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[jabadukv5]

I noticed I had lots of matches (20+ day without newbie boost) but because of that it’s hard to actually finish things with even one girl, some sort of paradox of choice going here. I may be coping but I think if I got less matches I could just focus on one girl and in the end have more lays. What do you think? Or I’m purely coping and interested girls should write first and if she doesn’t insist she’s prolly not interested and swiped u right just because