how are u guys conformed by mogging ur past self?

[Matrix88]

I've realized I don't do stuff that would make my life and looks better because I get depressed by comparing myself to many other people who make me look like a clown.

I've seen many of you follow the idea of being your better version, and I like that idea. The thing is I struggle so much to be happy while trying to improve, because I think that it is all for nothing at the end..

Can anybody help me by telling me what and why you think different?

 

[filthycurrycel]

just ldar

cant lose if you dont play the game

 

[KaaleYug]

The Dichotomy of Control bro, you can only change what you can.

 

[KaaleYug]

The only true metric for success is whether you are better than you were yesterday bro

 

[Matrix88]

The only true metric for success is whether you are better than you were yesterday bro

that's the mentality I'm talking about. I'd love to feel like that

how do you feel when you see people who haven't put any effort into anything and are better than you?

 

[KaaleYug]

that's the mentality I'm talking about. I'd love to feel like that

how do you feel when you see people who haven't put any effort into anything and are better than you?

i can only change what i can

 

[itsgenuinelysoover]

that's the mentality I'm talking about. I'd love to feel like that

how do you feel when you see people who haven't put any effort into anything and are better than you?

u just gotta play with the cards ur dealt with bro, in all honesty i envy those who put little to no effort in their appearence yet r just blessed heavily, but its like hey bro what can you do besides just live ur life to the fullest (sounds like bluepill cope but its the truth)

 

[CrusaderGypsy]

that's the mentality I'm talking about. I'd love to feel like that

how do you feel when you see people who haven't put any effort into anything and are better than you?

the same as you, but "modern stoic" users trynna cope. Most of us feel bad when u go outside and see another good looking dude without 0 effort. My advice? Just accept it and embrace it. Even today, after having multiple dating experience (currently in a relationship) i still feel like absloute idiot when someone moggs me to oblivion without knowing a single thing about self care or looksmaxxing.

Be a nihilist, nothing matters, not even the fact you get mogged. Just enjoy your life and do whatever. Cause nothing truly matters at the end.

That worked for me, better than the stoic cope

 

[Matrix88]

u just gotta play with the cards ur dealt with bro, in all honesty i envy those who put little to no effort in their appearence yet r just blessed heavily, but its like hey bro what can you do besides just live ur life to the fullest (sounds like bluepill cope but its the truth)

yea it is the truth

I want to go back to the gym, but then I watch some videos of tall skinny guys and think to myself nothing will change after putting effort...

I'm like skinny fat and 5'7

 

[KaaleYug]

the same as you, but "modern stoic" users trynna cope. Most of us feel bad when u go outside and see another good looking dude without 0 effort. My advice? Just accept it and embrace it. Even today, after having multiple dating experience (currently in a relationship) i still feel like absloute idiot when someone moggs me to oblivion without knowing a single thing about self care or looksmaxxing.

Be a nihilist, nothing matters, not even the fact you get mogged. Just enjoy your life and do whatever. Cause nothing truly matters at the end.

That worked for me, better than the stoic cope

how is your cope any different

 

[Matrix88]

Be a nihilist

I am somewhat of a nihilist. When I was the most depressed that shit destroyed and then saved me lol

Even if I know nothing really matters since everything will come to an end and that's it, I still want to enjoy my life, but getting brutally mogged destroys me

 

[Matrix88]

when I was getting brutally mogged and felt more depressed I wrote some threads that are similar to what I'm asking now, just a bit more extreme I guess

https://looksmax.org/threads/how-the-fuck-do-you-enjoy-your-social-circle-and-slays.2000213/