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25M here, never been in a relationship. I work in accounting so jobs in this field are either 9-5 cubicle work or remote. All my past jobs had me working with much older people, never anyone my age. I did college for 6 years and 4.5 of those were online school—the time I was on campus I was too busy to meet anyone anyhow. Bars and clubs aren’t my scene. I go to the gym but talking to women there is a huge no-no. There’s maybe a few hundred thousand in my metro area but no major city with millions of people. Dating apps don’t work for me, and I’m not paying money for mixers or speed dating events.

Seriously. What am I supposed to do? I feel like I’m out of options and all hope is lost.


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Generally it's pretty hard to meet women organically after college tbh. You can date people at work but it's generally people way older than you and I really don't recommend it. Dating people at work is Hollywood drama waiting to happen. What should I ideally happen after college you maintain a strong and large group of friends and social circle and they introduce you to people they know and you date people from there. Otherwise you'll have to go through humiliation ritual of putting yourself out there on dating apps, cold approaching, jointing clubs, church groups etc but he prepared for brutal rejections, insulting and depressing experiences but if you are NT you should be able to find atleast a few girls that show interest and then you can take it from there
 
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Not taking advantage of college was your mistake
Generally it's pretty hard to meet women organically after college tbh. You can date people at work but it's generally people way older than you and I really don't recommend it. Dating people at work is Hollywood drama waiting to happen. What should I ideally happen after college you maintain a strong and large group of friends and social circle and they introduce you to people they know and you date people from there. Otherwise you'll have to go through humiliation ritual of putting yourself out there on dating apps, cold approaching, jointing clubs, church groups etc but he prepared for brutal rejections, insulting and depressing experiences but if you are NT you should be able to find atleast a few girls that show interest and then you can take it from there
 
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It is not easy man specialy nowdays

Guys talk too much about looks but even with looks it is hard

There are not many social oportunities to do so and many times it is just humiliation ritual for nothing

Go out and try and aproach etc... it is not good or pleasant or anything but it is the only way
 

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