How can I fix my social skills. They are near special needs level

[h111]

No matter who I talk to, they simply cannot take me seriously with my sub5 face and down syndrome type social skills. Anybody I talk to notices it and points it out, whether it be subtle disrespect or making fun of me for it blatantly. This makes me impossible to be friends with, because nobody takes me seriously or respects me. What can I do to work on this no giving up is not an option

 

[h111]

And I get treated like a sped kid, people mess with me and laugh at me all the time

 

[ey88]

Let me know if you find out, the only time I am somewhat social is when I’m drunk which is why I basically drink every weekend

 

[h111]

Let me know if you find out, the only time I am somewhat social is when I’m drunk which is why I basically drink every weekend

Even worse im a goody two shoes i dont drink or smoke
I dont even cut the lunch line at school

 

[IAMNOTANINCEL]

sub5 face

 

[h111]

No. My brother is only 1 year younger and he has a ton of friends @IAMNOTANINCEL

 

[WhoTookVendetta]

No matter who I talk to, they simply cannot take me seriously with my sub5 face and down syndrome type social skills. Anybody I talk to notices it and points it out, whether it be subtle disrespect or making fun of me for it blatantly. This makes me impossible to be friends with, because nobody takes me seriously or respects me. What can I do to work on this no giving up is not an option

HEIGHTMOG THEM

WEAR SHOELIFTS FOR INFINITE CONFIDENCE AND SOCIAL DOMINANCE

 

[h111]

HEIGHTMOG THEM

WEAR SHOELIFTS FOR INFINITE CONFIDENCE AND SOCIAL DOMINANCE

How can i boost my confidence, in my head i think im being a NT chad but people see me as a crazy man

 

[WhoTookVendetta]

How can i boost my confidence, in my head i think im being a NT chad but people see me as a crazy man

wear shoe lifts and delude urself into thinking ur superior cuz ur taller

and compare heights to everyone u walk past

the more u mog the bigger ur ego (confidence) gets

 

[h111]

wear shoe lifts and delude urself into thinking ur superior cuz ur taller

and compare heights to everyone u walk past

the more u mog the bigger ur ego (confidence) gets

If I am 5’9 how much can I boost

 

[WhoTookVendetta]

If I am 5’9 how much can I boost

HIGH TOP SHOES + LONG PANTS

u can get like 3 inches nocap

 

[toji.]

No matter who I talk to, they simply cannot take me seriously with my sub5 face and down syndrome type social skills. Anybody I talk to notices it and points it out, whether it be subtle disrespect or making fun of me for it blatantly. This makes me impossible to be friends with, because nobody takes me seriously or respects me. What can I do to work on this no giving up is not an option

First of all, I would rethink the people I hang out with, it's not normal for people to talk about and emphasise people's shortcomings. You don't need to be with people who make fun of difficulties. You should seek out friendships that accept you for who you are.

On the other hand, if you have a problem or rather a difficulty in socialising, I recommend that you socialise more, yes, even if it sounds ridiculous, the only way to improve socialising is to be aware of the errors in dialogue, you are capable of noticing that there are things in your speech that are not normal, and the only way to achieve this is to become aware of these difficulties and try to overcome them. I recommend that you look for a model of socialisation, that is to say, a person whom you consider to socialise in the way that you consider to be ideal, then try to record yourself talking to someone, and record or look for a video of the person you consider to be a model of socialisation, note the differences that he/she has in relation to your abilities, and from there work on your abilities, always and ideally respecting that the change is organic and does not feel "false".

 

[cooldude1231]

Ive become less socially retarded with time but it was like from mega social retard to somewhat social retard which is something ig... time mostly makes it better tho idk

 

[h111]

First of all, I would rethink the people I hang out with, it's not normal for people to talk about and emphasise people's shortcomings. You don't need to be with people who make fun of difficulties. You should seek out friendships that accept you for who you are.

On the other hand, if you have a problem or rather a difficulty in socialising, I recommend that you socialise more, yes, even if it sounds ridiculous, the only way to improve socialising is to be aware of the errors in dialogue, you are capable of noticing that there are things in your speech that are not normal, and the only way to achieve this is to become aware of these difficulties and try to overcome them. I recommend that you look for a model of socialisation, that is to say, a person whom you consider to socialise in the way that you consider to be ideal, then try to record yourself talking to someone, and record or look for a video of the person you consider to be a model of socialisation, note the differences that he/she has in relation to your abilities, and from there work on your abilities, always and ideally respecting that the change is organic and does not feel "false".

Thanks man. For context, i transferred into a new school last year where I knew nobody, and havent made friends since then. Its been a rough time and ive been trying my best to socialize whenever I get an opportunity to. Some people say I might have autism, which I dont think is true either. Its just 2 years of no social interactions made me this way, going downhill, but im working on it. Thanks for the advice and i hope everything goes well for you

 

[toji.]

Thanks man. For context, i transferred into a new school last year where I knew nobody, and havent made friends since then. Its been a rough time and ive been trying my best to socialize whenever I get an opportunity to. Some people say I might have autism, which I dont think is true either. Its just 2 years of no social interactions made me this way, going downhill, but im working on it. Thanks for the advice and i hope everything goes well for you

You are welcome, and remember that the fact that we are chatting together is already a social act, at the moment I find you a nice person.