How can I stop being a mentalcel?

[Htn.seeker]

For context I'm 184 cm and I think I'm considerably attractive (enough to get scouted by multiple agencies) but I'm so fucking aspie and akward I don't get any female attention. Well, I do get female attention and initial interest from them but once I spend some time with them they lose interest cuz I'm too shy and akward I think. When I go clubbing I do tend to get quite a bit of attention and I'll usually end up making out with atleast 1 girl if I go out without really trying too hard but that's mostly thanks to the temporary low inhib I get from alcohol and my looks. Once I have to actually act normal irl for example on a date, I just dont know how to act or physically escalate without it being weird. It feels like I'm always in my own head analyzing every little thing I do, it's like I'm playing a character and I think girls can sense that easily but I just can't change the way I think I'm too hyper aware. Sorry for the vent I just wanted to see what people think cuz I feel like my experience isn't too uncommon.

 

[gymcelld]

Do drugs (joking)

 

[Htn.seeker]

Do drugs (joking)

It might b over, I'm geniunely thinking about going to therapy for ts

 

[mohi_100]

Being in your head all the time can be a result of being online constantly and zoning out of irl situations. Make sure to manage that before hopping on any stimulant or nootro

 

[SoundnVision]

Nothing.
Find a shy girl kinda like yourself if you look as good as you say that shouldn't be a problem

 

[MOSSADGLOWIE]

For context I'm 184 cm and I think I'm considerably attractive (enough to get scouted by multiple agencies) but I'm so fucking aspie and akward I don't get any female attention. Well, I do get female attention and initial interest from them but once I spend some time with them they lose interest cuz I'm too shy and akward I think. When I go clubbing I do tend to get quite a bit of attention and I'll usually end up making out with atleast 1 girl if I go out without really trying too hard but that's mostly thanks to the temporary low inhib I get from alcohol and my looks. Once I have to actually act normal irl for example on a date, I just dont know how to act or physically escalate without it being weird. It feels like I'm always in my own head analyzing every little thing I do, it's like I'm playing a character and I think girls can sense that easily but I just can't change the way I think I'm too hyper aware. Sorry for the vent I just wanted to see what people think cuz I feel like my experience isn't too uncommon.

nothing can fix this not therapy not drugs
only solution is to find other aspie girls

 

[Htn.seeker]

nothing can fix this not therapy not drugs
only solution is to find other aspie girls

Ig I have a feeling that's gonna take some time though since most attractive girls tend to be outgoing and very nt and my social circle is very small I rarely hang out girls lol, then again I'm not in any rush I just hope to find some1 one day

 

[Korbi3008]

For context I'm 184 cm and I think I'm considerably attractive (enough to get scouted by multiple agencies) but I'm so fucking aspie and akward I don't get any female attention. Well, I do get female attention and initial interest from them but once I spend some time with them they lose interest cuz I'm too shy and akward I think. When I go clubbing I do tend to get quite a bit of attention and I'll usually end up making out with atleast 1 girl if I go out without really trying too hard but that's mostly thanks to the temporary low inhib I get from alcohol and my looks. Once I have to actually act normal irl for example on a date, I just dont know how to act or physically escalate without it being weird. It feels like I'm always in my own head analyzing every little thing I do, it's like I'm playing a character and I think girls can sense that easily but I just can't change the way I think I'm too hyper aware. Sorry for the vent I just wanted to see what people think cuz I feel like my experience isn't too uncommon.

just dont care!

 

[positivecoper]

try to leave internet for few weeks

 

[SoundnVision]

nothing can fix this not therapy not drugs
only solution is to find other aspie girls

That or you find a girl you completely mog that she would put up with the adpieness