The question has been asked several times over the years even by myself, which eventually brought me out into researching it on my own.
THE ANSWER IS VERY SIMPLE:
As physical appearance is extremely essential to most people and especially women, it’s important to note that it’s only part of one “law of attraction”, and a mix of traits is what brings others out more than just an appealing vision to the eye.
From what I’ve personally seen; no matter how good you look, adding a personality to it is key. However, for some people, their personality can still somehow outweigh their revolting physical attribute, due to human attraction also relying on heavily psychological and emotional factors - not just looks.
What can really outweigh what you physically portray yourself as are several characteristics like; presence, energy, character, confidence, and connection. The way you carry yourself is what matters the most, due to women often being drawn to things like feeling safe, being able to be themselves around someone, and likewise being able to have a good laugh as often as possible.
Let’s also remember, “looks” are entirely subjective. Yes, they’re extremely powerful and can also aid in things like presence and confidence, as well as charm, but the entire point of attraction is to have the opposite gender feel something that gets them drawn to you - and that doesn’t always have to be looks firsthand.
So seriously, if you’re “bad looking” or initially considered subhuman, it’s not entirely “over”… just focus on sharing experiences, goals, prioritising humour, values and especially intelligence. Keep yourself beneficial, even if it’s not always looks-wise!
INFER THIS THREAD AS YOU LIKE…
THE ANSWER IS VERY SIMPLE:
As physical appearance is extremely essential to most people and especially women, it’s important to note that it’s only part of one “law of attraction”, and a mix of traits is what brings others out more than just an appealing vision to the eye.
From what I’ve personally seen; no matter how good you look, adding a personality to it is key. However, for some people, their personality can still somehow outweigh their revolting physical attribute, due to human attraction also relying on heavily psychological and emotional factors - not just looks.
What can really outweigh what you physically portray yourself as are several characteristics like; presence, energy, character, confidence, and connection. The way you carry yourself is what matters the most, due to women often being drawn to things like feeling safe, being able to be themselves around someone, and likewise being able to have a good laugh as often as possible.
Let’s also remember, “looks” are entirely subjective. Yes, they’re extremely powerful and can also aid in things like presence and confidence, as well as charm, but the entire point of attraction is to have the opposite gender feel something that gets them drawn to you - and that doesn’t always have to be looks firsthand.
So seriously, if you’re “bad looking” or initially considered subhuman, it’s not entirely “over”… just focus on sharing experiences, goals, prioritising humour, values and especially intelligence. Keep yourself beneficial, even if it’s not always looks-wise!
INFER THIS THREAD AS YOU LIKE…
