How can I spice it up?

[YXSKII]

My life is so boring. How can I spice it up?

 

[AsGoodAsItGets]

My life is so boring. How can I spice it up?

Travel and live in hostels.

Fun

More chance of lays

New friends

Etc

 

[YXSKII]

Travel and live in hostels.

Fun

More chance of lays

New friends

Etc

I’m high inhib bro and broke. I would love to do shot like that but can’t cuz my parents on me and I’m broke. If you could recommend on cheap place to go where would it be?

 

[mogger123]

get a face tattoo

 

[AsGoodAsItGets]

I’m high inhib bro and broke. I would love to do shot like that but can’t cuz my parents on me and I’m broke. If you could recommend on cheap place to go where would it be?

It's very cheap to travel and move and stay in hostels in the EU.

Where do you live?

Don't believe the BS here. High inhib can be a genetic predisposition but it can be fixed just like any other skill.

 

[YXSKII]

get a face tattoo

Not retard shit like that I mean shit that takes my bordem away for the summer

 

[AsGoodAsItGets]

I’m high inhib bro and broke. I would love to do shot like that but can’t cuz my parents on me and I’m broke. If you could recommend on cheap place to go where would it be?

Just offer to work in the hostels for accomodation &// food.

Tbh many of the staff at hostels are travellers.

 

[YXSKII]

It's very cheap to travel and move and stay in hostels in the EU.

Where do you live?

Don't believe the BS here. High inhib can be a genetic predisposition but it can be fixed just like any other skill.

Live in the rathole of Belgium bro there’s nothing to do here

 

[YXSKII]

Just offer to work in the hostels for accomodation &// food.

Tbh many of the staff at hostels are travellers.

I want to get a job but got I don’t like to speak to people it’s not like I’m autistic and I can’t speak to them I just tend keep my circle very small

 

[AsGoodAsItGets]

Live in the rathole of Belgium bro there’s nothing to do here

Fucking hell catch a train to Barcelona or Milan.

Paris is near?

Stay in hostels. Work at a hostel for the summer. There are parties happening all the time. Many hostels have bars attached so tgeres something going on.

There is no place like a hostel where you can train to become low inhib.

In Milan there are aperitivos where you can meet a lot of people.

Just tell someone “Im new to socializing. Show me around?”

Youll just catch a vibe. Low inhib is just about being fun and carefree.

 

[AsGoodAsItGets]

I want to get a job but got I don’t like to speak to people it’s not like I’m autistic and I can’t speak to them I just tend keep my circle very small

Its something some people just have to learn. I had to. I even spent two years in sales to learn the skill where I excelled and surpassed seniors.

If you're going to have a happy life, you need to know and connect with people.

Putting yourself in a new environment where you can leave the next day is the best way to train.

 

[Bojack]

I'd say travel the earth skyrim style, but having no money sucks

 

[YXSKII]

I'd say travel the earth skyrim style, but having no money sucks

It really does I just need to work hard for the next summer and save up my money

 

[Bojack]

It really does I just need to work hard for the next summer and save up my money

yea at least then you can stay in hotels and have enough money to buy food when u travel around n shit

 

[YXSKII]

Its something some people just have to learn. I had to. I even spent two years in sales to learn the skill where I excelled and surpassed seniors.

If you're going to have a happy life, you need to know and connect with people.

Putting yourself in a new environment where you can leave the next day is the best way to train.

Were u not good at socialising before? The thing about me is that I don’t like to socialise with people because i feel like they will not be the same level as my current friend rather an accomplice level.

 

[YXSKII]

yea at least then you can stay in hotels and have enough money to buy food when u travel around n shit

My doesn’t want me to travel alone saying that it’s dangerous Yada Yada and that anything could happen to me even thought I’m built strong lol.

 

[Bojack]

My doesn’t want me to travel alone saying that it’s dangerous Yada Yada and that anything could happen to me even thought I’m built strong lol.

I used to travel around all the time and nothing really happened to me. I slept in my car, and even almost slept outside the whole night and nothing happened again. People just ignored me for the most part and I went along my way. I just got tired of being alone and hungry. It didn't exactly feel like a skyrim adventure game.

 

[AsGoodAsItGets]

Were u not good at socialising before? The thing about me is that I don’t like to socialise with people because i feel like they will not be the same level as my current friend rather an accomplice level.

No I wasnt.

I had massive anxiety.

I just lived with NT people for a long time and my behavior changed.

Some of my best friends are people i met at parties or at hostels.

We just hit it off.

Similar interests. Help each other.

 

[YXSKII]

I used to travel around all the time and nothing really happened to me. I slept in my car, and even almost slept outside the whole night and nothing happened again. People just ignored me for the most part and I went along my way. I just got tired of being alone and hungry. It didn't exactly feel like a skyrim adventure game.

That’s also the thing ion want it to be boring or be alone and that’s what’s stopping from even doing it and lose a lot of money on it.

 

[YXSKII]

No I wasnt.

I had massive anxiety.

I just lived with NT people for a long time and my behavior changed.

Some of my best friends are people i met at parties or at hostels.

We just hit it off.

Similar interests. Help each other.

Yeah that’s the thing tho if I travel around Europe how will I keep them as friends if I’m distant from them?

 

[Bojack]

That’s also the thing ion want it to be boring or be alone and that’s what’s stopping from even doing it and lose a lot of money on it.

Well, I guess you could approach max people n shit still to avoid the lonely feeling, but it's a pain in teh ass to do that ngl.

 

[AsGoodAsItGets]

Yeah that’s the thing tho if I travel around Europe how will I keep them as friends if I’m distant from them?

Youll figure it out.

You can go to music festivals like Cercle / Boiler Room together.

You can do road trips, ski trips whatever.

Reality is as you let it.

Stifle it or improvise.

 

[YXSKII]

Well, I guess you could approach max people n shit still to avoid the lonely feeling, but it's a pain in teh ass to do that ngl.

I’ve tried that before and my social battery dies out rq

 

[YXSKII]

Youll figure it out.

You can go to music festivals like Cercle / Boiler Room together.

You can do road trips, ski trips whatever.

Reality is as you let it.

Stifle it or improvise.

will do all that but first i will grind till next summer and not even do anything but work this summer. Thx for the advice bro.

 

[Bojack]

I’ve tried that before and my social battery dies out rq

You got to push yourself through that barrier man !