposedly interested in "femdom" would like it, right? You'd be wrong.
In fact, you find they actually COMPLAIN about having to do it and talk about being a "kink dispenser" (common phrase there). Like bitch aren't you supposed to be into this too? That is the exact language of someone who doesn't want to be doing this at all. When engaging in something you both love, why tf would you be a "dispenser"? They basically want the material perks (i.e. money) without the intimacy sex part.
Relationships like this seem to be a more intense version of the betabuxx marriage meme: girl gets into a relationship and does some shit she doesn't like for more resources.
Then there is the final painful piece of evidence: myself.
I've liked femdom for some time. I won't give a whole backstory on it, but I ascended heavily some years ago and wanted to try it out. Throughout that whole time of looking, five years, 10+ dating accounts, going to bars, etc. not once did I find and meet a woman that was actually dominant. I found many girls that were interested in trying it (because I mog so they wanted to make me happy + they were high in openness), and some that said they were dominant, but not one of them lasted long. Those I met just laid there while I worshipped them (with some hairpulling) and did whatever I said JFL. Some even tried to "command me" to dominate them, which is sad. It's like seeing a bird that tries to fly but can't. Anyways, that's been my attempt at experimenting.
In conclusion, a girl that says she likes to dominate is like a person that says they like broccoli. Sure, they exist, but they're lying because broccoli tastes bad to humans. Yeah, you could cook the broccoli, and then put cheese and salt on it, and then say you like "broccoli," but you don't like the broccoli, you like the salt and cheese you put on it and purposely cooked it to remove it's flavour and make it more crisp.
(PS: If you want to experience femdom without paying, your only chance is to find a girl who is high in openness and interested in trying it out (a lot of girls want to try pegging out for some reason if thats your thing). For this you have to mog or luck out. Of course, after trying it, she'll realize she doesn't like it, so your time with her will be short-lived, but you'll get to experience it nonetheless.)
TLDR: girls who say they like dominating men want domineering guard dog type simps, LARP it for money online and buy courses to scam better, or want CNC i.e. to be overpowered when giving orders and be dominated. Women that say they like it in relationships constantly complain about having to do it. It's normal for men that like it to need to go to prostitutes since femdoms don't exist.
Women are turned on by dominance, and are utterly disgusted with submissiveness. Think of the most unattractive personality you can for a man, and it's being an unassertive goody two-shoes.
But this fetish is pure male gaze make-believe fantasy that not one woman likes. Let's go through the evidence on this subhuman fetish:
First, most girls who say they are into dominating are actually "switches." A "switch" is when a girl is both submissive and dominant. These girls often overdramatize their dom aspect to make themselves seem more interesting (like bi girls do to get into LGBTQ+). They often basically want CNC: they want to start by dominating, but then have the guy stop listening to her orders, ignore her pleas, and dominate her. They strongly lean submissive, and would be more than happy in a relationship with just submissive elements, yet would quickly bail on a relationship with only femdom.
Many of these girls just want a roided guard dog type simp who also dominates them sometimes and is possessive. They fantasize about a drug dealer bully psychopath that simps for them and only them. Or a boss CEO dominating other men all day who protects her. Here is a high IQ thread written awhile ago on this specifically:
Next, other girls just LARP it for money, called "findoms." You've probably seen videos of the cucks giving a girl money in front of an ATM. They LARP liking femdom to take advantage of mentally ill guys who will give them money for nothing. Note that most of the girls in the "femdom" community are findoms. They even buy sets of femdom captions online to use as twitter posts so they can LARP JFL. Check this shit out, they even have scripts they buy.
The whole thing reminds me of niggas who LARP as little girls on snap and go after pedos to try to get money out of them. I could imagine them buying a scamming pedos on snap guide off telegram.
The dommes even sometimes find socials of family members after making the subs send inappropriate photos to blackmail them, and keep sending them more money
In a similar vein, there are dominatrixes, who are essentially prostitutes specializing in femdom. Since no women are into femdom, most people into it (especially ugly guys) have to pay a dominatrix to fulfill their fantasy. The fact that paying dominatrixes is so popular in the femdom communities is more proof that there aren't women who like it.
Next, we have the reddits specifically for these types of women. You'd figure a reddit full of women supposedly interested in "femdom" would like it, right? You'd be wrong.
In fact, you find they actually COMPLAIN about having to do it and talk about being a "kink dispenser" (common phrase there). Like bitch aren't you supposed to be into this too? That is the exact language of someone who doesn't want to be doing this at all. When engaging in something you both love, why tf would you be a "dispenser"? They basically want the material perks (i.e. money) without the intimacy sex part.
Relationships like this seem to be a more intense version of the betabuxx marriage meme: girl gets into a relationship and does some shit she doesn't like for more resources.
Then there is the final painful piece of evidence: myself.
I've liked femdom for some time. I won't give a whole backstory on it, but I ascended heavily some years ago and wanted to try it out. Throughout that whole time of looking, five years, 10+ dating accounts, going to bars, etc. not once did I find and meet a woman that was actually dominant. I found many girls that were interested in trying it (because I mog so they wanted to make me happy + they were high in openness), and some that said they were dominant, but not one of them lasted long. Those I met just laid there while I worshipped them (with some hairpulling) and did whatever I said JFL. Some even tried to "command me" to dominate them, which is sad. It's like seeing a bird that tries to fly but can't. Anyways, that's been my attempt at experimenting.
In conclusion, a girl that says she likes to dominate is like a person that says they like broccoli. Sure, they exist, but they're lying because broccoli tastes bad to humans. Yeah, you could cook the broccoli, and then put cheese and salt on it, and then say you like "broccoli," but you don't like the broccoli, you like the salt and cheese you put on it and purposely cooked it to remove it's flavour and make it more crisp.
(PS: If you want to experience femdom without paying, your only chance is to find a girl who is high in openness and interested in trying it out (a lot of girls want to try pegging out for some reason if thats your thing). For this you have to mog or luck out. Of course, after trying it, she'll realize she doesn't like it, so your time with her will be short-lived, but you'll get to experience it nonetheless.)
TLDR: girls who say they like dominating men want domineering guard dog type simps, LARP it for money online and buy courses to scam better, or want CNC i.e. to be overpowered when giving orders and be dominated. Women that say they like it in relationships constantly complain about having to do it. It's normal for men that like it to need to go to prostitutes since femdoms don't exist.
Women are turned on by dominance, and are utterly disgusted with submissiveness. Think of the most unattractive personality you can for a man, and it's being an unassertive goody two-shoes.
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