Hinge date ghosted.

[NonChadSlayer]

Have over 30 matches on Hinge in London.

All 6s to 8.5s either white or white Asians.

Had a date set with a High tier becky, told her to keep the date free. She did, and agreed we'd be meeting up. When the day came we messaged back and fourth to agree on a bar. We settled on one of the coolest cocktail bars in London complete with activities.

I ask the girl how long she needs to get ready so we can agree on a time.

She doesn't reply and unmatches me.

Wtf is this? Online dating was nothing like this 3 years ago.

 

[the BULL]

sounds like an higher SMV male showed up

 

[vanillaicecream]

This happens when they find a better option

 

[Deleted member 4466]

online dating is fucked, even if you’re a chad your success is still a numbers game. this means you should fully expect girls to be flakey and don’t have high expectations. most girls use those apps for pure entertainment / ego boosting and have zero intention of actually going on dates tbh

 

[Xangsane]

Have over 30 matches on Hinge in London.

All 6s to 8.5s either white or white Asians.

Had a date set with a High tier becky, told her to keep the date free. She did, and agreed we'd be meeting up. When the day came we messaged back and fourth to agree on a bar. We settled on one of the coolest cocktail bars in London complete with activities.

I ask the girl how long she needs to get ready so we can agree on a time.

She doesn't reply and unmatches me.

Wtf is this? Online dating was nothing like this 3 years ago.

What's your looks level? How attractive were these women, and in what timeframe did you get 30 matches?

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

online dating is fucked, even if you’re a chad your success is still a numbers game. this means you should fully expect girls to be flakey and don’t have high expectations. most girls use those apps for pure entertainment / ego boosting and have zero intention of actually going on dates tbh

whats the realistic alternative?

 

[NonChadSlayer]

What's your looks level? How attractive were these women, and in what timeframe did you get 30 matches?

Wheat waffles gave me a 7.5

Timeframe is 1 week, but I am very selective.

Girls are all 6-8.5

 

[Deleted member 4466]

whats the realistic alternative?

best alternative is having activities that allow you to meet people irl and expand your social circle. meeting chicks irl and setting up a date is sooo much better but it requires effort (putting yourself out there, using actual social skills.)

all of the hottest girls I’ve ever hooked up with / dated longterm have been found through various social circles or activities

 

[Xangsane]

Wheat waffles gave me a 7.5

Timeframe is 1 week, but I am very selective.

Girls are all 6-8.5

Do you put more effort into the women who are closer to 8.5?
I'd think you're gymcelled and rich/upper-middle-class if you're bagging white Stacies, especially in London.

 

[NonChadSlayer]

Do you put more effort into the women who are closer to 8.5?
I'd think you're gymcelled and rich/upper-middle-class if you're bagging white Stacies, especially in London.

I am white, gymcelled, rich, tan, blue eyes, wide jaw, but only 5'9

 

[NonChadSlayer]

I am white, gymcelled, rich, tan, blue eyes, wide jaw, but only 5'9

Do you put more effort into the women who are closer to 8.5?
I'd think you're gymcelled and rich/upper-middle-class if you're bagging white Stacies, especially in London.

No, I don't put more effort. I'm only in London for 2 weeks so I didn't care which of the girls I was gonna smash so hit them all up equally. Now it looks like I'm not even gonna go on one date from hinge after 30 conversations.

 

[NonChadSlayer]

best alternative is having activities that allow you to meet people irl and expand your social circle. meeting chicks irl and setting up a date is sooo much better but it requires effort (putting yourself out there, using actual social skills.)

all of the hottest girls I’ve ever hooked up with / dated longterm have been found through various social circles or activities

What are some activities that allow you to meet baddies tho? They don't do any activities. They literally sit at home scrolling insta, shop online, get takeout and go take photos with their friends.

You really saying u gon meet baddies at a meetup.com event?

 

[Amnesia]

Has happened to me, so frustrating which is also why I say Tinder experiments prove nothing. Tons of those girls on Tinder that flirt with ur Chadfish would still end up ghosting or flaking. That's how all women are

 

[Deleted member 15556]

If it makes you feel better the gym Thot I was talking to for 2/3 days straight and agreed to meet today has left me on delivered for 5 hours.

 

[Deleted member 9568]

thought the era of posting ghosting moments was over

 

[NonChadSlayer]

Has happened to me, so frustrating which is also why I say Tinder experiments prove nothing. Tons of those girls on Tinder that flirt with ur Chadfish would still end up ghosting or flaking. That's how all women are

I think Instagram and tinder have inflated women's egos so much that even a hot guy on tinder with almost every conceivable metric maxed out asking them out on a date means absolutely nothing to them.

I really think the only way to be a slayer in 2022 and beyond is to be famous, or a top level athlete or have some extremely social job like be a promoter at the trendy club, or be some sort of entertainer that tours around the country/world. Like a competitive surfer or DJ or something like that.

 

[NonChadSlayer]

If it makes you feel better the gym Thot I was talking to for 2/3 days straight and agreed to meet today has left me on delivered for 5 hours.

She will probs reply

 

[the BULL]

I think Instagram and tinder have inflated women's egos so much that even a hot guy on tinder with almost every conceivable metric maxed out asking them out on a date means absolutely nothing to them.

I really think the only way to be a slayer in 2022 and beyond is to be famous, or a top level athlete or have some extremely social job like be a promoter at the trendy club, or be some sort of entertainer that tours around the country/world. Like a competitive surfer or DJ or something like that.

only way to be a slayer in 2022 is coming from king salomon's family itself
infinite knowledge and power or bust

 

[Xangsane]

I am white, gymcelled, rich, tan, blue eyes, wide jaw, but only 5'9

>rich
that's why you're slaying hot girls.

No, I don't put more effort. I'm only in London for 2 weeks so I didn't care which of the girls I was gonna smash so hit them all up equally. Now it looks like I'm not even gonna go on one date from hinge after 30 conversations.

I think most women are on Hinge looking for LTRs, especially those closer to 5/10 than 8/10.
They probably think you're a playboy.

 

[currylover]

Online dating is pointless unless you’re model tier good looking.

 

[ChickenAndRiceBrah]

it was still like that 3-6 years ago in my experience
nothing more rage inducing than thinking you have a guaranteed slay that night only for her to fuck off and stop replying that afternoon

 

[NonChadSlayer]

>rich
that's why you're slaying hot girls.


I think most women are on Hinge looking for LTRs, especially those closer to 5/10 than 8/10.
They probably think you're a playboy.

Nah I was slaying hotties 6 years ago when I was a broke uni student. Now I'm not.

Also, Back then on tinder it didn't seem to matter to matter if you looked like a playboy, girls still wanted to show up and try their luck. Not the case nowdays on hinge. I did notice though that hinge has lots more girls in the 25-29 year old range which is when they start to panic about not being married, so you could be right

 

[NonChadSlayer]

it was still like that 3-6 years ago in my experience
nothing more rage inducing than thinking you have a guaranteed slay that night only for her to fuck off and stop replying that afternoon

Yeah straight up. I don't understand how she could do that with no warning, no explanation, nothing. Everything was fine, she told me which day she was free to hang out, I set everything up and poof, gone without a trace.

Wheres the dignity?

 

[Xangsane]

Nah I was slaying hotties 6 years ago when I was a broke uni student. Now I'm not.

Also, Back then on tinder it didn't seem to matter to matter if you looked like a playboy, girls still wanted to show up and try their luck. Not the case nowdays on hinge. I did notice though that hinge has lots more girls in the 25-29 year old range which is when they start to panic about not being married, so you could be right

I was a broke uni student but sexless, despite being rated ~PSL 5.5
I don't really think I'd feel a connection through casual sex. a lot of girls wanted to have fun

On Hinge, there seems to be a lot of HQNP Stacies/Stacylites aged 25-29 having their pics taken at top bars and restaurants. These women scream "gold diggers" to me, and they dress like that because they want to settle down with some rich hedge fund baby. They are EXTREMELY hypergamous and are often of Slavic descent.

Indeed there are more women age 25-29 on there, most of whom want LTRs.

I've yet to come across a woman below the age of 25-29 on Hinge who fits this profile unless if she were Slavic. Slavs LOVE the HQNP look in the South-East UK.

Thank god I don't live in London.

 

[NonChadSlayer]

I was a broke uni student but sexless, despite being rated ~PSL 5.5
I don't really think I'd feel a connection through casual sex. a lot of girls wanted to have fun

On Hinge, there seems to be a lot of HQNP Stacies/Stacylites aged 25-29 having their pics taken at top bars and restaurants. These women scream "gold diggers" to me, and they dress like that because they want to settle down with some rich hedge fund baby. They are EXTREMELY hypergamous and are often of Slavic descent.

Indeed there are more women age 25-29 on there, most of whom want LTRs.

I've yet to come across a woman below the age of 25-29 on Hinge who fits this profile unless if she were Slavic. Slavs LOVE the HQNP look in the South-East UK.

Thank god I don't live in London.

How did you not fuck at uni? Are you NT? Did you make friends? Go out?

Every time I have casual sex with a girl (happened 3 days ago from a bar) we end up learning everything about each other. I legit think it's the best way to make a connection with someone.

Because the dating process pre-sex you're both putting on a facade to impress the other person or come off cooler than you are

 

[Xangsane]

How did you not fuck at uni? Are you NT? Did you make friends? Go out?

Every time I have casual sex with a girl (happened 3 days ago from a bar) we end up learning everything about each other. I legit think it's the best way to make a connection with someone.

Because the dating process pre-sex you're both putting on a facade to impress the other person or come off cooler than you are

I don't like casual sex and I was way too busy trying to make friends, building connections, trying new things and of course getting my grades.

I used to think of myself as NT, but I'm reconsidering.

 

[NonChadSlayer]

I don't like casual sex and I was way too busy trying to make friends, building connections, trying new things and of course getting my grades.

I used to think of myself as NT, but I'm reconsidering

You don't like casual sex?

So you're at a party and this girl is hinting at you to take her home and fuck her, you would decline because you don't like casual sex?

I smashed btw

 

[aBetterMii]

How did you not fuck at uni? Are you NT? Did you make friends? Go out?

Every time I have casual sex with a girl (happened 3 days ago from a bar) we end up learning everything about each other. I legit think it's the best way to make a connection with someone.

Because the dating process pre-sex you're both putting on a facade to impress the other person or come off cooler than you are

I love xang, but hes easily one of the biggest giga autists on the forum, maybe the biggest

 

[Xangsane]

You don't like casual sex?

So you're at a party and this girl is hinting at you to take her home and fuck her, you would decline because you don't like casual sex?View attachment 1516613
I smashed btw

Not at all.

I'd decline yes. Plus she screams "attention-seeker"/"status-seeker" to me.

 

[NonChadSlayer]

Not at all.

I'd decline yes. Plus she screams "attention-seeker"/"status-seeker" to me.

Man, if you're looking for a girl who doesn't want attention and status, you might have to go to another planet.

Those are literally the 2 metrics girls use to judge their own worth and success in life.

 

[Enfant terrible]

Just move on you have plenty of options any ways right ?

 

[NonChadSlayer]

Yeah, sure but I fly out of the country in 2 days and tonight was my last chance to slay before I leave. This girl basically gooseguarded me from lining up something else for tonight then ghosted with no explanation. Fuming rn

 

[NonChadSlayer]

Just move on you have plenty of options any ways right ?

Yeah, sure but I fly out of the country in 2 days and tonight was my last chance to slay before I leave. This girl basically gooseguarded me from lining up something else for tonight then ghosted with no explanation. Fuming rn at the fucking disrespect

 

[Xangsane]

Man, if you're looking for a girl who doesn't want attention and status, you might have to go to another planet.

Those are literally the 2 metrics girls use to judge their own worth and success in life.

They seem so shallow to me.

 

[Ziggy S]

I hope you bump into this foid and make her feel awkward and as uncomfortable as hell one day.

 

[Deleted member 4466]

What are some activities that allow you to meet baddies tho? They don't do any activities. They literally sit at home scrolling insta, shop online, get takeout and go take photos with their friends.

You really saying u gon meet baddies at a meetup.com event?

yoga class is one example. yoga classes are literally 80% bad bitches lol. if you look good, are in good shape, have good social skills, yoga classes would be an ideal spot to potentially meet a chick. going to various types of gyms (rock climbing gym for example) is a good spot to meet young, fit women and it’s a fun environment to strike up a conversation

 

[Anchor_Ship]

Life does that to you sometimes

 

[APJ]

‘Location: London’ and there it is

I did notice though that hinge has lots more girls in the 25-29 year old range which is when they start to panic about not being married, so you could be right

Not panicking hard enough, I’m afraid

 

[Magical Apple]

Have over 30 matches on Hinge in London.

All 6s to 8.5s either white or white Asians.

Had a date set with a High tier becky, told her to keep the date free. She did, and agreed we'd be meeting up. When the day came we messaged back and fourth to agree on a bar. We settled on one of the coolest cocktail bars in London complete with activities.

I ask the girl how long she needs to get ready so we can agree on a time.

She doesn't reply and unmatches me.

Wtf is this? Online dating was nothing like this 3 years ago.

women do this shit and act surprised when I am talking to lots of women. Like how tf do they expect me to play "fair" when the game is rigged against me?

 

[cvzvvc]

Yeah, sure but I fly out of the country in 2 days and tonight was my last chance to slay before I leave. This girl basically gooseguarded me from lining up something else for tonight then ghosted with no explanation. Fuming rn at the fucking disrespect

... Which is why when you're planning a night out, you should be lining up multiple dates. Why? Because she was doing the same shit to you, and you just found out what it's like to be traded up. Chad was digging her guts out while you analyzed the situation at 2:53 AM while staring at your ceiling.

We've all been there. It sucks.

 

[NonChadSlayer]

... Which is why when you're planning a night out, you should be lining up multiple dates. Why? Because she was doing the same shit to you, and you just found out what it's like to be traded up. Chad was digging her guts out while you analyzed the situation at 2:53 AM while staring at your ceiling.

We've all been there. It sucks.

Pshhh she wasn't even anything special. She would have been in the bottom 25% of girls I've been with looks wise. If some chad wants her, fine by me