How can the blackpill and oofy doofy coexist?

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The blackpill states that looks or LMS (looks, money, status) are required to have a successful dating and sex life and the majority of this being decided by one's inherent genetic quality. Subsequently the blackpill has a heaps of studies backing it, thousands of tinder experiments and for us who go outside have witnessed, first hand, how females treat chad.

However, I always see oofy doofy relationships when I'm out in public. These girls aren't dating chad, theyre dating guys who would be called subhuman and told to LDAR by members of this forum but are instead cuddling with their gf on a bench or holding hands walking down the street. I've seen some forum members equating the oofy doofy theory to the mere exposure effect or the woman wanting control over the relationship but doesn't this kind of conflate the black pill?

How do NT incels who are at least somewhat capable of socialising exist and looks be the most important factor in getting laid if you can rely on social circle game and just being around a girl enough until she falls in love despite you just being some average guy and not chad?
 
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The blackpill states that looks or LMS (looks, money, status) are required to have a successful dating and sex life and the majority of this being decided by one's inherent genetic quality. Subsequently the blackpill has a heaps of studies backing it, thousands of tinder experiments and for us who go outside have witnessed, first hand, how females treat chad.

However, I always see oofy doofy relationships when I'm out in public. These girls aren't dating chad, theyre dating guys who would be called subhuman and told to LDAR by members of this forum but are instead cuddling with their gf on a bench or holding hands walking down the street. I've seen some forum members equating the oofy doofy theory to the mere exposure effect or the woman wanting control over the relationship but doesn't this kind of conflate the black pill?

How do NT incels who are at least somewhat capable of socialising exist and looks be the most important factor in getting laid if you can rely on social circle game and just being around a girl enough until she falls in love despite you just being some average guy and not chad?
i think its because of the popularity of social media
my theory is that the average girl is incredibly insecure because of social media so when they are with a chad, they dont really want to be in a relationship since she will always be comparing herself with him, which makes her feel bad.
where as the nt ugly guy will be making her feel happy, not only through the obvious ways like being a simp n that, but also because she knows she is better looking.

i'd say the better looking u are the higher chance u have for a ONS but a lower chance for a LTR
 
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The blackpill states that looks or LMS (looks, money, status) are required to have a successful dating and sex life and the majority of this being decided by one's inherent genetic quality. Subsequently the blackpill has a heaps of studies backing it, thousands of tinder experiments and for us who go outside have witnessed, first hand, how females treat chad.

However, I always see oofy doofy relationships when I'm out in public. These girls aren't dating chad, theyre dating guys who would be called subhuman and told to LDAR by members of this forum but are instead cuddling with their gf on a bench or holding hands walking down the street. I've seen some forum members equating the oofy doofy theory to the mere exposure effect or the woman wanting control over the relationship but doesn't this kind of conflate the black pill?

How do NT incels who are at least somewhat capable of socialising exist and looks be the most important factor in getting laid if you can rely on social circle game and just being around a girl enough until she falls in love despite you just being some average guy and not chad?
How do you guys see a couple in public and start making assumptions?
Guy could provide for her, pay for everything for example
 
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The black pill mainly affects deathnics and manlets. Oofy doofy theory and JBW are highly correlated with each other. As oofy doofy is just above avg height to tall white LTNs with nerd phenos having girlfriends.
 
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How do you guys see a couple in public and start making assumptions?
Guy could provide for her, pay for everything for example
Betabuxxing seems somewhat plausible until you acknowledge the fact a lot of these guys are in their young 20s and late teens. High school and college students are by no means "providing" for their gfs.
 
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Tbh NT and social circle should be included under the S of LMS. Because it is somewhat of a big status
I've experienced this myself, when I'm among a big social circle where we are seen by foids around us having fun, the foids will be more open and willing to talk.
Especially when I'm leading the group or am the main one having the convos in the group, making them laugh and shit, the foids will be Especially receptive to me.
It's like they see you being an important part of this big fun social circle and they want to be in your life.
When I've been in this zone, I've had foids come up and talk to me unprovoked and be trying to be social with me.
 
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The Oofy doofy phenomenon is still looks based.
Oofy doofie tend to have high trust appearance. The women feel more secure in the relationship, since these men have few other options and are lower T.
 
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oofy doofy implies tall and white it is still blackpilled
 
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Tbh NT and social circle should be included under the S of LMS. Because it is somewhat of a big status
I've experienced this myself, when I'm among a big social circle where we are seen by foids around us having fun, the foids will be more open and willing to talk.
Especially when I'm leading the group or am the main one having the convos in the group, making them laugh and shit, the foids will be Especially receptive to me.
It's like they see you being an important part of this big fun social circle and they want to be in your life.
When I've been in this zone, I've had foids come up and talk to me unprovoked and be trying to be social with me.
Interesting. So it could be possible that oofy doofies dominate the social hierarchy via their charisma and ability to socialise ergo inevitably causes women to feel attraction towards them.

Sounds very bluepilled when worded like that though.
 
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Interesting. So it could be possible that oofy doofies dominate the social hierarchy via their charisma and ability to socialise ergo inevitably causes women to feel attraction towards them.
The difference in the way foids treat you when your in this zone is crazy, anyone that's experienced it can confirm.
For example, the only times I've had girls admit they liked me, warm approach me, or try to be near me, where when I was at the peak of my NT and was basically the leader/main social force in social circles. What I'm talking about is, Like if I wasn't there that day the social circle would be dead and boring, but when I am everyone's having a good time.

Compare this to now where I'm In college and have no social circle and talk to no one. I've had zero foids talk to me. Except very recently, where I gained a social circle again and could be seen being a leader having fun by foids. Now I had a foid come up and talk to me.

So think about that, 3 years of no social circle, literally zero foids talked to me. After only one week of having a social circle and being seen as a dominant figure in the group, I had foid talk to me. This shit is crazy difference
 
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The difference in the way foids treat you when your in this zone is crazy, anyone that's experienced it can confirm.
For example, the only times I've had girls admit they liked me, warm approach me, or try to be near me, where when I was at the peak of my NT and was basically the leader/main social force in social circles. What I'm talking about is, Like if I wasn't there that day the social circle would be dead and boring, but when I am everyone's having a good time.

Compare this to now where I'm In college and have no social circle and talk to no one. I've had zero foids talk to me. Except very recently, where I gained a social circle again and could be seen being a leader having fun by foids. Now I had a foid come up and talk to me.

So think about that, 3 years of no social circle, literally zero foids talked to me. After only one week of having a social circle and being seen as a dominant figure in the group, I had foid talk to me. This shit is crazy difference
Lifefuel, to an extent. But what do you think the cause of this is? What and why does being socially affluent lead to attraction or at least an "oofy doofy" LTR.
 
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Blackpill is that autistic, dwindling worldview where everything is either black or white. Of course it's nonsense. A lot of what people here would consider subhumans live far happier, more fulfilling lives than HTNs and chadlites on here do due to a myriad of factors that can't be pinned down to three syllables, that is PSL.
 
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How do you guys see a couple in public and start making assumptions?
Guy could provide for her, pay for everything for example
some women just want an ugly submissive dog with no options.... Seen it time and time again. she wants to control her life and all of the attention. not that complicated.
 
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The blackpill states that looks or LMS (looks, money, status) are required to have a successful dating and sex life and the majority of this being decided by one's inherent genetic quality. Subsequently the blackpill has a heaps of studies backing it, thousands of tinder experiments and for us who go outside have witnessed, first hand, how females treat chad.

However, I always see oofy doofy relationships when I'm out in public. These girls aren't dating chad, theyre dating guys who would be called subhuman and told to LDAR by members of this forum but are instead cuddling with their gf on a bench or holding hands walking down the street. I've seen some forum members equating the oofy doofy theory to the mere exposure effect or the woman wanting control over the relationship but doesn't this kind of conflate the black pill?

How do NT incels who are at least somewhat capable of socialising exist and looks be the most important factor in getting laid if you can rely on social circle game and just being around a girl enough until she falls in love despite you just being some average guy and not chad?
i think its because of the popularity of social media
my theory is that the average girl is incredibly insecure because of social media so when they are with a chad, they dont really want to be in a relationship since she will always be comparing herself with him, which makes her feel bad.
where as the nt ugly guy will be making her feel happy, not only through the obvious ways like being a simp n that, but also because she knows she is better looking.

i'd say the better looking u are the higher chance u have for a ONS but a lower chance for a LTR
dnr shit

oofie doofie exists ofc
because womin are so low
 
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Lifefuel, to an extent. But what do you think the cause of this is? What and why does being socially affluent lead to attraction or at least an "oofy doofy" LTR.
Well if we are talking in terms of evolutionary biology, like how foids like good looking tall big framed guys because those where the guys at the top of the food chain since the dawn of man.
Then the same could be said about these socially dominant and connected men.
Besides guys who where tall, big framed and good looking, the next most successful men would be the socially dominant and well connected guys.
These guys would have a higher chance of survival and reproduction because of their social dominance and influence
 
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Well if we are talking in terms of evolutionary biology, like how foids like good looking tall big framed guys because those where the guys at the top of the food chain since the dawn of man.
Then the same could be said about these socially dominant and connected men.
Besides guys who where tall, big framed and good looking, the next most successful men would be the socially dominant and well connected guys.
These guys would have a higher chance of survival and reproduction because of their social dominance and influence
So ... Just be dominant theory? Don't necessarily treat your social circle as a fun time to hangout with friends but instead a battlefield where you control the pawns and have power over everything and everyone with the intent of a female hopefully noticing this and developing attraction towards you.
 
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So ... Just be dominant theory? Don't necessarily treat your social circle as a fun time to hangout with friends but instead a battlefield where you control the pawns and have power over everything and everyone with the intent of a female hopefully noticing this and developing attraction towards you.
Not necessarily. When iw as doing this I wasn't aware of any of the blackpill or this social manipulation stuff.
I was just being natural and having a fun time.
In the foids Brian they see you being a major part of this fun group, and they want to be in your life.
It's like the equivalent of them finding out a guy has alot of instagram followers
 
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In the foids Brian they see you being a major part of this fun group, and they want to be in your life.
And opposed to the foid wanting to just become your friend, sexual attraction and a relationship instead develops and there you have it. Oofy doofy - but this makes no sense to me, I can't comprehend why the sexual attraction is even there if they just "want to be around the fun guy"
 
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And opposed to the foid wanting to just become your friend, sexual attraction and a relationship instead develops and there you have it. Oofy doofy - but this makes no sense to me, I can't comprehend why the sexual attraction is even there if they just "want to be around the fun guy"
Tbh I quess the best way to think about it is in terms of evolutionary biology.
Just like the way the foids are wired to be attracted to big tall good looking guys due to evolution, they are also wired to be attracted to socially successful guys.
I get what you mean, in a fully blackpilled reality the foids would want to be friends with these guys at best, to benefit from their social success.
But in reality it's not working on a purely blackpilled reality
 
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How do you guys see a couple in public and start making assumptions?
Guy could provide for her, pay for everything for example
Not in College and HS. They might pay up for dates and sometimes give some gifts but that’s it.
 
the average girl is incredibly insecure because of social media so when they are with a chad, they dont really want to be in a relationship since she will always be comparing herself with him, which makes her feel bad.
where as the nt ugly guy will be making her feel happy, not only through the obvious ways like being a simp n that, but also because she knows she is better looking.
 
The black pill mainly affects deathnics and manlets. Oofy doofy theory and JBW are highly correlated with each other. As oofy doofy is just above avg height to tall white LTNs with nerd phenos having girlfriends.
They aren’t even tall lol
 
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my manlet ltn black friend had a white htb girlfriend for 2 years and then broke up and he never been in a relationship since then just be first is real tbh now he cant even get a ltb
 
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The black pill mainly affects deathnics and manlets. Oofy doofy theory and JBW are highly correlated with each other. As oofy doofy is just above avg height to tall white LTNs with nerd phenos having girlfriends.
 
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they are also wired to be attracted to socially successful guys.
I see.

This is probably the reason why it's so hard to get laid after you leave college considering your social circle essentially demises into nothing.
 
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OOFY DOOFY is just NTpill and JBW

NTpill is insane, i made my own harem with it
but if chad comes along its over for oofy doofys
 
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The Oofy doofy phenomenon is still looks based.
Oofy doofie tend to have high trust appearance. The women feel more secure in the relationship, since these men have few other options and are lower T.
Brilliant point, I have high trust eye area but downturned mouth but I smile alot to look high trust as much as possible
 
Black pill is cope for getting muh girlfriend legit for sexual attraction.
 
Its known and prominent fact. Women want to be properly fucked by gl man once or twice in a month. In 99% of the time you spend time in work, sleep, cooking, vacations etc. Women have low sex drive
 
Why do girls love the ‘dad bod’? In a viral post back in 2015 by Mackenzie Pearson, many women think they are a keeper. A hot body goes only that far for attracting females for sex, but for women looking for a long-term relationship, many say the ones with the average body win.

Another thing is women looking for ltr partner who is cuck and wont beat them and nanny their kids.
 

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