How can you end up high inhib and introverted when you are High Tier Normie?

[Deleted member 275]

Don't get it tbh. You can do whatever you want, nobody will ever say bad shit about you, nobody will ever bully you, you will always find social belonging wherever you go.
Girls will smile at you and show empathy.
Teachers and adults treat you well and let you get away with anything.

How the fuck do you end up high inhib, introverted or without social circle when you are good-looking since you were young?

Just fucking lol tbh

 

[Amnesia]

>still thinking looks/social treatment develop ur personality

ur personality is absolutely anchored from birth it can never deviate much from baseline and ur core personality traits are there from the beginning and never change

Also its really fucking annoying and normie when ppl look at introversion as a flaw to be fixed rather than just a different type than extroverts

 

[WontStopNorwooding]

strict parents maybe?

 

[Deleted member 275]

>still thinking looks/social treatment develop ur personality

ur personality is absolutely anchored from birth it can never deviate much from baseline and ur core personality traits are there from the beginning and never change

Also its really fucking annoying and normie when ppl look at introversion as a flaw to be fixed rather than just a different type than extroverts

I went from extroverted+confident as a kid with big social circles, to introverted autist that never feels like I belong. All because of different treatment due to being ugly.

Spoiler

As a kid going to family gatherings with my family, I would walk up to random adults and start random serious conversations with them. I would invite girls to play games at my house, never even considering the possibility of rejection or even caring at all.

Girls would bully me all the time because I looked like shit. I would bully them back or beat them up.
Guys would bully me all the time because I was fat and ugly. I would beat them up.
Teachers treated me like shit and constantly singled me out for punishment. They would even sabotage me academically and give my lower level educational advice. I kept going anyways and graduated with top 1% results.
My parents treated me like an ugly unwanted piece of shit child that is only good for studying.
I ended up as a 23yo KHHV and I can't even say I missed out on opportunities or chances at all, I literally never had even a single girl show any interest in me. So what opportunities did I even miss?

In the end all of this a

fuck this shit story dnr who the fuc kcares its over

 

[Uglybrazilian]

Nigga sometimes I get nervous around girls I just fucked, its not rational tbh the girl simply allowed me to put my dick inside of her and still I feel nervous and shy around her, its a literal mental illness tbh

 

[Deleted member 275]

Nigga sometimes I get nervous around girls I just fucked, its not rational tbh the girl simply allowed me to put my dick inside of her and still I feel nervous and shy around her, its a literal mental illness tbh

The first girl I fucked when I was a virgin, which she knew beforehand, threw up a huge tantrum afterwards. Complaining that I didn't make her feel sexy and it was 'awkward' for her. Meanwhile she legit just laid flat on her back and told me to 'take her'. Legit first time I even saw a woman naked jfl.

Since that experience I don't think I will ever feel confident again with women and sex. Their expectations are ridiculously high and I don't feel like I will ever be good enough. I've been using cialis with chicks ever since, even though I don't even have ED. Sex is a fucking joke at this point.

I realize this is a cuck mindset and the next step is to tell your 'wife' to fuck other guys (just fucking lol its over), but out of dignity I would rather stop interacting with women all together. Women made me mentally ill and I should go ER on them for what they did to me. Not even my mother will be spared.

 

[Deleted member 275]

strict parents maybe?

parents treat good-looking kids much better though.

I wouldn't be suprised if child abuse was very rare with attractive children, and quite common with ugly children

 

[AlexAP]

The first girl I fucked when I was a virgin, which she knew beforehand, threw up a huge tantrum afterwards. Complaining that I didn't make her feel sexy and it was 'awkward' for her. Meanwhile she legit just laid flat on her back and told me to 'take her'. Legit first time I even saw a woman naked jfl.

Since that experience I don't think I will ever feel confident again with women and sex. Their expectations are ridiculously high and I don't feel like I will ever be good enough. I've been using cialis with chicks ever since, even though I don't even have ED. Sex is a fucking joke at this point.

I realize this is a cuck mindset and the next step is to tell your 'wife' to fuck other guys (just fucking lol its over), but out of dignity I would rather stop interacting with women all together. Women made me mentally ill and I should go ER on them for what they did to me. Not even my mother will be spared.

Honestly just move. You clearly have a trauma in the Netherlands, in other countries you will be treated better.

 

[Deleted member 275]

Honestly just move. You clearly have a trauma in the Netherlands, in other countries you will be treated better.

You think women are different anywhere else? If anything I learned from communities like this is that almost every guy anywhere on the world has similar experiences with women as I do in the netherlands.

And it makes sense, in the end women are all the same biologically and in terms of instincts. My own mother grew up in the Sovjet Union/Warsaw Pact (Poland was part of it during that time) and moved to the netherlands with my dad when she was 26 years old.

She is the worst type of women you can even imagine. So much for eastern europe and non-western, 'non-degenerate' women being any better tbh. It's not even that my mother is such a horrible wife that scarred me, it's that my dad apparantly thought he couldn't do any better, didn't deserve any better. Because he stayed with her despite her being this awful. That immediately tells me my dad has always been incel aswell.

At this point I am more thinking of living a life completely void of female interaction, perhaps human interaction in general tbh. Not sure what a life like that would look like and what you get meaning out of in such a situation. But I don't see a healthy alternative anymore.

 

[Uglybrazilian]

The first girl I fucked when I was a virgin, which she knew beforehand, threw up a huge tantrum afterwards. Complaining that I didn't make her feel sexy and it was 'awkward' for her. Meanwhile she legit just laid flat on her back and told me to 'take her'. Legit first time I even saw a woman naked jfl.

Since that experience I don't think I will ever feel confident again with women and sex. Their expectations are ridiculously high and I don't feel like I will ever be good enough. I've been using cialis with chicks ever since, even though I don't even have ED. Sex is a fucking joke at this point.

I realize this is a cuck mindset and the next step is to tell your 'wife' to fuck other guys (just fucking lol its over), but out of dignity I would rather stop interacting with women all together. Women made me mentally ill and I should go ER on them for what they did to me. Not even my mother will be spared.

Bro, calm down, we all have bad experiences tbh, there was a time in which I couldnt get hard with a girl and She ofc completely trashed me bc of that. Just imagine the fuckin trauma. But I got over it. Time after time you'll get more experienced, thats how it works, dont let girls put you down, thats exactly what they want, they want you to feel bad, I had some traumatizing experiences with women but my actual self refuse to let a girl make me feel less or something, Im just a guy trying to improve at life

 

[MostGLSlayer]

Abuse from bad/strict parents and jeolous peers sabotaging self esteem...

 

[Uglybrazilian]

Honestly just move. You clearly have a trauma in the Netherlands, in other countries you will be treated better.

Tbh that could work for him

 

[ChadFucksYourOneitis]

Probably a late bloomer.

 

[Nothinginparticular]

Don't get it tbh. You can do whatever you want, nobody will ever say bad shit about you, nobody will ever bully you, you will always find social belonging wherever you go.
Girls will smile at you and show empathy.
Teachers and adults treat you well and let you get away with anything.

How the fuck do you end up high inhib, introverted or without social circle when you are good-looking since you were young?

Just fucking lol tbh

I've noticed that the looksmax forums are literally infested with those exact kinds of people and it pisses me off so much. Pretty boy twinks literally get the best treatment from society (girls are friendlier to them, guys less likely to fight them, older people nurture them, etc.) and yet they still wind up shooting up schools like autistic retards or bitching about how horrible their lives are. Meanwhile the "ugly fat neckbeard" stereotype still runs rampant, even though I've wtinessed more twinkish types act like neckbeards than those who actually look like neckbeards.

Pic related is unironically what the average internet doomer who hates his life looks like.

 

[mulattomaxxer]

Introversion/extroversion is assigned for you at birth. I think an extrovert can become act introverted through poor experiences but this is uncommon.

I am a normie (self rated), not a high tier normie. I got treated well by some teachers. Amongst peers I was a bit of a background character. Completely invisible to women during highschool. Although I barely interacted with women. Luckily I grew to be tall so I got some attention when I was 16+.

Ever since I was 5-6 I have always been a scared person, attempting to seek peoples approval. Eventually this lead to my social recession because I didn't want to have to please people all the time.