how can someone be more NT

[Lauren de Graaf]

i wouldnt call myself an ND, but lowkey feel im different to others, might just be my lack of confidance, but people are always talking about NT vs ND, i just want to know how to act in that sweet spot where how you appeal to girls but also ND in a way, if that makes sense, i might have this all wrong, hence the thread

might not make sense, cause i don't fully know what im trying to say, but basically what is the best way to act in a school enviroment

wouldnt say im the most popular but i just get along with everyone from every group, people respect me if yk what i mean

 

[iblamehugog]

i wouldnt call myself an ND, but lowkey feel im different to others, might just be my lack of confidance, but people are always talking about NT vs ND, i just want to know how to act in that sweet spot where how you appeal to girls but also ND in a way, if that makes sense, i might have this all wrong, hence the thread

might not make sense, cause i don't fully know what im trying to say, but basically what is the best way to act in a school enviroment

wouldnt say im the most popular but i just get along with everyone from every group, people respect me if yk what i mean

dnr + ratio

 

[Lauren de Graaf]

dnr + ratio

low iq

 

[CrackyLolra]

i wouldnt call myself an ND, but lowkey feel im different to others, might just be my lack of confidance, but people are always talking about NT vs ND, i just want to know how to act in that sweet spot where how you appeal to girls but also ND in a way, if that makes sense, i might have this all wrong, hence the thread

might not make sense, cause i don't fully know what im trying to say, but basically what is the best way to act in a school enviroment

wouldnt say im the most popular but i just get along with everyone from every group, people respect me if yk what i mean

think in tasks, see a girl u like? new task is to js talk to her, the outcome doesn't matter when learning, alcohol and other stimulants could also help, like a lot

 

[lowestlowltn]

get a cashier job and improve small talk

 

[jlim]

think in tasks, see a girl u like? new task is to js talk to her, the outcome doesn't matter when learning, alcohol and other stimulants could also help, like a lot

we are on a looksmaxxing forum and u are talking about drinking alcohol

 

[Lauren de Graaf]

get a cashier job and improve small talk

i have a job at a movie threate where i interact with a lot of people and i reckon this has helped alot, what would be the next step from this?

 

[Lauren de Graaf]

think in tasks, see a girl u like? new task is to js talk to her, the outcome doesn't matter when learning, alcohol and other stimulants could also help, like a lot

no im saying how i should act in school and out and about to appeal to women

 

[CrackyLolra]

we are on a looksmaxxing forum and u are talking about drinking alcohol

yeah if used in normal matter u can drink when u want

 

[lowestlowltn]

i have a job at a movie threate where i interact with a lot of people and i reckon this has helped alot, what would be the next step from this?

i’m not sure as i’m not neurodivergent but my sister has autism she doesn’t really struggle socially so i think it depends from person to person, you can’t really be more NT tbh

 

[CrackyLolra]

no im saying how i should act in school and out and about to appeal to women

what has worked for you yet? have you noticed any ohter treatment from girls when u had an specific atitute for the day? or like a specific style

 

[Lauren de Graaf]

i’m not sure as i’m not neurodivergent but my sister has autism she doesn’t really struggle socially so i think it depends from person to person, you can’t really be more NT tbh

yeah fair fair, so just try and talk to as many randoms as possible basically, and develop skills from that?

 

[lowestlowltn]

yeah fair fair, so just try and talk to as many randoms as possible basically, and develop skills from that?

yeah but i wouldn’t go out of your way and approach random people as now a days that seems weird but yeah just work on small talk and how to hold a conversation and maybe get some hobby’s

 

[Lauren de Graaf]

what has worked for you yet? have you noticed any ohter treatment from girls when u had an specific atitute for the day? or like a specific style

not really tbh, like yeah i talk too alot of girls and im not afraid too, it just how i act when or if they are watching and what they atract to the most yk

 

[Lauren de Graaf]

yeah but i wouldn’t go out of your way and approach random people as now a days that seems weird but yeah just work on small talk and how to hold a conversation and maybe get some hobby’s

ik this might sound shallow but what are good hobbies. i play chess alot, but i can't get into reading because i have dylexia

could you suggest a couple?

 

[dissociate]

i wouldnt call myself an ND, but lowkey feel im different to others, might just be my lack of confidance, but people are always talking about NT vs ND, i just want to know how to act in that sweet spot where how you appeal to girls but also ND in a way, if that makes sense, i might have this all wrong, hence the thread

might not make sense, cause i don't fully know what im trying to say, but basically what is the best way to act in a school enviroment

wouldnt say im the most popular but i just get along with everyone from every group, people respect me if yk what i mean

You are no different than anyone else and I don't mean that in a bad way. What separates you from being "NT" is your experiences, or maybe lack of. When you actually start interacting with those people that you say that know you, and become friends with certain people or even join a friend group, you will naturally start becoming "NT". You may know these people or they may respect you but if you're not interacting with them then you are obviously going to feel like an outcast. I think it is a confidence issue and I don't know how old you are but as your brain develops you hopefully realize that you shouldn't care about what other people think anyway. Be yourself and maybe you'll naturally be "NT". Girls don't like guys who "act" a certain way because what happens when you get with a girl and that act slips up? It's a facade that can only be believable if it's truly you. Change as a person or become a good person and that alone will get people to like you.

 

[Lauren de Graaf]

Girls don't like guys who "act" a certain way

what 'act' do girls appeal towards?

 

[dissociate]

Be yourself, unless you're a psycho maniac or have bad tendencies and habits that you truly know wouldn't "appeal" to girls / a girl you like. If you're just a kind person then you shouldn't have a problem appealing to girls (that don't only care about looks). I think one of the most appealing things in a person besides their looks is their kindness and if you are kind while also being yourself you shouldn't have to worry about "acting" a certain way.

 

[Lauren de Graaf]

Be yourself, unless you're a psycho maniac or have bad tendencies and habits that you truly know wouldn't "appeal" to girls / a girl you like. If you're just a kind person then you shouldn't have a problem appealing to girls (that don't only care about looks). I think one of the most appealing things in a person besides their looks is their kindness and if you are kind while also being yourself you shouldn't have to worry about "acting" a certain way.

yeah i understand being kind is very important, but girls now just want more then that, kindness appeals to a very small genuine population of women 'rare'

 

[zimione]

i wouldnt call myself an ND, but lowkey feel im different to others, might just be my lack of confidance, but people are always talking about NT vs ND, i just want to know how to act in that sweet spot where how you appeal to girls but also ND in a way, if that makes sense, i might have this all wrong, hence the thread

might not make sense, cause i don't fully know what im trying to say, but basically what is the best way to act in a school enviroment

wouldnt say im the most popular but i just get along with everyone from every group, people respect me if yk what i mean

Just socialize bro.