How can I be less afraid to talk?

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I posted before something similar to this, but the answers don't was what I waited, so idk how to talk to girls, I think it's the most common thing in this forum, the problems now it's not all the looks, but the personality, I love to talk, specially hear the other one talking about something, I like to stay with other persons, but idk how can I talk to a girl or have a gf, this maybe it's the most stupid thing in this entire forum, but idk, I tried a lot of times and just don't work, specially because I'm very introverted, but it's like I'm afraid to talk with other and I'm tired of that but don't know what I need to change. This is like a rant and a question at the same time, I think it was my eyes or jaw, but it's not that all the time, if you don't have social skills, you are cooked, a lot of things that can improve your life requieres social skills, so idk what to change honestly.
 
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I'm ND, Asperger specifically, so that can maybe affects a little, I never had a treatment and I always be like that, very shy and introverted, so it's very difficult to change.
 
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Take Phenibut and become dependent on it, it has the same effects as alcohol but not as bad of side effects
 
unironically just say hi. unfortunately you do have to talk and be an ND awkward retard for a while until you develop social skills. i still struggle talking to women a lot of the times even now but ive gotten more than enough experience that i know where and how things are going every time which makes things easier
 
Take Phenibut and become dependent on it, it has the same effects as alcohol but not as bad of side effects
Finally a med that recreate the effect of the alcohol in the inhibition, it sounds great, but it don't make you dependent of the med?
 
I'm ND, Asperger specifically, so that can maybe affects a little, I never had a treatment and I always be like that, very shy and introverted, so it's very difficult to change.
Same here, I learned to effectivly mask at 14, I first immitated a popular guys behavior and style then worked my way to making my own personality. Best way to talk to them is to just say, you don‘t have anything to loose anyways. But it takes alot of practice.
 
unironically just say hi. unfortunately you do have to talk and be an ND awkward retard for a while until you develop social skills. i still struggle talking to women a lot of the times even now but ive gotten more than enough experience that i know where and how things are going every time which makes things easier
I know that I looks strange talking, it's 2 ways, I'm a robot or appears that I'm so dumb that I can't even talk, but yeah, I'm going to try that, it can be worse than my actual life.
 

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