How can I be more talkative and less awkward around people I’m not usually with?

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enter neuro divergence, just be yourself theory, drugs theory. :hnghn:
 
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What I do, is I'll think of something I could say, then I'll repeat it in my mind a few times, then say it aloud. It makes it easier to say something and less likely that you'll say something retarded
 
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Kinda crazy that I haven’t been called a nigga or got death threats yet
 
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literally just keep a sense of superiority ever-present in your active consciousness. "Im smarter than this one" or "that ones a whore" you will trick your brain into thinking you are genuinely a superior creature, and the confidence will follow from that.
 
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other guy said it already but think of yourself as better than everyone there. You also dont have to say anything, a bad attempt at talking is worse than being quiet if you dont show your nervousness.
 
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What I do, is I'll think of something I could say, then I'll repeat it in my mind a few times, then say it aloud. It makes it easier to say something and less likely that you'll say something retarded
doesnt work if u have adhd.
 
Ask people about themself, act very interested in them and their life. People love talking about themselves. They can, and will go on forever.

Repeat the last few words they said or mention one thing they said and act like it was the most interesting and meaningful thing you’ve ever heard.


Learn to have self worth, confidence, and to value your opinion above all else.

When you are confident and self assured, nothing is awkward because you literally don’t care what anyone thinks of you.

Realize that nobody is ever thinking about you, nobody cares about you, and nobody thinks about anyone but themself.
 
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literally just keep a sense of superiority ever-present in your active consciousness. "Im smarter than this one" or "that ones a whore" you will trick your brain into thinking you are genuinely a superior creature, and the confidence will follow from that.
muh confidence
cope asf
 
literally just keep a sense of superiority ever-present in your active consciousness. "Im smarter than this one" or "that ones a whore" you will trick your brain into thinking you are genuinely a superior creature, and the confidence will follow from that.
i’ve noticed that it’s also way easier to talk to chopped ppl so i just find flaws in their face and think about it and i don’t get nervous
 

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