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These 3 years have been really interesting to see observe the dynamics of relationships. If you’re someone in the whole lookism sphere you’ll expect looks to matter completely but surprisingly not in HS. I’m not coming from a place of envy moreover observation and I’ve seen a lot of relationships where the guys uglier, shorter, or both and the girls more attractive.
We already know being NT is law but if you’re able to follow the behavioral patterns of these guys you can take advantage even if you’re ND. But since you’re ND it’s not gonna be 100% perfect so you have to learn to understand their humor, interests, personality, and demeanor but really hyper-fixate on them. Presentation for yourself is also important and knowing that you can’t trust yourself meaning you must view yourself from the POV of others or ask others.
Small example but my freshman year I talked w this girl and I noticed it was hard to keep it together in the beginning. This was before I was diagnosed ND or knew I was high inhib but I had somewhat of an idea about this. I had to loosen up and I was even able to stay on call w her for a few hours
Very Open Minded on what you guys think
We already know being NT is law but if you’re able to follow the behavioral patterns of these guys you can take advantage even if you’re ND. But since you’re ND it’s not gonna be 100% perfect so you have to learn to understand their humor, interests, personality, and demeanor but really hyper-fixate on them. Presentation for yourself is also important and knowing that you can’t trust yourself meaning you must view yourself from the POV of others or ask others.
Small example but my freshman year I talked w this girl and I noticed it was hard to keep it together in the beginning. This was before I was diagnosed ND or knew I was high inhib but I had somewhat of an idea about this. I had to loosen up and I was even able to stay on call w her for a few hours
Very Open Minded on what you guys think