how come I don’t know what to talk about

[Vermilioncore]

irl I just have nothing to say and/or don’t care much to talk or say anything
I either mention the weather/how the day is going/ “it’s been a long day I’m tired” etc.

I never really enjoyed speaking ever since I was little. Not because I’m mentally ill or autistic…it’s just because I’m solitary and enjoy talking to myself instead

 

[tasmanian devil]

same, when people try to talk to me there is this emptiness in my head. its not really that im afraid to talk but i literally dont know what to say. people always stop talking to me after a while because they think im annoyed by them

 

[mug]

you have to talk about the other person

 

[Deleted member 32485]

because I’m solitary and enjoy talking to myself instead

 

[Vermilioncore]

same, when people try to talk to me there is this emptiness in my head. its not really that im afraid to talk but i literally dont know what to say. people always stop talking to me after a while because they think im annoyed by them

Same I just don’t care to ask them things and don’t care to talk about anything. It’s almost like I’m tired of them even if I just met them

 

[Vermilioncore]

you have to talk about the other person

I don’t care about the other person unless they’re family or someone close to me but if it’s some random coworker or some random person I don’t give a fuck about anything they have to say

 

[PLA1092]

Result of being a shut in subhuman with 0 notable experiences or milestones in life who rots on a schizophrenic incel forum in his spare time. Sadly without those milestones you lose valuable opportunities and knowledge that gives you things to talk about. Just like me lmao

 

[mug]

Like for me its a mix of I have autism and i know social standards makes me supposed to talk to the other person but im a narcissist so if you boring i wont talk to you because i know people whos conversation is more interesting than every word another persons ever said

 

[mug]

I don’t care about the other person unless they’re family or someone close to me but if it’s some random coworker or some random person I don’t give a fuck about anything they have to say

Then thats why you cant conversate, ill pretend to care but i really dont you just have to ask them shit

 

[Samsepioler]

do you have autism?

 

[Vermilioncore]

Result of being a shut in subhuman with 0 notable experiences or milestones in life who rots on a schizophrenic incel forum in his spare time. Sadly without those milestones you lose valuable opportunities and knowledge that gives you things to talk about. Just like me lmao

But even when I was 7 years old I didn’t wanna talk to other. I just played toys or kept busy on my own. I think I always had an aversion to people since I was born

 

[Samsepioler]

i have autism, i dont talk to people and cant talk to people im awkward as fuck

 

[Vermilioncore]

Then thats why you cant conversate, ill pretend to care but i really dont you just have to ask them shit

But I don’t wanna pretend it’s tiring I’d rather just nod and say the bare minimum to get them to shut up and go away

 

[scrunchables]

you have to talk about the other person

Pretty much. Ask them questions about how they're doing, what they've been up to, what they learned, and also find ways to compliment them. Also make them laugh and feel happy around you. But balance it out with talking about yourself and your "situation" (if it's bad make up good stuff on the fly), don't go into autistic detail on stuff but seem confident in what you like and how you're leading your own life.

 

[PLA1092]

But even when I was 7 years old I didn’t wanna talk to other. I just played toys or kept busy on my own. I think I always had an aversion to people since I was born

Well yeah you have autism like most of the spergs here. Sort of an assumed thing here with anyone who's amassed over 30k posts

 

[Vermilioncore]

Well yeah you have autism like most of the spergs here.

Na it’s not autism it’s just I don’t like people and don’t find it fun or entertaining to talk to them. I don’t wanna know about others. I only wanna know about myself so I ask myself questions and laugh at my own jokes and have dinner with me.

 

[mug]

But I don’t wanna pretend it’s tiring I’d rather just nod and say the bare minimum to get them to shut up and go away

Its fine to do that I even do it sometimes, I really am only attracted to interesting or genuine people to be talking to / friends

 

[Vermilioncore]

Its fine to do that I even do it sometimes, I really am only attracted to interesting or genuine people to be talking to / friends

no one is interesting in my eyes

 

[mug]

no one is interesting in my eyes

Most people are boring anyways you gotta remember that you treat everyone like a side charcter and they will come to you

 

[Deleted member 20399]

Na it’s not autism it’s just I don’t like people and don’t find it fun or entertaining to talk to them. I don’t wanna know about others. I only wanna know about myself so I ask myself questions and laugh at my own jokes and have dinner with me.

It’s not autism bro trust me. Playing with action figures instead of going out on the weekend is totally NT!

 

[Vermilioncore]

It’s not autism bro trust me. Playing with action figures instead of going out on the weekend is totally NT!

Na I’m just the main character blade runner tote shitijnjt

 

[Deleted member 58285]

irl I just have nothing to say and/or don’t care much to talk or say anything
I either mention the weather/how the day is going/ “it’s been a long day I’m tired” etc.

I never really enjoyed speaking ever since I was little. Not because I’m mentally ill or autistic…it’s just because I’m solitary and enjoy talking to myself instead

Same I just say hmmm and nod my head