How can i status and personality max as an mltn from the uk

[Whatsamaxilla__]

Here is some usless info about me jfl, im 17 i have about 20 friends, speak to like 8 of em regularly, i have decent job, go to the gym and finally i am pretty neurodivergent. I really need a better personality and a bigger status i cant talk to girls at all. I probably only go out to parties and shi like 4 times per year which probably doesnt help.

 

[bolinha]

Here is some usless info about me jfl, im 17 i have about 20 friends, speak to like 8 of em regularly, i have decent job, go to the gym and finally i am pretty neurodivergent. I really need a better personality and a bigger status i cant talk to girls at all. I probably only go out to parties and shi like 4 times per year which probably doesnt help.

first need ask alot of questions since you mtn people dont want know about you since you not that good looking so ask questions about them expecily foids they only care about them selfs and next partener.

also you need say what people want to listen learn to say what is aceptable and neutral and nothing that negative on their view points so for exeple if they say they say you can look good fat you need say some shit like neutral and say something like I belive it would be more hard to be good loking fat but is possible so you need pretend somone you are not that is and mark me as solution if possible to do so.

 

[sazor]

Here is some usless info about me jfl, im 17 i have about 20 friends, speak to like 8 of em regularly, i have decent job, go to the gym and finally i am pretty neurodivergent. I really need a better personality and a bigger status i cant talk to girls at all. I probably only go out to parties and shi like 4 times per year which probably doesnt help.

since you're neurodivergent (likely ASD), your only path to having good and stable relationships with people or girls, personality-only speaking, is Machiavellianism and the study of social interactions and dynamics, it's pretty hard to accept it but you'll get over the fact that most people (NT) are socially incompatible with neurodivergent people (except for family or close friends)

 

[Whatsamaxilla__]

since you're neurodivergent (likely ASD), your only path to having good and stable relationships with people or girls, personality-only speaking, is Machiavellianism and the study of social interactions and dynamics, it's pretty hard to accept it but you'll get over the fact that most people (NT) are socially incompatible with neurodivergent people (except for family or close friends)

tbh, im not so much nd i dont rlly know what i am. I get rlly nervous and my heart lit races for some reason and i go red whenever i start speaking or about to approach someone i have never talked to, but i can hold a conversation if we have the same interests obviously and i get less and less nervous as the convo goes on. this happens to me to male or female but obviously its worse when its a female. Plus i have rarely ever had friends who are girls and never had a gf.

 

[sazor]

tbh, im not so much nd i dont rlly know what i am. I get rlly nervous and my heart lit races for some reason and i go red whenever i start speaking or about to approach someone i have never talked to, but i can hold a conversation if we have the same interests obviously and i get less and less nervous as the convo goes on. this happens to me to male or female but obviously its worse when its a female. Plus i have rarely ever had friends who are girls and never had a gf.

then yes you're most likely autistic, if you can hold a conversation that's good but to make the first step you have to study social interactions and people, at least if it isn't like a confidence problem. If it is, find what's blocking you from making the first step. To know what u are is to know what's blocking u from knowing

 

[Whatsamaxilla__]

then yes you're most likely autistic, if you can hold a conversation that's good but to make the first step you have to study social interactions and people, at least if it isn't like a confidence problem. If it is, find what's blocking you from making the first step. To know what u are is to know what's blocking u from knowing

its a combination of both i think. But its mostly because i think im going to mess up words or something and i normally do. The only way i dont do this is alcohol lol

 

[thodian]

making content id say is like the best way to status max quickly