How are you actually supposed to enjoy life

[existingandliving]

The idea of enjoying life feels so alien to me i don't think you can truly enjoy life once you are an adult that's the privilege only kids have

 

[bobbyp343]

looksmax, make money, slay girls repeat

 

[karmacita901]

be white htn and bask in the glow of admiration and respect from legions of mfs who do not know you

 

[Terrortheplug]

you are brainwashed then

 

[m0ss26]

Find a passion

Or else it’s over

Life is shit and boring so you need to find something to get to inner peace

 

[existingandliving]

looksmax, make money, slay girls repeat

I don't think anyone of those is gonna give me true enjoyment. You have to be totally ignorant to even remotely enjoy living

 

[Swarthy Knight]

Find a purpose(s) and something actually worth striving for. Through that you'll enjoy new experiences and build neuroplasticity

 

[existingandliving]

be white htn and bask in the glow of admiration and respect from legions of mfs who do not know you

Thats my goal ascending and getting validation from randos is gonna be the closest thing to true enjoyment I can think off

 

[m0ss26]

Find a purpose(s) and something actually worth striving for. Through that you'll enjoy new experiences and build neuroplasticity

100000% correct

Life doesn’t have any inherent purpose or meaning you have to just find something that fires you up, it’s kind of past logic. Once you find the thing everything comes

 

[The Homelander]

Quitting your job and becoming a full time .org rotter

 

[existingandliving]

Find a purpose(s) and something actually worth striving for. Through that you'll enjoy new experiences and build neuroplasticity

I actually have a lot of hobbies that i genuinely like doing but the moment I'm not actively engaging in that I get depressed meaning I always have to make my self busy and cope with doing pointless stuff to not want to kill myself

 

[buddhistking]

Even as a kid life sucks jfl ur just too dumb to know it

 

[Changmentum]

looksmax, make money, slay girls repeat

and just enjoy time with your boys, build something, etc.

 

[Swarthy Knight]

I actually have a lot of hobbies that i genuinely like doing but the moment I'm not actively engaging in that I get depressed meaning I always have to make my self busy and cope with doing pointless stuff to not want to kill myself

Ya that's normal. It's okay to be disengaged from time to time. Just try to not to go too long without doing anything productive, or you'll end up as a ND like me

 

[edodalic29]

drive a fast car , eat good food and do drugs

 

[looksmaxxed]

Even as a kid life sucks jfl ur just too dumb to know it

some kids today are getting blackpilled on the jq, race, smv, etc as young as 12.

can't even blame the next payton gendron for doing the rational and logical thing in response to purposeful genocide aided and abetted by a confederacy of non whites

 

[existingandliving]

100000% correct

Life doesn’t have any inherent purpose or meaning you have to just find something that fires you up, it’s kind of past logic. Once you find the thing everything comes

MY sadness doesnt stem from nihilism, I don't have a problem with it all being meaningless, it's just idk i cant actually enjoy living, like i remember being 14-15 and being super into the self improvement stuff and waking up everyday having a whole day ahead felt so great. Now I wake up and there's nothing that i feel and so I have to cope with external stuff

 

[htbslayeer]

It’s about your brain chemistry. Some people just won’t be able to enjoy their existence, like me

 

[m0ss26]

I actually have a lot of hobbies that i genuinely like doing but the moment I'm not actively engaging in that I get depressed meaning I always have to make my self busy and cope with doing pointless stuff to not want to kill myself

I’m in the same boat jfl (the hobby being mma and being I’m a fighter) but I can only train so many times in a day. Then in the down time I kinda wanna kms. That’s why I’m trying to get back into gaming and manga to distract during the other times

 

[m0ss26]

it's just idk i cant actually enjoy living,

Yea I don’t struggle with it being pointless either it’s just very unenjoyable when I’m not consumed by the thing I like to do

I don’t actually have suicidal thoughts but just thinking and existing becomes a chore idk

 

[existingandliving]

Yea I don’t struggle with it being pointless either it’s just very unenjoyable when I’m not consumed by the thing I like to do

I don’t actually have suicidal thoughts but just thinking and existing becomes a chore idk

Yeah exactly, kids are the only people grateful and happy to live, for them there's fun in everything

 

[existingandliving]

looksmax, make money, slay girls repeat

drive a fast car , eat good food and do drugs

All of these are external stuff and once they are gone you are back to being depressed. But then again can u even geniunely feel good about living without coping with stuff

 

[m0ss26]

Yeah exactly, kids are the only people grateful and happy to live, for them there's fun in everything

Idk what happened to me

I think I was always like this in a way once I made it to like 13 but the breaking point was being alone for a while (I had good friends from childhood but they never really got me on a deeper level) and then losing my day 1 and his gf who I was also friends with via backstab, now I’ve been feeling the loneliness weighing on me on top of the fact I had began losing enjoyment in doing anything and motivation to even self improve.

I still push through tho, train hard asf every day but shit just sucks

 

[m0ss26]

All of these are external stuff and once they are gone you are back to being depressed. But then again can u even geniunely feel good about living without coping with stuff

Slaying girls is a bad cope imo so agreed. All this effort for a temporary pleasure of some whore

 

[existingandliving]

Idk what happened to me

I think I was always like this in a way once I made it to like 13 but the breaking point was being alone for a while (I had good friends from childhood but they never really got me on a deeper level) and then losing my day 1 and his gf who I was also friends with via backstab, now I’ve been feeling the loneliness weighing on me on top of the fact I had began losing enjoyment in doing anything and motivation to even self improve.

I still push through tho, train hard asf every day but shit just sucks

Yeah i think socializing is the only way out of this, finding a like minded community and spending most time with them

 

[m0ss26]

Yeah i think socializing is the only way out of this, finding a like minded community and spending most time with them

Yea that’s why I came back to this forum, even a thread like this gives me a little hope knowing there’s niggas out there like me

I have my mma boys but it’s not the same, hoping time just heals