Endoplasmic82
Loverboy at Heart
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Listen, I can speak to women but sometimes I’m a retard and recently I was retarded when speaking to a girl recently, that was interested in me.
I was working security at this club and this MTB, tanned, ginger hair, who was genuinely hot, just came up to me, started playing with my goatee, and asked me my age (we were the same age). She then said that I’m fit and that she fancies me, then asked if I had a girlfriend. when I said no, she said “how don’t you have a boyfriend”, and I replied “because I’m autistic”, as a joke (not medically diagnosed). Pretty much after that everything else was useless to the story, and I ended up not getting her number (fumbling basically).
Earlier that night some lightskin chick, was hella staring at me, and I even heard her say to her friends “omg he keeps looking at me”, not in a creep way lol, she was smiling and kept looking back smiling. Obviously I was working there so I couldn’t just approach (she was a few meters away at least), and when we were locking eyes, she started shaking her tits at me a lot. Anyways that went no where (not due to me acting ND for once).
How do I stop acting like a faggot, I swear unless within the first 2 mins of a conversation with a women the topic of discussion sways towards something I’m interested in/ know, I for 1. Don’t want to speak to them or 2. Have no idea on what to say and fumble.
I know I have low emotional intelligence too, I’ve been trying to work on it by studying my friends, and other people’s body language more, and just trying to “chill out” more in conversation. But holy fuck
Any tips
I was working security at this club and this MTB, tanned, ginger hair, who was genuinely hot, just came up to me, started playing with my goatee, and asked me my age (we were the same age). She then said that I’m fit and that she fancies me, then asked if I had a girlfriend. when I said no, she said “how don’t you have a boyfriend”, and I replied “because I’m autistic”, as a joke (not medically diagnosed). Pretty much after that everything else was useless to the story, and I ended up not getting her number (fumbling basically).
Earlier that night some lightskin chick, was hella staring at me, and I even heard her say to her friends “omg he keeps looking at me”, not in a creep way lol, she was smiling and kept looking back smiling. Obviously I was working there so I couldn’t just approach (she was a few meters away at least), and when we were locking eyes, she started shaking her tits at me a lot. Anyways that went no where (not due to me acting ND for once).
How do I stop acting like a faggot, I swear unless within the first 2 mins of a conversation with a women the topic of discussion sways towards something I’m interested in/ know, I for 1. Don’t want to speak to them or 2. Have no idea on what to say and fumble.
I know I have low emotional intelligence too, I’ve been trying to work on it by studying my friends, and other people’s body language more, and just trying to “chill out” more in conversation. But holy fuck
Any tips
