Hookup game on hinge: girls "wanting ltr" but not telling them and just hooking up then soft rejecting after?

[aBetterMii]

Is this viable strat? It would be kind of scummy tho but idk kinda want to try

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Tbh normwlly you just go for a date and see what happens- setting expectations beforehand is non NT

 

[aBetterMii]

Tbh normwlly you just go for a date and see what happens- setting expectations beforehand is non NT

Well the idea is if possible to fuck on first date

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Well the idea is if possible to fuck on first date

Yeah that happens like 90% of the time

Don’t say beforehand oh are we gonna fuck or something just say let’s go for a drink this weekend then meet have a few drinks and invite her back to yours after

 

[aBetterMii]

Yeah that happens like 90% of the time

Don’t say beforehand oh are we gonna fuck or something just say let’s go for a drink this weekend then meet have a few drinks and invite her back to yours after

I know
I dont have place it would have to be their place or da car

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

I know
I dont have place it would have to be their place or da car

The car makes things a lot more awkward so try and filter girls who have their own place

Also it’s kinda more awkward inviting yourself over to a girls house vs inviting her to yours

 

[aBetterMii]

The car makes things a lot more awkward so try and filter girls who have their own place

Also it’s kinda more awkward inviting yourself over to a girls house vs inviting her to yours

Yeah ita over for me

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Yeah ita over for me

You could just g t drinks on the first date and then suggest getting a hotel for the second date?

Makes it harder tho cos you’ve gotta sustain a foids interest even longer

 

[Xangsane]

@thereallegend @decadouche57

 

[Xangsane]

@DarkTetrad

 

[aBetterMii]

You could just g t drinks on the first date and then suggest getting a hotel for the second date?

Makes it harder tho cos you’ve gotta sustain a foids interest even longer

Also 95% of girls i talk to are under 21 so unkess they have fakes thats also over

 

[Deleted member 2268]

@thereallegend @decadouche57

If a girl is actually serious about ltr she won’t even bang on the first date. There are a few girls that will hook up and then expect you to be interested in LTR but they are in the minority I think.

 

[thereallegend]

@thereallegend @decadouche57

OP will get banned sooner or later running this strategy

 

[Xangsane]

@Mill

How do you casually fuck / fwb chicks without getting them pissed / wanting a relationship

any strats for this? just lookin for ideas. It seems like alot of women feel like they are getting "played" if you want to fuck but aren't interested in settling down with them. I feel like one interesting way to do this is to basically make her not want to be in a real relationship with you...

looksmax.org

 

[Deleted member 2268]

Tbh normwlly you just go for a date and see what happens- setting expectations beforehand is non NT

Exactly this. Every girl is different. Some will bang on first date some on the second etc. Every girl wants ltr so this post is pretty dumb

 

[Deleted member 14774]

My chad friend fucks a lot of stacies from Hinge by just inviting them over to his house. No LTR or dating involved. I’ve seen proof on his phone.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

If a girl is actually serious about ltr she won’t even bang on the first date. There are a few girls that will hook up and then expect you to be interested in LTR but they are in the minority I think.

I actually disgaree with this to be honest

I think most guys prefer it if their ltr starts out as a casual fwb situ or hookup because then after sex that’s when they have the challenge and work to get the guy to commit to them and they actually feel like they won.


Remember for girls getting sex or dates is so easy to them even with men way above their looks level so in order for them to actually value you they have to feel like they won or got lucky somehow to be wit you

 

[thereallegend]

Every girl wants ltr

true

 

[Deleted member 2268]

OP will get banned sooner or later running this strategy

JFL at the cluelessness here. It’s not like you can negotiate with a girl and say you want LTR in exchange for sex. This stuff happens naturally. The best you can do is pretend to be interested in the girl then this after sex. But girls that are rly serious about LTR usually won’t bang your right away, why would they?

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

My chad friend fucks a lot of stacies from Hinge by just inviting them over to his house. No LTR or dating involved. I’ve seen proof on his phone.

If you’re a HTN you’ll have better luck taking girls on dates I’d say but you can still get laid on first date if you’ve got decent game irl

 

[Deleted member 2268]

I actually disgaree with this to be honest

I think most guys prefer it if their ltr starts out as a casual fwb situ or hookup because then after sex that’s when they have the challenge and work to get the guy to commit to them and they actually feel like they won.


Remember for girls getting sex or dates is so easy to them even with men way above their looks level so in order for them to actually value you they have to feel like they won or got lucky somehow to be wit you

Yeah guys prefer it. Why would a girl give up her biggest bargaining chip and put the ball in the guys court. They hold out on sex so the guy will keep investing that’s how the game is played. I know this I have a high laycount and I’ve dated a lot of diff girls

 

[Deleted member 14774]

If you’re a HTN you’ll have better luck taking girls on dates I’d say but you can still get laid on first date if you’ve got decent game irl

The friend I’m talking about doesn’t date. All of his convos are sexual from the start, and he just invites them over to his place for the first time meeting.

 

[DarkTetrad]

This strat is not only “viable”, it’s the ONLY way to legitimately consistently slay.

And you also have to looksmax, money max, dark triad max, fashion max, roid max, NT max in conjunction with this lmfao otherwise you’ll be waiting 2 months per bitch instead of 2 days.

Soft rejection is smart. Just tell her plans changed or that she wasn’t who you thought she was. blame her and break her self esteem. I always just ghosted and blocked

 

[Deleted member 2268]

If you’re a HTN you’ll have better luck taking girls on dates I’d say but you can still get laid on first date if you’ve got decent game irl

Amnesia has 50% flake rate on inviting to house.

 

[Deleted member 2268]

This strat is not only “viable”, it’s the ONLY way to legitimately consistently slay.

And you also have to looksmax, money max, dark triad max, fashion max, roid max, NT max in conjunction with this lmfao otherwise you’ll be waiting 2 months per bitch instead of 2 days.

Soft rejection is smart. Just tell her plans changed or that she wasn’t who you thought she was. blame her and break her self esteem. I always just ghosted and blocked

Why even say that. Just don’t message her after sex

 

[Xangsane]

My chad friend fucks a lot of stacies from Hinge by just inviting them over to his house. No LTR or dating involved. I’ve seen proof on his phone.

Was this the same coke and alcohol Love Island nigga?

 

[thereallegend]

JFL at the cluelessness here. It’s not like you can negotiate with a girl and say you want LTR in exchange for sex. This stuff happens naturally. The best you can do is pretend to be interested in the girl then this after sex. But girls that are rly serious about LTR usually won’t bang your right away, why would they?

My one and only date from Hinge stole my keys and wanted to look through my phone on the first date.

 

[Deleted member 2268]

My one and only date from Hinge stole my keys and wanted to look through my phone on the first date.

If a girl won’t come to my place first date I’ll just walk out of the date. No patience for uptight cunts

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Yeah guys prefer it. Why would a girl give up her biggest bargaining chip and put the ball in the guys court. They hold out on sex so the guy will keep investing that’s how the game is played. I know this I have a high laycount and I’ve dated a lot of diff girls

I’ve got a high lay count too and with 1 or 2 exceptions I’ve either slayed the girl the first time I met her or not at all

I’ve never really experienced a girl holding out- if they don’t fuck straight away it’s normally just because they’re not attracted so you never fuck

 

[DarkTetrad]

Why even say that. Just don’t message her after sex

It’ll lead to fun conversation.

“You weren’t the girl I thought you were.”

“Wdym.”

“Well —insert criticism—“

Gotta be a fun reaction to witness

 

[Xangsane]

I’ve got a high lay count too and with 1 or 2 exceptions I’ve either slayed the girl the first time I met her or not at all

I’ve never really experienced a girl holding out- if they don’t fuck straight away it’s normally just because they’re not attracted so you never fuck

What do you consider a high lay count?

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

The friend I’m talking about doesn’t date. All of his convos are sexual from the start, and he just invites them over to his place for the first time meeting.

I’m not denying that’s true- I’m just saying for guys a bit lower in looks they’ll have a better chance going on dates Vs straight up inviting over for sex

 

[Deleted member 2268]

I’ve got a high lay count too and with 1 or 2 exceptions I’ve either slayed the girl the first time I met her or not at all

I’ve never really experienced a girl holding out- if they don’t fuck straight away it’s normally just because they’re not attracted so you never fuck

Wrong. Dude are you retarded. A girl is not gonna waste her time going on dates with you if she’s not attracted. I’ve banged tons of girls on second or third dates. It’s a comfort issue on her part and some want to know you first. What is your laycount

 

[Deleted member 2268]

It’ll lead to fun conversation.

“You weren’t the girl I thought you were.”

“Wdym.”

“Well —insert criticism—“

Gotta be a fun reaction to witness

Waste of time.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

What do you consider a high lay count?

Mines 35 so I’d say that’s high- idk maybe it’s just mid

 

[Deleted member 2268]

What do you consider a high lay count?

Probably 10 for him

 

[Deleted member 2268]

Mines 35 so I’d say that’s high- idk maybe it’s just mid

That’s high??? Lol mine is 100+

 

[Xangsane]

Mines 35 so I’d say that’s high- idk maybe it’s just mid

That's very high!

 

[Deleted member 2268]

Mines 35 so I’d say that’s high- idk maybe it’s just mid

It is actually high for normie standards but just above average for PUA standards

 

[Deleted member 2268]

That's very high!

Actually? I did that many in a year

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Wrong. Dude are you retarded. A girl is not gonna waste her time going on dates with you if she’s not attracted. I’ve banged tons of girls on second or third dates. It’s a comfort issue on her part and some want to know you first. What is your laycount

35 laycount

And tbh that’s just not always the case- sometimes the vibe is just off irl cos you don’t have great chemistry face to face even tho you liked eachothers pics.

Every girl who I ever slept with made it easy pretty much straight off the bat- the girls who made it hard made it impossible by just flaking/ghosting or whatever.

 

[Xangsane]

Actually? I did that many in a year

1 lay here and repenting. Lost V at 23.

 

[thereallegend]

That’s high??? Lol mine is 100+

What % of the slays came on 1st vs 2nd/3rd dates?

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

That’s high??? Lol mine is 100+

It’s not a competition- im simply stating my life experiences and they don’t match up with what you described

Maybe it’s cos I’m in UK and you’re in US

 

[Deleted member 2268]

35 laycount

And tbh that’s just not always the case- sometimes the vibe is just off irl cos you don’t have great chemistry face to face even tho you liked eachothers pics.

Every girl who I ever slept with made it easy pretty much straight off the bat- the girls who made it hard made it impossible by just flaking/ghosting or whatever.

That’s because you lack game. Yes some girls are easy off the bat. The ones that are on the fence take more work to bang and that’s where game comes in. Also yes vibing matters a lot in addition to looks. But this is where game comes in to convince them to bang you even when they don’t make it easy. I used to be like you but I gained more experience and started banging girls that didn’t make it easy

 

[Xangsane]

Actually? I did that many in a year

I heard some real grafters could get this many within half a year even.

 

[thereallegend]

1 lay here and repenting. Lost V at 23.

3 lays
6 kiss count

 

[Xangsane]

3 lays
6 kiss count

1 kiss count too. Had my first kiss at 23

 

[Deleted member 2268]

I heard some real grafters could get this many within half a year even.

Depends on your location mostly. In Brazil I could get this in one month. Also depends how often you go out etc. if you can bang 2 a month then it’s rly up to your level of effort how many more you want to bang

 

[aBetterMii]

It is actually high for normie standards but just above average for PUA standards

How is 9 at 22