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Quick trick I use with girls (and that girls often use with me). When you're talking with a girl, try to find an opportunity to paint a picture (in jest) of her with some undesirable guy. Not SO undesirable that she's insulted, but just undesirable enough (or, conversely, so ABSURDLY undesirable she'll know you're joking) that she'll say, "Oh God, no way!" and subconsciously reassure herself, "Thank God I'm with a guy right now [you] who isn't like THAT!"
Example:
What this does is create a contrast in her mind, and the choices seemingly narrow down to two: that guy, and you.
Just make sure you don't do this with someone more attractive or more charismatic than you are. Having done that several times before by accident (while shooting from the hip), I can attest that it does indeed instantly make you seem less desirable than you were a moment earlier when the contrast is more favorable to him than it is to you. Always be sure to contrast yourself favorably, and this one gives you a nice little boost to attraction and helps speed your interactions up a bit.
Example:
- You're sitting with a girl at a table in a café, or at a bar in a nightspot. She points out some old with a silly-looking hairpiece, or you point him out to her and she makes a sarcastic remark about him.
You: [in deadpan] He's totally your type, isn't he?
Her: Oh God, yeah. That's the kind of man I go for.
You: Knew it. I can't even compete.
What this does is create a contrast in her mind, and the choices seemingly narrow down to two: that guy, and you.
Just make sure you don't do this with someone more attractive or more charismatic than you are. Having done that several times before by accident (while shooting from the hip), I can attest that it does indeed instantly make you seem less desirable than you were a moment earlier when the contrast is more favorable to him than it is to you. Always be sure to contrast yourself favorably, and this one gives you a nice little boost to attraction and helps speed your interactions up a bit.
