high inhibition doesn't tell the whole story

[BadLuck7892]

A lot of male autists appear to be high inhibition

I suppose it is true (to some agree at least) we're high inhibition

Yet high inhibition doesn't tell the whole story

We're high inhibition because we have no idea what we're doing in terms of chasing foids

The fact we don't know what we're doing is the main reason we sideline ourselves

Even if we shed our high inhibition (and chased foids), we'd still end up involuntarily celibate (because again, we don't know what we're doing in terms of chasing foids)

 

[BadLuck7892]

@AryanSchizo

@supergoat972

 

[supergoat972]

Trats true. I agree.

 

[BadLuck7892]

Trats true. I agree.

Yep

You know the truth because you've lived it (same as me)

 

[supergoat972]

Yep

You know the truth because you've lived it (same as me)

Exactly. I am a HTN, but struggle due to my social skills

 

[BadLuck7892]

Exactly. I am a HTN, but struggle due to my social skills

Posters on here (and on other online communities) have questioned whether I'm really a HTN (because of my struggles)

How idiotic that they can't comprehend the fact autism makes even HTN males struggle with foids

Also, on this forum specifically, some posters act like my mature appearance prevents me from being HTN. I admit my appearance is too matured to get 18 year old foids (even if I were NT), yet plenty of 30+ year old foids would think I'm a HTN. You know what I mean (since you yourself are close in age to me). Looking 18 forever isn't the beauty standard older foids judge men on

 

[supergoat972]

Posters on here (and on other online communities) have questioned whether I'm really a HTN (because of my struggles)

How idiotic that they can't comprehend the fact autism makes even HTN males struggle with foids

Also, on this forum specifically, some posters act like my mature appearance prevents me from being HTN. I admit my appearance is too matured to get 18 year old foids (even if I were NT), yet plenty of 30+ year old foids would think I'm a HTN. You know what I mean (since you yourself are close in age to me). Looking 18 forever isn't the beauty standard older foids judge men on

Men peak physically at around 35.

Also , if possible cut your bearded. It makes you look younger. I started to cut my bearded and I look like 3 years younger.

 

[BadLuck7892]

Men peak physically at around 35.

Also , if possible cut your bearded. It makes you look younger. I started to cut my bearded and I look like 3 years younger.

That avatar is based on me the other day when I had a 10 day stubble beard. I ended up shaving it

I never grow an all-out beard. A short stubble beard is the most I do (and even then, 10 days is unusually long for me)

 

[supergoat972]

That avatar is based on me the other day when I had a 10 day stubble beard. I ended up shaving it

I never grow an all-out beard. A short stubble beard is the most I do (and even then, 10 days is unusually long for me)

Good choice. I always shave as it makes me look younger.

 

[BadLuck7892]

Good choice. I always shave as it makes me look younger.

The trend among most men our age to wear either a goatee or full beard (by "full beard," I mean beyond the stubble beard I sometimes grow)
is lame

Yet in a way, I suppose I like how trendy goatees and full beards are. Makes those of us who go the clean-shaven route stand out as part of the counter-culture

 

[Andremln]

high inhib serves as a passive defense mechanism for neurodivergent or ugly men to not get killed/bullied

 

[Andremln]

and bullying is a way to kill someone anyways, social mammals do it so unfit individuals isolate themselves and die by starvation (or in homo-sapien we kill ourselves)

high inhib serves as a passive defense mechanism for neurodivergent or ugly men to not get killed/bullied

 

[BadLuck7892]

high inhib serves as a passive defense mechanism for neurodivergent or ugly men to not get killed/bullied

Yeah

Our social ineptitude could cause us to unknowingly do something "creepy" (and get shot by whichever foid we creeped out)

Or brutalized by male bystanders

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

I struggle with foids because Im insecure, and probably no amount of surgery will change it. I still dont like how I look, people tell me I look good and compliment me pretty often, even the girls, but that does JACK SHIT for me. I'm insecure, I hate how I look, Ik that I'll probably never be happy with myself and will need to face the consequences.

Only if there was a surgery that would make me not care. Alc kind of works, but not fully.

 

[BadLuck7892]

I struggle with foids because Im insecure, and probably no amount of surgery will change it. I still dont like how I look, people tell me I look good and compliment me pretty often, even the girls, but that does JACK SHIT for me. I'm insecure, I hate how I look, Ik that I'll probably never be happy with myself and will need to face the consequences.

Only if there was a surgery that would make me not care. Alc kind of works, but not fully.

Surgery won't accomplish anything

If you get compliments, looks aren't the problem

 

[supergoat972]

The trend among most men our age to wear either a goatee or full beard (by "full beard," I mean beyond the stubble beard I sometimes grow)
is lame

Yet in a way, I suppose I like how trendy goatees and full beards are. Makes those of us who go the clean-shaven route stand out as part of the counter-culture

I think I look better with a bit of facial hair.

But at my age (30) I would rather look young that good actually.

 

[Tealovingfool]

Nah i got high inhib cause I was bullied when i was younger

 

[isis_Bleach]

A lot of male autists appear to be high inhibition

I suppose it is true (to some agree at least) we're high inhibition

Yet high inhibition doesn't tell the whole story

We're high inhibition because we have no idea what we're doing in terms of chasing foids

The fact we don't know what we're doing is the main reason we sideline ourselves

Even if we shed our high inhibition (and chased foids), we'd still end up involuntarily celibate (because again, we don't know what we're doing in terms of chasing foids)

yeah its deeper than high inhib its autism. what makes me most mad is how female autists have literally 0 sympathy for autistic men even when the bitch herself does all the same things.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

A lot of male autists apar to be high inhibition

I suppose it is true (to some agree at least) we're high inhibition

Yet high inhibition doesn't tell the whole story

We're high inhibition because we have no idea what we're doing in terms of chasing foids

The fact we don't know what we're doing is the main reason we sideline ourselves

Even if we shed our high inhibition (and chased foids), we'd still end up involuntarily celibate (because again, we don't know what we're doing in terms of chasing foids)

You don't know what you're doing because you're high inhibition. When she reacts to something you do you're too busy thinking about how it came across to just be still and observe her without caring.

 

[BadLuck7892]

I think I look better with a bit of facial hair.

But at my age (30) I would rather look young that good actually.

I don't necessarily look better or worse with stubble vs clean-shaven

I'm lucky in the sense that rather than looking disheveled with stubble, I look trendy

Yet I also look good clean-shaven

 

[BadLuck7892]

Nah i got high inhib cause I was bullied when i was younger

another source of high inhibition

I've been conditioned to believe foids don't want me (which undoubtedly plays a role in my high inhibition)

 

[BadLuck7892]

yeah its deeper than high inhib its autism. what makes me most mad is how female autists have literally 0 sympathy for autistic men even when the bitch herself does all the same things.

Yeah. My lady (a female autist) is a rare exception who sympathizes with male autists

Yet the vast majority of female autists have no sympathy for us

Here's what it all boils down to: Since men don't give a flip about social ineptitude in a partner, female autists can get laid with ease. So that's why the vast majority of female autists are unable to fathom the idea that autism holds us (male autists) back