Holy fuck I hate Saturdays

[DrunkenSailor]

I hate weekends fucking boring crap I can’t go out cause I have no friends. Stuck inside playing games I can’t even be arsed to play but have to kill time
Fuck my life

 

[Deleted member 5583]

 

[OldRooster]

It is because Saturday is the only day without a unique letter. The M in Monday is unique, the N in Sunday is unique etc

 

[Deleted member 4991]

Everyday these past 3 months has been a weekend for me

 

[DrunkenSailor]

Everyday these past 3 months has been a weekend for me

Not for me tbh
But it’s difficult to live like that

 

[Tusseleif]

Good to know I’m not the only loser without friends on this forum

 

[UltimateAesthetics]

Imagine complaining that you have free time. Meanwhile, there are child laborers in 3rd world country who don't even know what a video game is

 

[DrunkenSailor]

Good to know I’m not the only loser without friends on this forum

Yes man I have 0 friends right now. 0. None. The absolute nulity on earth. It’s beyond fucking over for me. And i am not even young to have hope for another social circle rebuild

 

[Deleted member 773]

It is because Saturday is the only day without a unique letter. The M in Monday is unique, the N in Sunday is unique etc

Tuesday has no unique letter

 

[Tusseleif]

Yes man I have 0 friends right now. 0. None. The absolute nulity on earth. It’s beyond fucking over for me. And i am not even young to have hope for another social circle rebuild

I haven’t had friends in like three years now. Ridiculous I know. I also lost my social skills I had in that time, so now I have a hard time talking to people. Fuck I hate having aspergers. Building a social circle seems impossible now. Getting a girlfriend also seems impossible because they will probably judge me like shit for having no friends. I feel hopeless

 

[Bewusst]

Good to know I’m not the only loser without friends on this forum

No, you’re not

 

[DrunkenSailor]

I haven’t had friends in like three years now. Ridiculous I know. I also lost my social skills I had in that time, so now I have a hard time talking to people. Fuck I hate having aspergers. Building a social circle seems impossible now. Getting a girlfriend also seems impossible because they will probably judge me like shit for having no friends. I feel hopeless

How old are you dude?

 

[Deleted member 6400]

go outside

 

[Tusseleif]

How old are you dude?

19. A bit late to make friends at school now

 

[UltimateAesthetics]

I haven’t had friends in like three years now. Ridiculous I know. I also lost my social skills I had in that time, so now I have a hard time talking to people. Fuck I hate having aspergers. Building a social circle seems impossible now. Getting a girlfriend also seems impossible because they will probably judge me like shit for having no friends. I feel hopeless

You can be fine without friends. Everyone goes through periods in their life when it could happen. It's normal. The trick is to be comfortable with yourself in those times and be optimistic that in the future, there will be people who care about you as long as you are a good person and care for others as well

 

[Deleted member 3702]

I don't care tbh

 

[Deleted member 5927]

OP imagine having no family, no friends, and living in the middle of nowhere I'm so fucking bored

 

[bladeeout]

OP imagine having no family, no friends, and living in the middle of nowhere I'm so fucking bored

I couldn’t imagine this. I would probably just go into the VR headset and never come out

 

[Deleted member 5927]

I couldn’t imagine this. I would probably just go into the VR headset and never come out

im joining US air force to get out there's no jobs around me i legit live in the middle of the fucking forest i need to GTFO

 

[bladeeout]

im joining US air force to get out there's no jobs around me i legit live in the middle of the fucking forest i need to GTFO

Whenever I drive through a really rural area I always think to myself “what the fuck do these people do all day, there isn’t shit anywhere and they’re all probably poor”. Good for u though Air Force has legit benefits

 

[Tusseleif]

You can be fine without friends. Everyone goes through periods in their life when it could happen. It's normal. The trick is to be comfortable with yourself in those times and be optimistic that in the future, there will be people who care about you as long as you are a good person and care for others as well

I am fine without friends. I like being by myself and doing my own stuff, but I’n insecure that people will judge me for not having friends you know? That they won’t accept me because of it

 

[bladeeout]

I am fine without friends. I like being by myself and doing my own stuff, but I’n insecure that people will judge me for not having friends you know? That they won’t accept me because of it

I feel this. You can’t make friends bc you don’t have any friends to branch off of, and when you do make a friend, they find out you don’t have any other friends and then they think you’re weird

 

[UltimateAesthetics]

I am fine without friends. I like being by myself and doing my own stuff, but I’n insecure that people will judge me for not having friends you know? That they won’t accept me because of it

If they judge you harshly, then maybe they are the wrong people in the first place

 

[Tusseleif]

I feel this. You can’t make friends bc you don’t have any friends to branch off of, and when you do make a friend, they find out you don’t have any other friends and then they think you’re weird

Exactly

 

[Deleted member 5927]

You can be fine without friends. Everyone goes through periods in their life when it could happen. It's normal. The trick is to be comfortable with yourself in those times and be optimistic that in the future, there will be people who care about you as long as you are a good person and care for others as well

No you can't. No you cannot. You cannot survive without friends.

You will never fucking know what it's like. I haven't talked to a single person other than coworkers in fucking MONTHS.

I have NO FAMILY my parents DO NOT CARE ABOUT ME they are both sub 90 IQ.

You CANNOT survive without friends

This is what I am doing right now. Sitting here laying down. Nobody will come to check on me, nobody will message me, if I died right now nobody would come looking. It is brutal. I feel like I'm living on another fucking planet.

Imagine living in a world full of people but still feeling like you are the only one. That is true loneliness. You probably have just never truly experienced this trauma I live every day.

 

[DrunkenSailor]

19. A bit late to make friends at school now

You got a good chance if you go to uni

 

[UltimateAesthetics]

No you can't. No you cannot. You cannot survive without friends.

You will never fucking know what it's like. I haven't talked to a single person other than coworkers in fucking MONTHS.

I have NO FAMILY my parents DO NOT CARE ABOUT ME they are both sub 90 IQ.

You CANNOT survive without friends

This is what I am doing right now. Sitting here laying down. Nobody will come to check on me, nobody will message me, if I died right now nobody would come looking. It is brutal. I feel like I'm living on another fucking planet.

Imagine living in a world full of people but still feeling like you are the only one. That is true loneliness. You probably have just never truly experienced this trauma I live every day.

I understand where you are coming from. When I was in high school, and probably more so in college, there were periods when I had no one to rely on. No messages, no attention, no one even knew my birthday. It feels like everyone else is having a party every weekend and are doing things together while you do not exist in anyone's reality. An invisible figure in everyone's background. I feel you.

The truth is, you are exaggerating this negative perspective. Maybe it is true that you don't have anyone RIGHT NOW that you can call a friend, or that no one "cares" about you enough to contact you. It is naturally human bias to self-sabotage ourselves in self-pity to make ourselves feel better that we acknowledge our "perceived lack of worth".

1. You can definitely be happy and fulfilled EVEN if you lived a solitude life. It's possible. You need goals and aspirations, hobbies that make you look forward to everyday.

2. Your situation right now is NOT permanent. Life comes fast, next thing you know you may have a different job, a different career, different interests, or meet a really awesome person that comes when you are least expecting it. It is ONLY permanent if you don't change anything, don't change any habits, and don't change your negative, pessimistic perspective.

Keep your head up and be strong. There is always admiration for those who refuse to give up and always improve themselves