How are you supposed to make friends?

[reptiles]

Not even ti get a social circle just a fun group of people you can cope with on the week ends.

Like outside of worj hours how are you supposed to do this?

 

[Deleted member 19157]

making real great friends affter school is very hard. the best you can hope for is to have fans

 

[Deleted member 19548]

that anyone has to ask this is why modern life is rubbish

 

[Erik-Jón]

What are your hobbies?

 

[reptiles]

What are your hobbies?

Working literally

 

[reptiles]

making real great friends affter school is very hard. the best you can hope for is to have fans

Bro i lost out so hsrd ngl if i wasnt such a low iq autist last year and made some decent collage friends i wouldn't be as lonley

 

[Improver]

Go and play any sport, go to a grupal gym class, don't act autistic.

 

[Deleted member 19548]

Bro i lost out so hsrd ngl if i wasnt such a low iq autist last year and made some decent collage friends i wouldn't be as lonley

you will find your people bro, i have met people through work who could become friends if i pursued it more

 

[Deleted member 19157]

Bro i lost out so hsrd ngl if i wasnt such a low iq autist last year and made some decent collage friends i wouldn't be as lonley

smoking weed and doing drugs is a great way to meet people and get into certain communities

 

[Mongrelcel]

no offense my nigga, but you strike me as really non NT

and im saying this with love

 

[Mongrelcel]

that anyone has to ask this is why modern life is rubbish

this is the reason tbh

modern life is so atomized, so segmented, that maintaining social relationships is super difficult, and making new ones is basically impossible unless you literally plan and change your life just for that reason

most people have one or two at best friendcircles that they have acquired during HS, UNI or a sport/activity they did during their school years

and thats it, they never really gain any more of them
only time could be the friends of your significant other, but I wouldnt count those as your friends

 

[TITUS]

You got to be NT, good looking and all the rest, and you got to do some group activity, and pray for the best.

 

[BoneDensity]

In environments where u need to work together to accomplish tasks eg. School , group projects, sports teams.

 

[jaw_is_law]

go on grindr and make friends with gays

 

[Sal]

I really don’t know. I have a close friend group with 7 people excluding me, and we’ve known each other since preschool (literally). Then there’s 2 other friend groups from sports and university.

Think about it. Every person your age had the same route. Kindergarten, Middle school, High school, And maybe University. Throughout this entire time you’ve met people from all backgrounds and with similar/different perspectives. You’re telling me you don’t got at least 2 people that you’ve been able to retain as a friend this entire time?

If you haven’t. Then you spawned in the wrong town or you’re not NT. As long as you’re normie looking then it’s your autism.

And the only cure for that is human interaction. Go play sports. Go join clubs. Anywhere from simply going to the gym and striking conversation to attending car meets.

You’re missing out on life tbh. Get it together

 

[Laikyn]

Work in a hotel