How can I normiemax?

[Deleted member 23289]

I'm likely an undiagnosed aspie, because I can't explain my behavior otherwise. I was always "the weird kid". I didn't have true friends until like grade 11, and even they made a bunch of jokes of me giving of school shooter vibes. And it's pretty obvious that I creep/weird people out.

My main problems that I recognize:

-I can't hold eyecontact which makes me look away during conversations and look on the ground when I'm walking
-I don't move my arms properly. I have this weird way of walking that made people joke that I'm a school shooter or a serial killer. I just move very "stiff"
-I react too emotionless and don't shoe emotions during conversations.

Is there a way to fix shit like this?

 

[Deleted member 23289]

Going to sleep now btw

I'm gonna read your answers tomorrow

 

[Deleted member 21182]

I'm likely an undiagnosed aspie, because I can't explain my behavior otherwise. I was always "the weird kid". I didn't have true friends until like grade 11, and even they made a bunch of jokes of me giving of school shooter vibes. And it's pretty obvious that I creep/weird people out.

My main problems that I recognize:

-I can't hold eyecontact which makes me look away during conversations and look on the ground when I'm walking
-I don't move my arms properly. I have this weird way of walking that made people joke that I'm a school shooter or a serial killer. I just move very "stiff"
-I react too emotionless and don't shoe emotions during conversations.

Is there a way to fix shit like this?

Well u gotta untake the blackpill first

 

[Deleted member 15468]

do you have issues with your senses?

can you hold eyee contact?

 

[Deleted member 23848]

I want to become emotionless what do i do bros

Tired of feeling shit tbh

 

[Deleted member 21340]

Analyse what normies are doing when they socialize
Take notes on their body language, gestures, mannerisms, slang, way of speaking etc and essentially attempt to replicate it as best as you possibly can

 

[Cali Yuga]

have you tried being yourself and just going up and talking to people

 

[Deleted member 20368]

You're probably ugly lol

 

[Repentsinner]

Look yourself in the eyes in the mirror or something

 

[AlexBrown84]

Endocrinology

 

[Deleted member 23289]

Analyse what normies are doing when they socialize
Take notes on their body language, gestures, mannerisms, slang, way of speaking etc and essentially attempt to replicate it as best as you possibly can

Only legit advice here

have you tried being yourself and just going up and talking to people

Won't work if you're non-NT. If you're not NT you can never be yourself

You're probably ugly lol

I know

Look yourself in the eyes in the mirror or something

That's not the same dude

 

[Foreverbrad]

You don’t.
I’ve been trying for at least a decade.

It’s abused dog syndrome and the only way you’re gonna fix that is by looking so good you get a positive feedback loop going. So get saving for those surgeries and blast some roids, and all other good shit until people stop treating you like shit.

It is NOT possible to fake it on a long enough timescale to make it and requires too intense concentration.