Hinge matches dont follow my insta after i give it to them, why?

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In the past 24h, I have texted a bit with two foids, and with both I made dates, like picking them up in my convertible, and they were down. Then I texted my Insta and told them we should text there; they said yes, and then just didn't follow. Can somebody bring light into this situation? Why would somebody plan a whole-ass date and then say they will follow, but just skip that? How tf does that happen?
 
and also is there a way to recover or is it just over
 
@mcmentalonthemic what is your high iq take?
 
this forum is fucking dead💔
 
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usually means they dont fw you, what probably happened:

- they see more than the 5-6 cherrypicked best angle pics on ur hinge profile and realize youre actually chopped

- they see your follower count is low (unpopular/unsocial like below 1200)

- they see your ratio is off (ex: like 1100 followers to 1800 following, indicates lack of popularity)

- they see you follow dozens of OF models and blondes in bikinis (im guilty of this)

- they see your posts dont have enough likes or comments to indicate popularity (400+, 20+ even for nonchalant, 40+ for actual important touse posts)
 
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usually means they dont fw you, what probably happened:

- they see more than the 5-6 cherrypicked best angle pics on ur hinge profile and realize youre actually chopped

- they see your follower count is low (unpopular/unsocial like below 1200)

- they see your ratio is off (ex: like 1100 followers to 1800 following, indicates lack of popularity)

- they see you follow dozens of OF models and blondes in bikinis (im guilty of this)

- they see your posts dont have enough likes or comments to indicate popularity (400+, 20+ even for nonchalant, 40+ for actual important touse posts)
how to fix:

- switch to a touse profile pic
- no more selfies (autistic) or gay pics of nature and stuff (performative larp), only group pics, pics like being backstage at UNVRS, at coachella, on a yacht, etc or frat formals/semi formals/darties/themed parties
- look at least middle class in ur pics (no poor ppl indicators)
- good follower count and ratio
- no horny following
 
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usually means they dont fw you, what probably happened:

- they see more than the 5-6 cherrypicked best angle pics on ur hinge profile and realize youre actually chopped

- they see your follower count is low (unpopular/unsocial like below 1200)

- they see your ratio is off (ex: like 1100 followers to 1800 following, indicates lack of popularity)

- they see you follow dozens of OF models and blondes in bikinis (im guilty of this)

- they see your posts dont have enough likes or comments to indicate popularity (400+, 20+ even for nonchalant, 40+ for actual important touse posts)
-They dont see anything because my profile is private and my pfp is also used in my hinge.

-i have 200/158 ratio which is just normal

-I dont follow of girls and they wouldn't even see it anyway

-I dont have posts and they wouldn't see anyway

-Basically they dont see shit, only information they get is my Follwer/Following count

Also the girl would gain a follower aswell.

Im just guessing its a hormonal thing and just stopped fw me
 
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-They dont see anything because my profile is private and my pfp is also used in my hinge.

-i have 200/158 ratio which is just normal

-I dont follow of girls and they wouldn't even see it anyway

-I dont have posts and they wouldn't see anyway

-Basically they dont see shit, only information they get is my Follwer/Following count

Also the girl would gain a follower aswell.

Im just guessing its a hormonal thing and just stopped fw me
cuz no posts and 200 followers is nerd autist loser trait thats why
 
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cuz no posts and 200 followers is nerd autist loser trait thats why
we live in two different places, here in switzerland its common to have you pictures in the highlights and 200followers is also completely normal🙏🙏
 
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we live in two different places, here in switzerland its common to have you pictures in the highlights and 200followers is also completely normal🙏🙏
how old are u? 200 followers is normal for a 13 year old maybe
 
we live in two different places, here in switzerland its common to have you pictures in the highlights and 200followers is also completely normal🙏🙏
in US rich white social circles aged 20-25 most birds have 4000+ followers and 1500ish following, guys usually 1500+ followers and about 1000 following. More if influencers or models/athletes

A couple posts is good enough as guys (nonchalant lowkey gender), hot girls are expected to have 25-30+
 
in US rich white social circles aged 20-25 most birds have 4000+ followers and 1500ish following, guys usually 1500+ followers and about 1000 following. More if influencers or models/athletes

A couple posts is good enough as guys (nonchalant lowkey gender), hot girls are expected to have 25-30+
what are you on about😔 im not a flippin model neither is anyone i have ever met
 
In the past 24h, I have texted a bit with two foids, and with both I made dates, like picking them up in my convertible, and they were down. Then I texted my Insta and told them we should text there; they said yes, and then just didn't follow. Can somebody bring light into this situation? Why would somebody plan a whole-ass date and then say they will follow, but just skip that? How tf does that happen?
Whose gonna tell him
 
@CelestialEmpire i texted them both just "?" and they both apologized and sent follow🤷‍♂️
 
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In the past 24h, I have texted a bit with two foids, and with both I made dates, like picking them up in my convertible, and they were down. Then I texted my Insta and told them we should text there; they said yes, and then just didn't follow. Can somebody bring light into this situation? Why would somebody plan a whole-ass date and then say they will follow, but just skip that? How tf does that happen?
prob weren’t that interested in you
 
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tell me buddy
Can’t lie to u man, ldar atp bc women in this gen esp on dating apps aren’t worth it. I’m guessing they didn’t want to get anything serious maybe their cheating on their partner, but what were your goals tho? Hookups or relationships
 

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