Hookup game on hinge: girls "wanting ltr" but not telling them and just hooking up then soft rejecting after?

[aBetterMii]

I mean PSL is kinda bs just give me a ballpark estimate of your personal opinion. I want some subjective perspectives on attractiveness as well I have been doing non stop pure aesthetics ratings lately. You have managed to look really good so ig some NT advice from you is better than these basement-dwellers who jerk off O'Pry and Barrett

Vinnie Hacker and Delon supremacy!

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

I mean PSL is kinda bs just give me a ballpark estimate of your personal opinion. I want some subjective perspectives on attractiveness as well I have been doing non stop pure aesthetics ratings lately. You have managed to look really good so ig some NT advice from you is better than these basement-dwellers who jerk off O'Pry and Barrett

Sure thing then

 

[HarrierDuBois]

Sure thing then

Your tinder success is impeccable so you know stuff these ppl dont

 

[Deleted member 2268]

The girls who actually want ltr on hinge make it hard to hook up. They only want coffee dates jfl

This

 

[Deleted member 2268]

Do you know why Hinge is taking off, in part? Because the entire app caters to the core of female psyche: Appear one way in front of others, but behind closed doors act another way. Hinge caters to women not wanting to seem like sluts/having plausible deniability. It has that super glossy and hip tech exterior but at the end of the day from running all those Maherfishes I can tell you they are really just looking to get their backs blown out by a hot guy just the same as they are on Tinder. LTR? Don't make me laugh. You're thinking 5 steps ahead son. Get inside of her and then we can talk game. Don't feel bad because she'd drop your candy ass in five seconds for a hotter guy.

You think hinge is becoming more popular?

 

[Xangsane]

The girls who actually want ltr on hinge make it hard to hook up. They only want coffee dates jfl

@wallace still fucked multiple girls on coffee dates.

 

[Britmaxxer]

Is this viable strat? It would be kind of scummy tho but idk kinda want to try

viable. if they are online dating apps and put out on the first date, or agree to a netflix date, they are just virtue signalling about an ltr anyway.

 

[makeme183]

My chad friend fucks a lot of stacies from Hinge by just inviting them over to his house. No LTR or dating involved. I’ve seen proof on his phone.

what's his success rate ?
many girls won't come over without meeting you even if they like you cuz its a safety issue for them
was your friend mike thalassitis ? the coke and alcohol guy from love island ?

@decadouche57 and @DoctorLooksmax - what's the number of your first date lays compared to 2nd date lays ?

I always fuck them on the 2nd date , cuz
1.I ask them for the 2nd date to my/her place over text,so less chance of fumbling and coming off low T rather than face to face on first date
2.They might be on their periods/not shaved/have to meet a friend/family , so they'll reject you even if they wanna fuck you
3.I come off as less sex starved than your typical male , and she thinks I'm a gentleman who wants to get to know her (bs,I know)

the cons would be flaking/losing interest/finding someone better , but I think if you can schedule the 2nd date within that week,chances of that happening are less

opinions ?

 

[Deleted member 2268]

what's his success rate ?
many girls won't come over without meeting you even if they like you cuz its a safety issue for them
was your friend mike thalassitis ? the coke and alcohol guy from love island ?

@decadouche57 and @DoctorLooksmax - what's the number of your first date lays compared to 2nd date lays ?

I always fuck them on the 2nd date , cuz
1.I ask them for the 2nd date to my/her place over text,so less chance of fumbling and coming off low T rather than face to face on first date
2.They might be on their periods/not shaved/have to meet a friend/family , so they'll reject you even if they wanna fuck you
3.I come off as less sex starved than your typical male , and she thinks I'm a gentleman who wants to get to know her (bs,I know)

the cons would be flaking/losing interest/finding someone better , but I think if you can schedule the 2nd date within that week,chances of that happening are less

opinions ?

Most I bang on the first date. Sometimes when I escalate hard on the first date I don’t get a second date bc the girl thinks I’m a fuckboy. How do you end the first date if you plan to bang them on the second?

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

what's his success rate ?
many girls won't come over without meeting you even if they like you cuz its a safety issue for them
was your friend mike thalassitis ? the coke and alcohol guy from love island ?

@decadouche57 and @DoctorLooksmax - what's the number of your first date lays compared to 2nd date lays ?

I always fuck them on the 2nd date , cuz
1.I ask them for the 2nd date to my/her place over text,so less chance of fumbling and coming off low T rather than face to face on first date
2.They might be on their periods/not shaved/have to meet a friend/family , so they'll reject you even if they wanna fuck you
3.I come off as less sex starved than your typical male , and she thinks I'm a gentleman who wants to get to know her (bs,I know)

the cons would be flaking/losing interest/finding someone better , but I think if you can schedule the 2nd date within that week,chances of that happening are less

opinions ?

First date lays 29
Second date lays 3

 

[makeme183]

Sometimes when I escalate hard on the first date I don’t get a second date bc the girl thinks I’m a fuckboy

This is exactly what I'm scared of

How do you end the first date if you plan to bang them on the second?

I just talk about normal things , make her laugh throughout the date,talk about shows/movies and say something like- "we should watch it together sometime" and in the end just say goodbye and hug
after getting back home , I text her - "had a great time tonight"
then after a few days , invite her to my/her place for the show/movie that I talked about on the first date

 

[makeme183]

First date lays 29

that's amazing man , I would shit my pants if I tried to ask a girl to come over to my place face to face on the first date
you should write a guide on this tbh
you mentioned you take girls to bars , do you think alcohol could be a reason behind your success since it lowers the girl's inhibitions ?
I generally take them for coffee/ice cream first dates , to prevent tinderellas from dining and dashing

the 3 girls you fucked on the 2nd date , I'm guessing they rejected your 1st date bang offer ?
what did you say to go on a 2nd date with you ?

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

that's amazing man , I would shit my pants if I tried to ask a girl to come over to my place face to face on the first date
you should write a guide on this tbh
you mentioned you take girls to bars , do you think alcohol could be a reason behind your success since it lowers the girl's inhibitions ?
I generally take them for coffee/ice cream first dates , to prevent tinderellas from dining and dashing

the 3 girls you fucked on the 2nd date , I'm guessing they rejected your 1st date bang offer ?
what did you say to go on a 2nd date with you ?

The 3 I didn’t never rejected first date bang

First was the girl I lost my v to like 6 years ago- we just walked around a shopping centre then made out w bit in my car on first date

Second time I met a girl during the daytime and we had a picnic- she was very sexual on the first date and even enquired about coming back to mine ‘some other time’ since she lived with parents- became my gf eventually

Third one went out to a bar wasn’t sure she was that into me at first but started making out and getting more intimate as the nig went on- it was lkke a Wednesday so I had work in the morning and it was already half midnight when we left the bar- she asked ‘do you live nearby when we left’- which I thought was her implying she wanted to come back but it was too late given it was a weeknight tbh. Became fwb for a bit after 2nd date and bang.

I can only think of one time I actually asked a girl to come back to mine and she said no- the other times I didn’t slay I could just tell the girl wasn’t into me enough so never bothered to invite them

 

[makeme183]

I could just tell the girl wasn’t into me enough

can you elab on this ? what are the signs that they aren't into you ?

do you think its possible to fuck them on the first date WITHOUT escalating/sexualising/making out in public first ?

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

can you elab on this ? what are the signs that they aren't into you ?

do you think its possible to fuck them on the first date WITHOUT escalating/sexualising/making out in public first ?

Just body language etc and the general vibe I get from them

Here’s one really god tip actually- if you go for drinks try and find a bar or pub with a sofa or something like that so you can sit next to her rather than opposite her, this way after a while when you’ve been chatting and are both cmfortable you can just put you arm round the back of the sofa so it’s kind of round her so you can escalate some light physical contact- if she responds well to this you can slowly escalate from there and after a couple or drinks / wen the bar shuts just invite her back to yours

 

[makeme183]

Here’s one really god tip actually- if you go for drinks try and find a bar or pub with a sofa or something like that so you can sit next to her rather than opposite her, this way after a while when you’ve been chatting and are both cmfortable you can just put you arm round the back of the sofa so it’s kind of round her so you can escalate some light physical contact- if she responds well to this you can slowly escalate from there and after a couple or drinks / wen the bar shuts just invite her back to yours

the only problem is :-
1.I don't drink
2.I don't want any chance of a false rape allegation since alcohol was involved
3.I don't go to bars on first dates since I'm scared of getting rinsed (the girl orders the most expensive drinks and later disappears)