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Please take the time to read this.
Being attractive is not the end all be all of maintaining a relationship or slaying. It is the main piece of the puzzle, however it only really applies when you're Neurotypical and/or Low inhib. I have witnessed many guys, attractive or not, get rejected or ignored simply because they are awkward. Women can smell low-confidence and it's an immediate turn-off regardless of how attractive you are. Obviously once you reach a certain attractiveness threshold, it won't matter anymore but most guys will never get there.
Now, if you are ND, trying to get into dating can feel like hell. Traditional dating often relies on social cues or unspoken rules that many of us never picked up on. Matchmaking can be exhausting because it can feel draining to make small talk with girls and after spending years trying to mask your true identity, interests, etc. It can put tons of pressure on you and kill any romantic tension there was in the first place. Whether it's because of your childhood experiences, social anxiety, etc, These traits can make it feel impossible to start dating. This is why it's almost always over for ND men, attractive or not when it comes to this.
The solution? (I already know niggas are going to spam cope in the replies but listen) You need to look at yourself in the mirror, no matter how ugly you are, even if you haven't ascended yet, and tell yourself that you are Chad. Telling yourself this isn't even enough. You need to believe with all your heart that you are Chad on some manifestation shit. Tell yourself this everyday while working on yourself and you will change for the better. Even if you don't believe what you tell yourself, you need to trick your brain into believing it. Always remember that belief is the first step to success. Just believe in yourself. Believe that you will get taller. Believe that your maxillary recession will get better. Believe that you will slay and that you are Chad. To actually see results you need to do things that accurately reflect what you believe in. tell yourself these things everyday and believe in them while taking steps to get there and ascend. Even if you never ascend, at least now you can walk up to anybody and do whatever the fuck you want.
Last but not least, remember that women are humans, just like you, even if they have ridiculous standards. It's just the way it is we can't change that, but we can change ourselves. Start confidencemaxxing even if you think it's corny, even if you think it won't work, even if you feel like people will judge you, fuck what they think. They have no control over your life but you do. If there is a girl you want who won't give you the time of day, forget her. You're that nigga, there are 4 billion vaginas on this planet and 8 billion titties. You'll always find another. Keep grinding bro, on some motivational shit. Good luck, to all of yall.
Being attractive is not the end all be all of maintaining a relationship or slaying. It is the main piece of the puzzle, however it only really applies when you're Neurotypical and/or Low inhib. I have witnessed many guys, attractive or not, get rejected or ignored simply because they are awkward. Women can smell low-confidence and it's an immediate turn-off regardless of how attractive you are. Obviously once you reach a certain attractiveness threshold, it won't matter anymore but most guys will never get there.
Now, if you are ND, trying to get into dating can feel like hell. Traditional dating often relies on social cues or unspoken rules that many of us never picked up on. Matchmaking can be exhausting because it can feel draining to make small talk with girls and after spending years trying to mask your true identity, interests, etc. It can put tons of pressure on you and kill any romantic tension there was in the first place. Whether it's because of your childhood experiences, social anxiety, etc, These traits can make it feel impossible to start dating. This is why it's almost always over for ND men, attractive or not when it comes to this.
The solution? (I already know niggas are going to spam cope in the replies but listen) You need to look at yourself in the mirror, no matter how ugly you are, even if you haven't ascended yet, and tell yourself that you are Chad. Telling yourself this isn't even enough. You need to believe with all your heart that you are Chad on some manifestation shit. Tell yourself this everyday while working on yourself and you will change for the better. Even if you don't believe what you tell yourself, you need to trick your brain into believing it. Always remember that belief is the first step to success. Just believe in yourself. Believe that you will get taller. Believe that your maxillary recession will get better. Believe that you will slay and that you are Chad. To actually see results you need to do things that accurately reflect what you believe in. tell yourself these things everyday and believe in them while taking steps to get there and ascend. Even if you never ascend, at least now you can walk up to anybody and do whatever the fuck you want.
Last but not least, remember that women are humans, just like you, even if they have ridiculous standards. It's just the way it is we can't change that, but we can change ourselves. Start confidencemaxxing even if you think it's corny, even if you think it won't work, even if you feel like people will judge you, fuck what they think. They have no control over your life but you do. If there is a girl you want who won't give you the time of day, forget her. You're that nigga, there are 4 billion vaginas on this planet and 8 billion titties. You'll always find another. Keep grinding bro, on some motivational shit. Good luck, to all of yall.
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