How can I unloser myself?

Matrix88

Matrix88

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Guys I need help. I've been dealing with a huge inferiority complex that stops me from doing anything in life.

I don't have the drive or purpose to keep going. There's no reason for me to learn anything or to aspire to having a good job.

No matter what I learn or the "status" I achieve, people will never care at all about me.

I am so inferior to regular guys, I truly feel like my life is worthless
 
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Deleting this account would be a good start

Hop off social media, force urself to go outside and live a new life, or learn to do both - which clearly isnt working atm
 
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stop larping and youre gucci
 
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i got this cuck and impostor syndrom as well

but sometimes my ego just skyrockets randomly through the roof

i hate myself
 
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Guys I need help. I've been dealing with a huge inferiority complex that stops me from doing anything in life.

I don't have the drive or purpose to keep going. There's no reason for me to learn anything or to aspire to having a good job.

No matter what I learn or the "status" I achieve, people will never care at all about me.

I am so inferior to regular guys, I truly feel like my life is worthless
Hop on hrt
 
stop referring to yourself as a "loser", if you keep thinking like ts then you will stay like ts. you are prob at the lowest point in your life and from here it only goes up. just be happy and enjoy life even if you are a neet because life is unexpected. you dont have to strive to do anything except to make the most out of every day, just dont care about society. go out and do what you wanna do and don't care about others
 
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Guys I need help. I've been dealing with a huge inferiority complex that stops me from doing anything in life.

I don't have the drive or purpose to keep going. There's no reason for me to learn anything or to aspire to having a good job.

No matter what I learn or the "status" I achieve, people will never care at all about me.

I am so inferior to regular guys, I truly feel like my life is worthless
if your dick is bigger than 6.5 then you’re fine
 
Guys I need help. I've been dealing with a huge inferiority complex that stops me from doing anything in life.

I don't have the drive or purpose to keep going. There's no reason for me to learn anything or to aspire to having a good job.

No matter what I learn or the "status" I achieve, people will never care at all about me.

I am so inferior to regular guys, I truly feel like my life is worthless
just looksmax bro, it doesn’t matter how much cooler you get ppl will always disrespect you bc they’re subconsciously aware of the fact you’re genetically inferior to them
 
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I've been seeing those videos of "learning X thing in 1 day" and I felt great and even motivated to do the same with stuff I like, but then I remembered nobody cares if I learn anything, I'm not that guy.

How can I surpass that feeling? I know telling myself I'm important would be cope, cause I still need to looksmax, but I don't wanna feel like all my life is worthless
 
just looksmax bro,
but not everyone can ascend to be good looking bro...

What's the point on putting a lot of effort and money just to be average, that shit makes me very sad. By the time I'd be able to ascend to being good looking, my youth will already have passed me by
 
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but not everyone can ascend to be good looking bro...

What's the point on putting a lot of effort and money just to be average, that shit makes me very sad. By the time I'd be able to ascend to being good looking, my youth will already have passed me by
it’s better to reach your maximum potential even if it’s considered average, i feel like the average guy can truly be good looking (through surgery obv soft maxxing is cope) but most of involved luck, money and intelligence, the only thing that limits a guys potential is the eye area or some rare condition
 
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it’s better to reach your maximum potential even if it’s considered average, i feel like the average guy can truly be good looking (through surgery obv soft maxxing is cope) but most of involved luck, money and intelligence, the only thing that limits a guys potential is the eye area or some rare condition
my worst failo is my lower third 😡😡

I'm just sad that my life is nothing to be proud of. It's not a cool story to tell others, it's not remarkable by any means. I'm embarrassed of my existence most days, and idk how to stop it.

Even if I put effort to get a better life, it will still be average at best. That makes me sad
 
my worst failo is my lower third 😡😡

I'm just sad that my life is nothing to be proud of. It's not a cool story to tell others, it's not remarkable by any means. I'm embarrassed of my existence most days, and idk how to stop it.

Even if I put effort to get a better life, it will still be average at best. That makes me sad
its alright bro, just embrace the negatives and try to convert them into your strengths, if you know your lower third is your weakest point then do methods or procedures so you could grow your mandible, but you have to work not just hard but smart as well, don’t let negativity determine you future, also being average is fine, there’s nothing wrong with it, however being below average that’s the issue
 
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its alright bro, just embrace the negatives and try to convert them into your strengths, if you know your lower third is your weakest point then do methods or procedures so you could grow your mandible, but you have to work not just hard but smart as well, don’t let negativity determine you future, also being average is fine, there’s nothing wrong with it, however being below average that’s the issue
love u bro, thanks

I hate seeing how normies who are uglier than me do have hope for their lives. I'd love to be like them, but it's hard to keep that positive mood for a long time.
 
love u bro, thanks

I hate seeing how normies who are uglier than me do have hope for their lives. I'd love to be like them, but it's hard to keep that positive mood for a long time.
ilyt gang, same it’s acc annoying seeing chopped niggas with a better social life than me yet i’m the one who’s looked down upon, but ik it’s also about the social skills aswell, unfortunately just like everything confidence is genetic so our only hope is to ascend :Sadeg:
 
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Guys I need help. I've been dealing with a huge inferiority complex that stops me from doing anything in life.

I don't have the drive or purpose to keep going. There's no reason for me to learn anything or to aspire to having a good job.

No matter what I learn or the "status" I achieve, people will never care at all about me.

I am so inferior to regular guys, I truly feel like my life is worthless
How old are you currently?
 
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i got this cuck and impostor syndrom as well

but sometimes my ego just skyrockets randomly through the roof

i hate myself
I think it's a common situation because I'm currently experiencing very unpleasant mixed emotions as well.
 
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Guys I need help. I've been dealing with a huge inferiority complex that stops me from doing anything in life.

I don't have the drive or purpose to keep going. There's no reason for me to learn anything or to aspire to having a good job.

No matter what I learn or the "status" I achieve, people will never care at all about me.

I am so inferior to regular guys, I truly feel like my life is worthless
stop being a mentalcel and pin 500 test and let ur inferior complex melt away
 
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Your dad is forty-four (Uh)
And he's still callin' man for a draw (Look at him)
Let him know
When I see him
I'm gonna spin his jaw (Finished)
Take man's Twix by force (Take it)
Send man's shop by force (Send him)
Your girl knows I've got the sauce (Flexin')
No ketchup (None)
Just sauce (Saucy)
Raw sauce (Ah)
 
Your dad is forty-four (Uh)
And he's still callin' man for a draw (Look at him)
Let him know
When I see him
I'm gonna spin his jaw (Finished)
Take man's Twix by force (Take it)
Send man's shop by force (Send him)
Your girl knows I've got the sauce (Flexin')
No ketchup (None)
Just sauce (Saucy)
Raw sauce (Ah)
Mans not hot
 
If you are legit ND, then you will never become a traditional normal person (what will you do, mask your voice, gestures, volume, content, posture, gaze, etc. for hours daily without slipping up?)

Why not give up on that path? If NT people will hate you no matter what you do, then whatever. Screw them, who cares what they think.

Why don't you try nichemaxxing? Getting into a subculture and dressing a different way could result in ND friends and opportunities with girls. These are people that are open-minded and used to ND autists. You could gain a genuine friend group in time and get an alt girl that fogs some normies gf. Yeah, NT people might judge you. But they would hate you anyway.



NT people will "respect" you for being talented. You've went to school so you probably remember some of the nerdy autists there. The normies still glazed them for their intelligence. It's just that the respect doesn't really translate into social interaction or real value. It isn't "real" respect, in a sense. They pity them deep down.

Do you really want to work to earn their pity-respect? Take revenge on the normies by living a better life than them and mogging them in as much as you can. Really rub it in their face how much more talented and happy you are than them. If their respect is empty, then their envy will feel way better.

Don't be begging for their respect with your work, that's cucked and puts them on a pedestal. Put yourself on the pedestal, and work to make them forced to envy you and acknowledge you werent born broken.

If you ever wanna DM, feel free
 
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Reduce ur screen time to less than 5 hours a day and give ur phone to anyone who u live with once that time is over. Deadazz reduced my inferiority complex after i stopped comparing myself to others.
 
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Reduce ur screen time to less than 5 hours a day and give ur phone to anyone who u live with once that time is over. Deadazz reduced my inferiority complex after i stopped comparing myself to others.
I can't erase the knowledge of my inferiority
 
I can't erase the knowledge of my inferiority
Fym "cant erase the knowledge of my inferiority" nigga it is never over even if ur sub 3 loser incel who rots im his mums basement if u decide to change ur life for the better and work for it no one can stop u
 
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Fym "cant erase the knowledge of my inferiority" nigga it is never over even if ur sub 3 loser incel who rots im his mums basement if u decide to change ur life for the better and work for it no one can stop u
It's sad to know there are good looking guys and even kiddos who are living the life I'd want...

They have the looks and the money, and they have them when it matters the most :/
 
First off, you're not a loser because you're unemployed, stop believing BS made up by normalroaches
 
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It's sad to know there are good looking guys and even kiddos who are living the life I'd want...

They have the looks and the money, and they have them when it matters the most :/
So what brah are u just gonna cry about it or are u gonna take initiative and work towards the looks and money u want
 
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Fuck a stacy or beat up a chad, only real way to lose it
 
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So what brah are u just gonna cry about it or are u gonna take initiative and work towards the looks and money u want
idk man, that's the tough thing for me

I've considered the option you're saying, to just cry about it since money won't fill the hole in my soul. The damage is already done, only looks could fix that rn.

I don't want to be a doomer, I wanna have that drive to live a good life, but it's just not always there. Idk if I wanna live putting effort to a life that doesn't even makes me happy
 
If you don’t feel any drive pushing you you should check your free testosterone levels

Sometimes it’s really this simple
 
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Delulumaxx
Start microdosing drugs and fake it till u make it brah
 
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Guys I need help. I've been dealing with a huge inferiority complex that stops me from doing anything in life.

I don't have the drive or purpose to keep going. There's no reason for me to learn anything or to aspire to having a good job.

No matter what I learn or the "status" I achieve, people will never care at all about me.

I am so inferior to regular guys, I truly feel like my life is worthless
start doing martial arts or quit social media
 
18, about to turn 19
I’m around your age. I’ve just finished my exams and have been feeling really stressed about studying lately. How are things going with you ?
 
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I’m around your age. I’ve just finished my exams and have been feeling really stressed about studying lately. How are things going with you ?
I also I'm studying, but I tend to lose that drive or "motivation" to do it in the first place

Sometimes I wonder why am I even studying or doing anything at all, I hate my life and I don't see any purpose on what I do. I hate the idea of getting a job if that doesn't come with a good life alongside
 
you've already perma painted urself as a loser
you'll be the same person u described until u drop that idea and install a new image of urself and work on that
 
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Guys I need help. I've been dealing with a huge inferiority complex that stops me from doing anything in life.

I don't have the drive or purpose to keep going. There's no reason for me to learn anything or to aspire to having a good job.

No matter what I learn or the "status" I achieve, people will never care at all about me.

I am so inferior to regular guys, I truly feel like my life is worthless
i've seen a few of your threads and i relate a lot, whatever you do in the future good luck bhai
 
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i've seen a few of your threads and i relate a lot, whatever you do in the future good luck bhai
thanks bro, I will try to have a good future even if I sound too negative

I just need to fix my mindset I guess :LOL:
 
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