How 2 Confidence : Being confident, with or without stimulants to improve your life.

[truthprovider1]

This article has been written by using
a)my experience as a person
b)shit I learned in college
C)the brightest mind on planet earth (mine)
It has been reduced to the lowest amount of words possible

----------Confidence 1. What confidence is, and the types of confidence.---------
Confidence is a topic often not truly understood.
TRULY Defining confidence is very hard as its either really complex because some things you consider
confident might not be considered confident by others, or you have to just say something general like the dictionary says:
"Belief in the effectiveness of one's own abilities or in one's favorable acceptance by others"
The definition that I like for confidence, is "The feeling of something, be it in spirit, physical, or in relation to other people is in fact doable and possible"

Blackpill truth: Confidence itself is not enough, but if you lack it NOTHING ELSE matters.
Redpill truth: You, in fact, cannot be confident if you are a loser. Confidence comes from being
proud, and if you are a loser doing nothing with your life you will never be confident.

Now the two types of confidence:
Outcome based confidence: As in the confidence you need in order to ask someone out, which you get
because you feel like your chances of being accepted are higher than those of being rejected.
Non caring confidence: A higher state of being that allows you do have a 99% chance of being rejected,
but still ask anyways because your hope never dies and you stopped caring about outcomes.

Blackpill truth: After being found, NON CARING CONFIDENCE needs to be cultivated, rationalized,
and understood (know the difference between being confident vs not understanding social situations)
otherwise you will end up talking to women about the blackpill and the list

TEST YOUR CONFIDENCE BY ASKING YOURSELF THIS:
If you were out with 2 people , once 1 guy and 1 girl
the second time 2 guys, and they randomly started talking
about anime at a cafe, with other people around, would you:
A> Join the discussion
B> Feel embarrassed and judged by others by association

If your answer is:
A B: You have a little bit of outcome based confidence and
understand that having a girl join in significantly boosts your
social status , or rather makes it harder to lose it.

A A: You are confident enough (unless its because you have accepted
that its over so you don't care about being judged because of that alone)

BB: You are not confident.

B A: You are afraid of being judged as being gay.

----------Confidence 2. Aren't you born confident?---------
No, you aren't. I was the textbook definition
of a unconfident loser until highschool, and in the last
year I have become 100x more confident, especially
when it comes to talking to women.

This idea mostly comes because we often misinterpret being in a confidence prone environment growing up, as being
born confident. You can't say you are not confident and were born that way if you
live in the middle of fucking nowhere with 10 people in your neighbourhood, only 1 of them
being as young as you are.

The first step of being confident is letting go.
Now the problem is, how the fuck do you just let go and say whatever you want.
Well firstly accept the sinking ship. Accept the fact that you NEED to become confident no matter
the cost.

The exposure therapy: Make friends with NERDS, WEIRDOS etc.
This will expose you to weird opinions in public places, and if you keep your cool,
don't get corrupted and still act like a totally normal guy, they will usually be easy to talk to and will
actually respect you more than they do each other because nerds often think nobody who isnt a weirdo wants
to be friends with them, this is the way I have like 8 nerds waiting around who would do anything for me IRL

----------Confidence 3. Exposure two---------
Get drunk. Drunk enough to be fake confident.
Doesn't matter how drunk you have to be. Also take some zyns at this point.
(do this in the middle of the day). Now go to random book shops
and whatnot and try to talk to random girls. Just 2-3 lines of conversation. See a girl reading a book?
"Have you read this one, I was thinking of buying it but I don't know if its a fit"

You will do this for 3 months
----------Confidence 4. Exposure three/ final part of exposure---------
Now, without being drunk try doing exposure two again.
If you fail/chicken out, get a little bit drunk and repeat
the process until 2-3 lines with 8 random girls in a day is
easy enough sober.
----------Confidence 5. Building actual confidence---------
At this point you have built some confidence, more than you had
but now its time to actually be KNOWN as confident, which will
increase your confidence.

Step 1: Get yourself into a new environment that is social. This could be starting college,
a book club, etc.
Step 2: Be the first person to break the ice. Know that stage where nobody is talking
with nobody much because they are afraid? Start being that guy that breaks the ice with
everyone and between everyone. Do this by asking them things
These types of questions will help:
" Oh that (name something they have) is really nice, where did you get it?"
"Don't you hate when X thing happens (this especially works with women)"
"You know, I saw you were really confident/smart/whatever the fuck compliment you have. I am in this situation (make one up)
What would you do in this situation?, I thought of asking you because of "insert you are so mature whatever"

BONUS ROUND
One thing that isn't a question that helps break the ice is exaggerating random shit, it works wonders
when talking with people that don't have a personality of their own.
Example: How lame niggas exaggerate pineapple on pizza being a bad thing.

----------Confidence 6. Building actual confidence BONUS---------
If you still don't feel confident enough
or your mind gets fogged up from being close to people
try zyns/other nicotine pouches, 4-6mg and up.

Also the most important thing is not caring.
You have one life, being not confident is wasting it.
----------Confidence 7. How to not be a weirdo when drunk BONUS---------
First step is not getting too drunk
Second step is a reality check. Something like saying the word "duck" in
your head every 10 minutes. It triggers the idea that "yes I need to act NT and not be a
weirdo"

enjoy i guess ​

 

[truthprovider1]

@etulceil @Tttopgtoni

​

 

[h1rumirinx]

Dnr

 

[dragomog]

dnr

 

[satangoy]

This article has been written by using
a)my experience as a person
b)shit I learned in college
C)the brightest mind on planet earth (mine)
It has been reduced to the lowest amount of words possible

----------Confidence 1. What confidence is, and the types of confidence.---------
Confidence is a topic often not truly understood.
TRULY Defining confidence is very hard as its either really complex because some things you consider
confident might not be considered confident by others, or you have to just say something general like the dictionary says:
"Belief in the effectiveness of one's own abilities or in one's favorable acceptance by others"
The definition that I like for confidence, is "The feeling of something, be it in spirit, physical, or in relation to other people is in fact doable and possible"

Blackpill truth: Confidence itself is not enough, but if you lack it NOTHING ELSE matters.
Redpill truth: You, in fact, cannot be confident if you are a loser. Confidence comes from being
proud, and if you are a loser doing nothing with your life you will never be confident.

Now the two types of confidence:
Outcome based confidence: As in the confidence you need in order to ask someone out, which you get
because you feel like your chances of being accepted are higher than those of being rejected.
Non caring confidence: A higher state of being that allows you do have a 99% chance of being rejected,
but still ask anyways because your hope never dies and you stopped caring about outcomes.

Blackpill truth: After being found, NON CARING CONFIDENCE needs to be cultivated, rationalized,
and understood (know the difference between being confident vs not understanding social situations)
otherwise you will end up talking to women about the blackpill and the list

TEST YOUR CONFIDENCE BY ASKING YOURSELF THIS:
If you were out with 2 people , once 1 guy and 1 girl
the second time 2 guys, and they randomly started talking
about anime at a cafe, with other people around, would you:
A> Join the discussion
B> Feel embarrassed and judged by others by association

If your answer is:
A B: You have a little bit of outcome based confidence and
understand that having a girl join in significantly boosts your
social status , or rather makes it harder to lose it.

A A: You are confident enough (unless its because you have accepted
that its over so you don't care about being judged because of that alone)

BB: You are not confident.

B A: You are afraid of being judged as being gay.

----------Confidence 2. Aren't you born confident?---------
No, you aren't. I was the textbook definition
of a unconfident loser until highschool, and in the last
year I have become 100x more confident, especially
when it comes to talking to women.

This idea mostly comes because we often misinterpret being in a confidence prone environment growing up, as being
born confident. You can't say you are not confident and were born that way if you
live in the middle of fucking nowhere with 10 people in your neighbourhood, only 1 of them
being as young as you are.

The first step of being confident is letting go.
Now the problem is, how the fuck do you just let go and say whatever you want.
Well firstly accept the sinking ship. Accept the fact that you NEED to become confident no matter
the cost.

The exposure therapy: Make friends with NERDS, WEIRDOS etc.
This will expose you to weird opinions in public places, and if you keep your cool,
don't get corrupted and still act like a totally normal guy, they will usually be easy to talk to and will
actually respect you more than they do each other because nerds often think nobody who isnt a weirdo wants
to be friends with them, this is the way I have like 8 nerds waiting around who would do anything for me IRL

----------Confidence 3. Exposure two---------
Get drunk. Drunk enough to be fake confident.
Doesn't matter how drunk you have to be. Also take some zyns at this point.
(do this in the middle of the day). Now go to random book shops
and whatnot and try to talk to random girls. Just 2-3 lines of conversation. See a girl reading a book?
"Have you read this one, I was thinking of buying it but I don't know if its a fit"

You will do this for 3 months
----------Confidence 4. Exposure three/ final part of exposure---------
Now, without being drunk try doing exposure two again.
If you fail/chicken out, get a little bit drunk and repeat
the process until 2-3 lines with 8 random girls in a day is
easy enough sober.
----------Confidence 5. Building actual confidence---------
At this point you have built some confidence, more than you had
but now its time to actually be KNOWN as confident, which will
increase your confidence.

Step 1: Get yourself into a new environment that is social. This could be starting college,
a book club, etc.
Step 2: Be the first person to break the ice. Know that stage where nobody is talking
with nobody much because they are afraid? Start being that guy that breaks the ice with
everyone and between everyone. Do this by asking them things
These types of questions will help:
" Oh that (name something they have) is really nice, where did you get it?"
"Don't you hate when X thing happens (this especially works with women)"
"You know, I saw you were really confident/smart/whatever the fuck compliment you have. I am in this situation (make one up)
What would you do in this situation?, I thought of asking you because of "insert you are so mature whatever"

BONUS ROUND
One thing that isn't a question that helps break the ice is exaggerating random shit, it works wonders
when talking with people that don't have a personality of their own.
Example: How lame niggas exaggerate pineapple on pizza being a bad thing.

----------Confidence 6. Building actual confidence BONUS---------
If you still don't feel confident enough
or your mind gets fogged up from being close to people
try zyns/other nicotine pouches, 4-6mg and up.

Also the most important thing is not caring.
You have one life, being not confident is wasting it.
----------Confidence 7. How to not be a weirdo when drunk BONUS---------
First step is not getting too drunk
Second step is a reality check. Something like saying the word "duck" in
your head every 10 minutes. It triggers the idea that "yes I need to act NT and not be a
weirdo"

enjoy i guess ​

first of all mirin the effort will read in a sec

 

[sami04]

dnr, at first, it was going okay-ish, but once it got to conf 3, everything went downhill from there 🫩🫩

 

[satangoy]

This article has been written by using
a)my experience as a person
b)shit I learned in college
C)the brightest mind on planet earth (mine)
It has been reduced to the lowest amount of words possible

----------Confidence 1. What confidence is, and the types of confidence.---------
Confidence is a topic often not truly understood.
TRULY Defining confidence is very hard as its either really complex because some things you consider
confident might not be considered confident by others, or you have to just say something general like the dictionary says:
"Belief in the effectiveness of one's own abilities or in one's favorable acceptance by others"
The definition that I like for confidence, is "The feeling of something, be it in spirit, physical, or in relation to other people is in fact doable and possible"

Blackpill truth: Confidence itself is not enough, but if you lack it NOTHING ELSE matters.
Redpill truth: You, in fact, cannot be confident if you are a loser. Confidence comes from being
proud, and if you are a loser doing nothing with your life you will never be confident.

Now the two types of confidence:
Outcome based confidence: As in the confidence you need in order to ask someone out, which you get
because you feel like your chances of being accepted are higher than those of being rejected.
Non caring confidence: A higher state of being that allows you do have a 99% chance of being rejected,
but still ask anyways because your hope never dies and you stopped caring about outcomes.

Blackpill truth: After being found, NON CARING CONFIDENCE needs to be cultivated, rationalized,
and understood (know the difference between being confident vs not understanding social situations)
otherwise you will end up talking to women about the blackpill and the list

TEST YOUR CONFIDENCE BY ASKING YOURSELF THIS:
If you were out with 2 people , once 1 guy and 1 girl
the second time 2 guys, and they randomly started talking
about anime at a cafe, with other people around, would you:
A> Join the discussion
B> Feel embarrassed and judged by others by association

If your answer is:
A B: You have a little bit of outcome based confidence and
understand that having a girl join in significantly boosts your
social status , or rather makes it harder to lose it.

A A: You are confident enough (unless its because you have accepted
that its over so you don't care about being judged because of that alone)

BB: You are not confident.

B A: You are afraid of being judged as being gay.

----------Confidence 2. Aren't you born confident?---------
No, you aren't. I was the textbook definition
of a unconfident loser until highschool, and in the last
year I have become 100x more confident, especially
when it comes to talking to women.

This idea mostly comes because we often misinterpret being in a confidence prone environment growing up, as being
born confident. You can't say you are not confident and were born that way if you
live in the middle of fucking nowhere with 10 people in your neighbourhood, only 1 of them
being as young as you are.

The first step of being confident is letting go.
Now the problem is, how the fuck do you just let go and say whatever you want.
Well firstly accept the sinking ship. Accept the fact that you NEED to become confident no matter
the cost.

The exposure therapy: Make friends with NERDS, WEIRDOS etc.
This will expose you to weird opinions in public places, and if you keep your cool,
don't get corrupted and still act like a totally normal guy, they will usually be easy to talk to and will
actually respect you more than they do each other because nerds often think nobody who isnt a weirdo wants
to be friends with them, this is the way I have like 8 nerds waiting around who would do anything for me IRL

----------Confidence 3. Exposure two---------
Get drunk. Drunk enough to be fake confident.
Doesn't matter how drunk you have to be. Also take some zyns at this point.
(do this in the middle of the day). Now go to random book shops
and whatnot and try to talk to random girls. Just 2-3 lines of conversation. See a girl reading a book?
"Have you read this one, I was thinking of buying it but I don't know if its a fit"

You will do this for 3 months
----------Confidence 4. Exposure three/ final part of exposure---------
Now, without being drunk try doing exposure two again.
If you fail/chicken out, get a little bit drunk and repeat
the process until 2-3 lines with 8 random girls in a day is
easy enough sober.
----------Confidence 5. Building actual confidence---------
At this point you have built some confidence, more than you had
but now its time to actually be KNOWN as confident, which will
increase your confidence.

Step 1: Get yourself into a new environment that is social. This could be starting college,
a book club, etc.
Step 2: Be the first person to break the ice. Know that stage where nobody is talking
with nobody much because they are afraid? Start being that guy that breaks the ice with
everyone and between everyone. Do this by asking them things
These types of questions will help:
" Oh that (name something they have) is really nice, where did you get it?"
"Don't you hate when X thing happens (this especially works with women)"
"You know, I saw you were really confident/smart/whatever the fuck compliment you have. I am in this situation (make one up)
What would you do in this situation?, I thought of asking you because of "insert you are so mature whatever"

BONUS ROUND
One thing that isn't a question that helps break the ice is exaggerating random shit, it works wonders
when talking with people that don't have a personality of their own.
Example: How lame niggas exaggerate pineapple on pizza being a bad thing.

----------Confidence 6. Building actual confidence BONUS---------
If you still don't feel confident enough
or your mind gets fogged up from being close to people
try zyns/other nicotine pouches, 4-6mg and up.

Also the most important thing is not caring.
You have one life, being not confident is wasting it.
----------Confidence 7. How to not be a weirdo when drunk BONUS---------
First step is not getting too drunk
Second step is a reality check. Something like saying the word "duck" in
your head every 10 minutes. It triggers the idea that "yes I need to act NT and not be a
weirdo"

enjoy i guess ​

did read suprisingly this is actually a pretty decent thread exposure therapy is key, i would be hesitant on the alc part in the middle of the day I'd probably replace it with some low inhib pharma for me it's usually 300-500 mg's pregab, nicotine definately an underrated hack would change up some things in the guide but overall it's okay it mentions exposure therapy being key and that nic can help

 

[Menethil]

dnr

 

[truthprovider1]

dnr, at first, it was going okay-ish, but once it got to conf 3, everything went downhill from there 🫩🫩

if the reason is what i think it is, you would be interested in the chapter about confidence
from the book im writing. this is mostly a very dumbed down idea of "just do it"
pointless to post a 10 page article here as its not going to be read (and its not finished anyways)

 

[sami04]

if the reason is what i think it is, you would be interested in the chapter about confidence
from the book im writing. this is mostly a very dumbed down idea of "just do it"
pointless to post a 10 page article here as its not going to be read (and its not finished anyways)

Lmk when you finish it, im interested

 

[truthprovider1]

Lmk when you finish it, im interested

I already technically finished most of it but im never satisfied,
so by the time I will probably just publish it. il lyk doe

 

[Tttopgtoni]

I'll read when I get home

@etulceil @Tttopgtoni

​

 

[drangen]

Dnr

joined in december btw

 

[DavidePollo]

DNFR