How can I mask my ADHD and Autism?

[EugenicsIsLaw]

I’m diagnosed with adhd, probably also an autist. Never had a single friend in my life. I’ve never been in a relationship either, just hookups.
I struggle with not saying egregious aspy shit, making eye contact, talking to people about normal things (I have no interests and find NT things boring af), and everyone seems to sense I am an autist just from the first time meeting me.

Don’t cope and say I should be authentic and be autistic, everyone fakes their lives even NTs, why can’t I. I also want to fake it but I am clearly bad at doing so. I have tried “being myself” and it ends just as badly as when I fake it or even worse.

Anyone have any good advice on how I can seem like a normal person.
Any decent threads that don’t say recycled shit?
And anyone have any past experiences similar to mine and tried things that ended up working out and are willing to share them with me?

If not, imma just be a loner and go on dating apps for a hookup every 1000th swipe right and LDAR. Maybe I will be able to make up for my neurodivergence and lack of personality once I ascend to 6.5 psl via hardmaxxing, currently at 5.5 psl.

Anyways, gotta go jelqmaxx.

 

[peterk1287]

Dnr, drugs(Adderall,pregab…), or therapy worked for me, mark as solution

 

[ascendandforget]

autism but no interests??

 

[EugenicsIsLaw]

Dnr, drugs(Adderall,pregab…), or therapy worked for me, mark as solution

you can’t permablast pregab I already made a thread on this and dextro. Dextro makes me more low inhib definitely but it turns me aspy pro max edition. What type of therapy did you do

 

[EugenicsIsLaw]

autism but no interests??

No normal interests. Jelqing and researching pharmaceuticals aren’t good conversation starters.

 

[ascendandforget]

No normal interests. Jelqing and researching pharmaceuticals aren’t good conversation starters.

fair. how old r u

 

[geogeo12]

honestly Adderall is best, but it depends on the person.

 

[peterk1287]

you can’t permablast pregab I already made a thread on this and dextro. Dextro makes me more low inhib definitely but it turns me aspy pro max edition. What type of therapy did you do

Yea of course you cant perma blast it, I did CBT, my therapist is low-key the goat, you mentioned you’ve tried being myself, but you gotta do the opposite and accept your self and navigate your life with being nd

 

[ascensionissoon]

I’m diagnosed with adhd, probably also an autist. Never had a single friend in my life. I’ve never been in a relationship either, just hookups.
I struggle with not saying egregious aspy shit, making eye contact, talking to people about normal things (I have no interests and find NT things boring af), and everyone seems to sense I am an autist just from the first time meeting me.

Don’t cope and say I should be authentic and be autistic, everyone fakes their lives even NTs, why can’t I. I also want to fake it but I am clearly bad at doing so. I have tried “being myself” and it ends just as badly as when I fake it or even worse.

Anyone have any good advice on how I can seem like a normal person.
Any decent threads that don’t say recycled shit?
And anyone have any past experiences similar to mine and tried things that ended up working out and are willing to share them with me?

If not, imma just be a loner and go on dating apps for a hookup every 1000th swipe right and LDAR. Maybe I will be able to make up for my neurodivergence and lack of personality once I ascend to 6.5 psl via hardmaxxing, currently at 5.5 psl.

Anyways, gotta go jelqmaxx.

adderall saves me in public situations, I have the same issue,, sharing interests with NTs is probably the hardest thing ever, so one other thing is to try and AVOID talking about interests if the topic comes up, just learn surface level shit and just go off that . you’re not going to feel normal, ever, especially when you master masking, it just makes it worse. same with depression and anything else, all you need to do is learn to be content with yourself so u don’t absolutely hate yourself in your personal time (as corny as it sounds, you’ll probably end up killing yourself if you can’t enjoy being by yourself)

 

[ascensionissoon]

I’m diagnosed with adhd, probably also an autist. Never had a single friend in my life. I’ve never been in a relationship either, just hookups.
I struggle with not saying egregious aspy shit, making eye contact, talking to people about normal things (I have no interests and find NT things boring af), and everyone seems to sense I am an autist just from the first time meeting me.

Don’t cope and say I should be authentic and be autistic, everyone fakes their lives even NTs, why can’t I. I also want to fake it but I am clearly bad at doing so. I have tried “being myself” and it ends just as badly as when I fake it or even worse.

Anyone have any good advice on how I can seem like a normal person.
Any decent threads that don’t say recycled shit?
And anyone have any past experiences similar to mine and tried things that ended up working out and are willing to share them with me?

If not, imma just be a loner and go on dating apps for a hookup every 1000th swipe right and LDAR. Maybe I will be able to make up for my neurodivergence and lack of personality once I ascend to 6.5 psl via hardmaxxing, currently at 5.5 psl.

Anyways, gotta go jelqmaxx.

And if you can get access to it, alcohol helps wonders as well. i like 99 vodka shooters (which are usually 99cents each), and usually drink half of one, paired with a strong mint, before being social, i can larp everything these people like easily

 

[thetruthnuke]

I’m diagnosed with adhd, probably also an autist. Never had a single friend in my life. I’ve never been in a relationship either, just hookups.
I struggle with not saying egregious aspy shit, making eye contact, talking to people about normal things (I have no interests and find NT things boring af), and everyone seems to sense I am an autist just from the first time meeting me.

Don’t cope and say I should be authentic and be autistic, everyone fakes their lives even NTs, why can’t I. I also want to fake it but I am clearly bad at doing so. I have tried “being myself” and it ends just as badly as when I fake it or even worse.

Anyone have any good advice on how I can seem like a normal person.
Any decent threads that don’t say recycled shit?
And anyone have any past experiences similar to mine and tried things that ended up working out and are willing to share them with me?

If not, imma just be a loner and go on dating apps for a hookup every 1000th swipe right and LDAR. Maybe I will be able to make up for my neurodivergence and lack of personality once I ascend to 6.5 psl via hardmaxxing, currently at 5.5 psl.

Anyways, gotta go jelqmaxx.

maybe just try getting a talking job and practice on ppl

 

[thetruthnuke]

or drink before talking that what I do if I ever need to do social thing

 

[EugenicsIsLaw]

fair. how old r u

19

 

[EugenicsIsLaw]

Yea of course you cant perma blast it, I did CBT, my therapist is low-key the goat, you mentioned you’ve tried being myself, but you gotta do the opposite and accept your self and navigate your life with being nd

Imma start cbt soon. What did you do in particular. I want to know what to do from the sessions. Give me an idea of what sort of shit you did.

 

[mustfye]

uve never had a friend but u have hookups how is this even possible do u bang hookers or smth

 

[EugenicsIsLaw]

adderall saves me in public situations, I have the same issue,, sharing interests with NTs is probably the hardest thing ever, so one other thing is to try and AVOID talking about interests if the topic comes up, just learn surface level shit and just go off that . you’re not going to feel normal, ever, especially when you master masking, it just makes it worse. same with depression and anything else, all you need to do is learn to be content with yourself so u don’t absolutely hate yourself in your personal time (as corny as it sounds, you’ll probably end up killing yourself if you can’t enjoy being by yourself)

I already take dexamfetamine and I cold approachmaxxed well. Still end up being too aspy. I wrote a thread about a foid could you maybe give me some advice on her. I will link: https://looksmax.org/threads/need-advice-on-hmtb.2000632

 

[EugenicsIsLaw]

uve never had a friend but u have hookups how is this even possible do u bang hookers or smth

Dating apps + cold approaching on night outs alone + random encounters where I was horny. I wrote a thread about how I fucked a girl and lasted way too long because I was on ssris so I got cucked hard

 

[mustfye]

Dating apps + cold approaching on night outs alone + random encounters where I was horny. I wrote a thread about how I fucked a girl and lasted way too long because I was on ssris so I got cucked hard

damn im nt and my social anxiety prevents me from speaking to women normally, might be time to kms

 

[elxbp]

adderall saves me in public situations, I have the same issue,, sharing interests with NTs is probably the hardest thing ever, so one other thing is to try and AVOID talking about interests if the topic comes up, just learn surface level shit and just go off that . you’re not going to feel normal, ever, especially when you master masking, it just makes it worse. same with depression and anything else, all you need to do is learn to be content with yourself so u don’t absolutely hate yourself in your personal time (as corny as it sounds, you’ll probably end up killing yourself if you can’t enjoy being by yourself)

tried to use addy to meet people and ended up crashing mid convo a few times, it was horrible

 

[ascensionissoon]

tried to use addy to meet people and ended up crashing mid convo a few times, it was horrible

do you remember what mg you took

 

[elxbp]

do you remember what mg you took

10mg, Low dose tbh. If I actually want to be productive or super high inhib ill just do vyvanse 20mg and snort ritalin/addy when im partying.

 

[EugenicsIsLaw]

damn im nt and my social anxiety prevents me from speaking to women normally, might be time to kms

Social anxiety is brutal but at least it is very easy to fix with the help of phamcuiticals. Why you afraid of the hos anyways. They just the bitches broski

 

[EugenicsIsLaw]

10mg, Low dose tbh. If I actually want to be productive or super high inhib ill just do vyvanse 20mg and snort ritalin/addy when im partying.

I take 10 up to 3 times a day

 

[EugenicsIsLaw]

tried to use addy to meet people and ended up crashing mid convo a few times, it was horrible

Switch to 100% dextroamphetamine, you will still mess up when talking but less since the levo enantiomer makes you more physically stimulated so you will come across as a bit overly energetic. For reference, adderall is 75% dexto, 25% levo.

 

[mustfye]

Social anxiety is brutal but at least it is very easy to fix with the help of phamcuiticals. Why you afraid of the hos anyways. They just the bitches broski

was never good looking growing up and im a pussy so ive never spoke to girls romantically or platonically at my big age of 20

 

[I am patrickbateman]

I’m diagnosed with adhd, probably also an autist. Never had a single friend in my life. I’ve never been in a relationship either, just hookups.
I struggle with not saying egregious aspy shit, making eye contact, talking to people about normal things (I have no interests and find NT things boring af), and everyone seems to sense I am an autist just from the first time meeting me.

Don’t cope and say I should be authentic and be autistic, everyone fakes their lives even NTs, why can’t I. I also want to fake it but I am clearly bad at doing so. I have tried “being myself” and it ends just as badly as when I fake it or even worse.

Anyone have any good advice on how I can seem like a normal person.
Any decent threads that don’t say recycled shit?
And anyone have any past experiences similar to mine and tried things that ended up working out and are willing to share them with me?

If not, imma just be a loner and go on dating apps for a hookup every 1000th swipe right and LDAR. Maybe I will be able to make up for my neurodivergence and lack of personality once I ascend to 6.5 psl via hardmaxxing, currently at 5.5 psl.

Anyways, gotta go jelqmaxx.

So ur retarded I think there you be a eugenics program so retards don't reproduce

 

[elxbp]

Switch to 100% dextroamphetamine, you will still mess up when talking but less since the levo enantiomer makes you more physically stimulated so you will come across as a bit overly energetic. For reference, adderall is 75% dexto, 25% levo.

nah since joining a frat at uni ive gotten a lot better at talking to people and seeming energetic/interesting. I just take vyvanse when I need to lock in for work/class

 

[EugenicsIsLaw]

was never good looking growing up and im a pussy so ive never spoke to girls romantically or platonically at my big age of 20

Ive never spoken to girls romantically either because romance doesn’t exist amongst women and men are the only romantic people.

 

[EugenicsIsLaw]

So ur retarded I think there you be a eugenics program so retards don't reproduce

Nigga my brain farted reading your comment, go watch some “how to learn english for Indian beginners” Youtube videos bhai.

 

[I am patrickbateman]

Nigga my brain farted reading your comment, go watch some “how to learn english for Indian beginners” Youtube videos bhai.

Fuck me nigger I fucking hate retards ill hunt you down to make sure you don't reproduce with your enfior genes god I fucking hope u kill ur self retard retarded retard retard ur a retard

 

[I am patrickbateman]

Nigga my brain farted reading your comment, go watch some “how to learn english for Indian beginners” Youtube videos bhai.

You fucking autistic retard you don't deserve to fucking live retard

 

[copemaxingll]

I’m diagnosed with adhd, probably also an autist. Never had a single friend in my life. I’ve never been in a relationship either, just hookups.
I struggle with not saying egregious aspy shit, making eye contact, talking to people about normal things (I have no interests and find NT things boring af), and everyone seems to sense I am an autist just from the first time meeting me.

Don’t cope and say I should be authentic and be autistic, everyone fakes their lives even NTs, why can’t I. I also want to fake it but I am clearly bad at doing so. I have tried “being myself” and it ends just as badly as when I fake it or even worse.

Anyone have any good advice on how I can seem like a normal person.
Any decent threads that don’t say recycled shit?
And anyone have any past experiences similar to mine and tried things that ended up working out and are willing to share them with me?

If not, imma just be a loner and go on dating apps for a hookup every 1000th swipe right and LDAR. Maybe I will be able to make up for my neurodivergence and lack of personality once I ascend to 6.5 psl via hardmaxxing, currently at 5.5 psl.

Anyways, gotta go jelqmaxx.

tbh every human lives a lie, dont live a liebe yourself

 

[EugenicsIsLaw]

tbh every human lives a lie, dont live a liebe yourself

i guess you missed the whole point of the thread

 

[copemaxingll]

i guess you missed the whole point of the thread

no i didnt nigga

 

[monk321]

YOu are fucked fucktard , go er asap , your parents fault with their shitty genes that they gave you

 

[EugenicsIsLaw]

no i didnt nigga

My point is that “just be yourself” is advice that doesn’t work for many people, doesn’t work for me at least, so I have to mask to at least some extent. I understand what you mean though definitely, masking is not an ideal way to live it is tiring.

 

[pufflez]

ascend and u wont need to

 

[EugenicsIsLaw]

ascend and u wont need to

There’s only so much I can ascend bhai

 

[pufflez]

unless you're actually subhuman u can ascend

There’s only so much I can ascend bhai

 

[EugenicsIsLaw]

unless you're actually subhuman u can ascend

Ok bhai but I won’t ascend to gigachad territory. My point is that you should never use looks as a way to make up for bad social skills and you should always try to improve your greatest weakness. A well rounded individual ALWAYS beats someone who is great in all categories except one in which he is struggling greatly.

 

[fedecope]

Anyways, gotta go jelqmaxx

 

[subhuman.nd]

Adderall is the best masker for adhd for me, if u have xr ur set for the whole school day but try its still hard to mask autism aswell especially with eye contact

 

[EugenicsIsLaw]

Adderall is the best masker for adhd for me, if u have xr ur set for the whole school day but try its still hard to mask autism aswell especially with eye contact

XR fucks with your sleep unless you have a perfect sleep pattern where you wake up and sleep and the exact same times every day. What is your XR dose and have you tried IR before?
I take 1-3 10mg tablets of pure dexamfetamine (dexedrine) every day, sometimes I take half a tablet which I split with a pill cutter, so only 5mg a day. I do this if I don’t want to be super amped up and just to avoid withdrawal such as depression + extreme tiredness.