Hinge success vs instagram success

[thsdoe]

A bit of context:

.on hinge I have a match rate of 28 percent with 422+ matches in total as a south Asian man (which imo surprised me since south Asians don’t have the best reputation)
. I find it relatively easy to slay irl
. Gets called handsome frequently, was walking down the street once and a stranger said “god you’re handsome as fuck”
. Gets called a player/ whore pretty often


On the other hand though on instagram
. Went on a following spree with a public account with a few posts and stories, got some follow backs with others accepting them and not even following back (mostly strangers with no mutuals) . Tried dming some girls and got flirty responses and was unsuccessful with other girls (although I have to admit my game over DMs needs a lot of work). Some of the girls that aired my DMs were I’d say sub5 which confused me the most since I’d get htbs and stacylites on hinge.

. Some girls do slide into MY DMs but they aren’t strangers and I’ve known them irl

So now I’m left pretty confused as to which one to use as a gauge for my smv. Any advice is appreciated

 

[truechangstatus]

A bit of context:

.on hinge I have a match rate of 28 percent with 422+ matches in total as a south Asian man (which imo surprised me since south Asians don’t have the best reputation)
. I find it relatively easy to slay irl
. Gets called handsome frequently, was walking down the street once and a stranger said “god you’re handsome as fuck”
. Gets called a player/ whore pretty often


On the other hand though on instagram
. Went on a following spree with a public account with a few posts and stories, got some follow backs with others accepting them and not even following back (mostly strangers with no mutuals) . Tried dming some girls and got flirty responses and was unsuccessful with other girls (although I have to admit my game over DMs needs a lot of work). Some of the girls that aired my DMs were I’d say sub5 which confused me the most since I’d get htbs and stacylites on hinge.

. Some girls do slide into MY DMs but they aren’t strangers and I’ve known them irl

So now I’m left pretty confused as to which one to use as a gauge for my smv. Any advice is appreciated

u obv look good bro, esp as a south asian

 

[thsdoe]

u obv look good bro, esp as a south asian

Thanks bro, I must be overanalysing this wayy too much