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A lot of men go through a phase where they realise being a nice, sweet and dependable guy is actually the anti-thesis to getting women. They see that being evil, selfish and having malicious tendencies would get them much further.
This causes a lot of bitterness and resentment. Doing the right thing is being…punished. lol. It’s like you’d be betraying your values and beliefs by tryna be a hood nigga or bully or whatever to get women.
So…what’s the solution? I and a few other people I talked to arrived at it accidentally. And interestingly, it’s what gets you women in the first place.
When you start hating and resenting foids for their bad mate choosing you withdraw from them, reduce investment, don’t shower them with praise or affection and generally focus on yourself, your own meaning and purpose.
Coincidentally these are the exact same traits that make bad boys attractive, to a large extent. By detaching yourself you essentially give yourself the same programming.
So if you’re mad at women…that’s fine. Be mad. It might actually be the best way to solve your problems. Sorta a cliche to say but when you prioritise yourself and your own existence to be as good as possible with or without women is when you actually get women. Bad boys and narcissistic men just do this by default.
This causes a lot of bitterness and resentment. Doing the right thing is being…punished. lol. It’s like you’d be betraying your values and beliefs by tryna be a hood nigga or bully or whatever to get women.
So…what’s the solution? I and a few other people I talked to arrived at it accidentally. And interestingly, it’s what gets you women in the first place.
When you start hating and resenting foids for their bad mate choosing you withdraw from them, reduce investment, don’t shower them with praise or affection and generally focus on yourself, your own meaning and purpose.
Coincidentally these are the exact same traits that make bad boys attractive, to a large extent. By detaching yourself you essentially give yourself the same programming.
So if you’re mad at women…that’s fine. Be mad. It might actually be the best way to solve your problems. Sorta a cliche to say but when you prioritise yourself and your own existence to be as good as possible with or without women is when you actually get women. Bad boys and narcissistic men just do this by default.