How can one be internally a bad person?

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For a couple weeks now, I’ve been wondering how people can so easily and irrationally just judge people as either “good” or “bad”. So many actions people do today, even out of regular, even empathetic intentions, are instantly seen by the public as immoral, and cruel. Imagine you are a 40 year old mother and your 14 year old son was murdered by one of his classmates. What do you think the mom will immediately think? Well, it doesn’t take a genius to assume that the mom will instantly start classifying the kid who did that as a “monster”. However, the mom has no clue why the kid did it. All she knows, is that a kid has killed her son. But that’s exactly the problem. People only perform actions for reasons, nobody has an internal “spirit” or “personality from birth”. The kid killed the son for a reason that they deemed as worthy. If it wasn’t worthy to him, then why did he do it? He had the choice to either kill the kid, or not to kill him, and in the end, he did, meaning that he had a reason he deemed in his head as worthy. Now that we have that out of the way, humans only make choices either based off of their surroundings, or from the way they were born. Nobody makes a decision in their head from anything other than what they have been surrounded by, or how they have been born to be. This means, the kid killed the son either because he was born genetically with less empathy, psychopathy, ect. Or, he was subtly influenced throughout his life to do so. Based off of that, you want to tell me that it’s the kids fault he murdered the son? It’s HIS fault for killing the son, just because of the way he was born (uncontrollable), and the things he was surrounded by (uncontrollable)? How can you blame someone for anything, really, it’s never their fault. People today are emotionally immature, and need to shift their blame irrationally just to make them have piece of mind. That mother is irrational for blaming the kid for murdering her son. The kid has only done so because he was born genetically to do so more easily, or because he was surrounded by things that influenced him to do so throughout his life. Neither of the two factors are controllable. What we can take away from this thread, is that whatever a person does, isn’t ever their fault. People cannot understand that choices we make aren’t dictated by ourselves, rather by others and our dna. If you want to argue that if others are influencing you, and therefore THEY are bad people, then no, they have either done that because of OTHER people, or because of the way they were born. If your not a retard, you’ll know by the end of it all it comes down to your dna, and how you were encoded to “behave”. That is the absolute route of human behaviour, which, obviously, you cannot change. Every SINGLE action that you do, is never because you independently chose to do it. So understand, that anything you do, regardless of the situation, never classifies you as a bad person, or is your fault. Instead, your surrounds and your dna are to be blamed. So the next time your kid is murdered. You must not get angry at the murder, instead, you must feel empathy for him or her, and let them get help, for the actions that they cannot control.