Horrible night with my broken ass family

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God this shit is so bad, if you don’t want to read I’ll put the tldr here my family is a joke to be around after my parents divorce and my mom sucks

Background info: Alright so my parents told me and my two younger siblings they were splitting up about two months/ 9 weeks ago, my dad planned to move out and rent in a neighborhood a few minutes away where all of my friends live, he ended up moving into there a few weeks after they told us and now we go back and forth between houses. My dad did everything around the house, (cooking made most of the money etc) so my mom absolutely hated that he wanted to move out and wanted to work it out wah wah she’s mostly the problem tho.

So now it’s been about a month and a half since we started going back and forth between houses, and today my whole family (both my mom my dad me and my siblings) went to a soccer game, my mom had bought the tickets probably in some plan to pull the bullshit she did, I thought it was a stupid idea for them to be going together because all they do is fucking argue but I thought it would be fine, holy shit I was so wrong

A few minutes into the car ride she starts randomly telling me to take my sister to our schools open house Friday, to which my answer was no, because I don’t want to go step foot into the school until I actually have to. She starts yelling about how I “don’t pay for shit and have to do something for her once in a while.” A little bit after that her and my emotional ass sister start arguing like they always do and she gets her phone taken, whatever. Then we start talking about my work and I talked about how I worked today, work tomorrow, then Tuesday and next Sunday but im going to call off next Sunday because I want to enjoy the last day before school . She gets pissed asf saying that I’m lazy and im not calling off, I don’t raise my voice or anything and say that it’s my job, I don’t want to work that day, and she is furious and then takes my phone and continuously keeps bothering me about the same shit, I ask her to just stop yelling at me please and she doesn’t care

We get to the stadium and start walking towards our seats and she is being an absolute bitch to me specifically, cussing me out, im not even responding to her, but she’s just pissed.

Nothing eventful really happened during the game besides her arguing with my dad a few times but once we get in the car home that shit gets bad again, my dramatic ass sister thinks she’s in a movie or some shit and keeps snapping at my mom, her and my dad are arguing the whole time over bullshit, and she (who already is trying to get on EBT after all of this shit) wants to load up on my dad with a big lawyer ordeal that will probably pull 30-40k out of his pocket, but she wants to say her priority is getting my college paid for, lmao

In person im a very chill and quiet person who doesn’t like to deal with bullshit or get very emotional, but my mom mainly and also my sister make this shit fucking hell, 3 months ago I was fine, but it feels like everything is going to shit with all these financial issues and this constant arguing

Nobody will probably read this lol but I just wanted to say it somewhere
 
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DNR
 
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damn sorry bro
 
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with all due respect, does your mom work or do anything with her life?
 
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with all due respect, does your mom work or do anything with her life?
Started working like 3 years ago after not working since I was born, makes pretty low salary and does work on the side
 
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@Tesarossa @UserE_7.random @yyk117 @BlameGeneticsNotMe @hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh tags sorry
 
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hope it gets better:Comfy:
 
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Read the entire thing dude I genuinely hope shit gets better. You just gotta work hard and save up to move out asap or just wait till college unfortunately. Because the way it sounds it seems very hard for your mom to just go back to being normal.
 
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Read the entire thing dude I genuinely hope shit gets better. You just gotta work hard and save up to move out asap or just wait till college unfortunately. Because the way it sounds it seems very hard for your mom to just go back to being normal.
Thank you bro, yeah you’re definitely right she’s extremely bipolar and tends to just blow shit up
 
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God this shit is so bad, if you don’t want to read I’ll put the tldr here my family is a joke to be around after my parents divorce and my mom sucks

Background info: Alright so my parents told me and my two younger siblings they were splitting up about two months/ 9 weeks ago, my dad planned to move out and rent in a neighborhood a few minutes away where all of my friends live, he ended up moving into there a few weeks after they told us and now we go back and forth between houses. My dad did everything around the house, (cooking made most of the money etc) so my mom absolutely hated that he wanted to move out and wanted to work it out wah wah she’s mostly the problem tho.

So now it’s been about a month and a half since we started going back and forth between houses, and today my whole family (both my mom my dad me and my siblings) went to a soccer game, my mom had bought the tickets probably in some plan to pull the bullshit she did, I thought it was a stupid idea for them to be going together because all they do is fucking argue but I thought it would be fine, holy shit I was so wrong

A few minutes into the car ride she starts randomly telling me to take my sister to our schools open house Friday, to which my answer was no, because I don’t want to go step foot into the school until I actually have to. She starts yelling about how I “don’t pay for shit and have to do something for her once in a while.” A little bit after that her and my emotional ass sister start arguing like they always do and she gets her phone taken, whatever. Then we start talking about my work and I talked about how I worked today, work tomorrow, then Tuesday and next Sunday but im going to call off next Sunday because I want to enjoy the last day before school . She gets pissed asf saying that I’m lazy and im not calling off, I don’t raise my voice or anything and say that it’s my job, I don’t want to work that day, and she is furious and then takes my phone and continuously keeps bothering me about the same shit, I ask her to just stop yelling at me please and she doesn’t care

We get to the stadium and start walking towards our seats and she is being an absolute bitch to me specifically, cussing me out, im not even responding to her, but she’s just pissed.

Nothing eventful really happened during the game besides her arguing with my dad a few times but once we get in the car home that shit gets bad again, my dramatic ass sister thinks she’s in a movie or some shit and keeps snapping at my mom, her and my dad are arguing the whole time over bullshit, and she (who already is trying to get on EBT after all of this shit) wants to load up on my dad with a big lawyer ordeal that will probably pull 30-40k out of his pocket, but she wants to say her priority is getting my college paid for, lmao

In person im a very chill and quiet person who doesn’t like to deal with bullshit or get very emotional, but my mom mainly and also my sister make this shit fucking hell, 3 months ago I was fine, but it feels like everything is going to shit with all these financial issues and this constant arguing

Nobody will probably read this lol but I just wanted to say it somewhere
I have seen in so many of my friends’ parents divorce the mom’s foid brain actually explodes and she becomes insane. Genuinely a threat to themselves and society
 
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I have seen in so many of my friends’ parents divorce the mom’s foid brain actually explodes and she becomes insane. Genuinely a threat to themselves and society
Glad im not the only one I guess lol
 
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Seems really stressful, sorry about that
 
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Idk why people say DNR to threads like this
 
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Thanks bro

Yeah I mean I get it some people are too lazy to read anything which is fine but they just want to act edgy and shit
Its super corny in my opinion
 
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God this shit is so bad, if you don’t want to read I’ll put the tldr here my family is a joke to be around after my parents divorce and my mom sucks

Background info: Alright so my parents told me and my two younger siblings they were splitting up about two months/ 9 weeks ago, my dad planned to move out and rent in a neighborhood a few minutes away where all of my friends live, he ended up moving into there a few weeks after they told us and now we go back and forth between houses. My dad did everything around the house, (cooking made most of the money etc) so my mom absolutely hated that he wanted to move out and wanted to work it out wah wah she’s mostly the problem tho.

So now it’s been about a month and a half since we started going back and forth between houses, and today my whole family (both my mom my dad me and my siblings) went to a soccer game, my mom had bought the tickets probably in some plan to pull the bullshit she did, I thought it was a stupid idea for them to be going together because all they do is fucking argue but I thought it would be fine, holy shit I was so wrong

A few minutes into the car ride she starts randomly telling me to take my sister to our schools open house Friday, to which my answer was no, because I don’t want to go step foot into the school until I actually have to. She starts yelling about how I “don’t pay for shit and have to do something for her once in a while.” A little bit after that her and my emotional ass sister start arguing like they always do and she gets her phone taken, whatever. Then we start talking about my work and I talked about how I worked today, work tomorrow, then Tuesday and next Sunday but im going to call off next Sunday because I want to enjoy the last day before school . She gets pissed asf saying that I’m lazy and im not calling off, I don’t raise my voice or anything and say that it’s my job, I don’t want to work that day, and she is furious and then takes my phone and continuously keeps bothering me about the same shit, I ask her to just stop yelling at me please and she doesn’t care

We get to the stadium and start walking towards our seats and she is being an absolute bitch to me specifically, cussing me out, im not even responding to her, but she’s just pissed.

Nothing eventful really happened during the game besides her arguing with my dad a few times but once we get in the car home that shit gets bad again, my dramatic ass sister thinks she’s in a movie or some shit and keeps snapping at my mom, her and my dad are arguing the whole time over bullshit, and she (who already is trying to get on EBT after all of this shit) wants to load up on my dad with a big lawyer ordeal that will probably pull 30-40k out of his pocket, but she wants to say her priority is getting my college paid for, lmao

In person im a very chill and quiet person who doesn’t like to deal with bullshit or get very emotional, but my mom mainly and also my sister make this shit fucking hell, 3 months ago I was fine, but it feels like everything is going to shit with all these financial issues and this constant arguing

Nobody will probably read this lol but I just wanted to say it somewhere
Very unfortunate situation with your mother’s outbursts just complicating the situation. She sounds ignorant and clearly just isn’t helping. I’ve got to ask since she wants to go to court w your dad that means she wants full custody aswell? Also I’m Sorry to hear this I genuinely wish the best man stay strong.
 
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Goodluck dude honestly your mothers outbursts are just complicating it even more. She sounds ignorant and clearly just isn’t helping. I’ve got to ask since she wants sue your dad that means she wants full custody? Also I’m Sorry to hear this I genuinely wish the best.
Thank you bro, yeah she is making it so much worse man, I have no clue what she wants exactly but if she wanted full custody that would legitimately ruin me and my siblings lives and we would all just hate her, at least I’ll be 18 in a year
 
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just read the tldr thing
and yeah family issues us far beyond fucked up
Do what you can to keep walking straight and dont lose yourself on drugs or any harmful addiction
 
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Thank you bro, yeah she is making it so much worse man, I have no clue what she wants exactly but if she wanted full custody that would legitimately ruin me and my siblings lives and we would all just hate her, at least I’ll be 18 in a year
Yea man also wishing the best for your dad aswell he seems nice. But you’ve already gotten a job and will be 18 soon which is nice start. If you’re able to, you could move in with your dad and save up some money. Either way it’s complicated so I can’t fully give my thoughts.
 
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just read the tldr thing
and yeah family issues us far beyond fucked up
Do what you can to keep walking straight and dont lose yourself on drugs or any harmful addiction
Yeah it sucks man but yea im not dumb enough to make it worse
 
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Yea man also wishing the best for your dad aswell he seems nice. But you’ve already gotten a job and will be 18 soon which is nice start. If you’re able to, you could move in with your dad and save up some money. Either way it’s complicated so I can’t fully give my thoughts.
I don’t want to completely just say fuck you to my mom because she does care a lot, but she just makes it hard to be with her for 5 minutes, my dad is so much better to be around
 
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I don’t want to completely just say fuck you to my mom because she does care a lot, but she just makes it hard to be with her for 5 minutes, my dad is so much better to be around
Yea I agree it’s really hard especially when it’s your parents. I’ve got a situation w someone I know and It’s not this level but similar w bipolar parent. It’s hard but definitely would be healthier to not always be around her. In the future maybe you could help her work on it
 
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Yea I agree it’s really hard especially when it’s your parents. I’ve got a situation w someone I know and It’s not this level but similar w bipolar parent. It’s hard but definitely would be healthier to not always be around her. In the future maybe you could help her work on it
Yeah I’ll see how it goes man very weird and new situation for all of us
 
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Yeah I’ll see how it goes man very weird and new situation for all of us
You ever need to vent or ask for advice man just PM me and I’ll try to help but keep going it’ll work out🙏
 
why are you working at 16 man

are you a slave

stop working
 
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