How come I get iois in person but hardly any matches on tinder

[Yoyo2233]

Title. I get iois in person even numbers some make outs etc yet tinder I hardly get any matches. I’m 6’1

 

[Hozay]

Tinder is degenerate, why do you care, do you think you're gonna find a loyal wife on tinder or something, LMAO

 

[johncruz12345]

Cuz tinder only looks.

 

[brainded]

The cashier saying hi to you is not an ioi

 

[johncruz12345]

Tinder is degenerate, why do you care, do you think you're gonna find a loyal wife on tinder or something, LMAO

Do you think your gonna find a loyal wife at all?

 

[Deleted member 9699]

your mom doesnt count man

 

[Yoyo2233]

The cashier saying hi to you is not an ioi

Lmao inknow not that kind of ioi. Women will look stare hop out of there cars near me smile etc

 

[Littleboy]

Mogs me to the galaxy Zeta578965 & back.

I get sweet fuck all IRL & online.

 

[Yoyo2233]

Cuz tinder only looks.

Then why am I getting iois in person

 

[Hozay]

Do you think your gonna find a loyal wife at all?

 

[Yoyo2233]

Tinder is degenerate, why do you care, do you think you're gonna find a loyal wife on tinder or something, LMAO

I mean shit If your good looking you’ll get matches. Idk though I get iois in person women will touch and smile call me sexy etc I don’t get it

 

[Hozay]

I mean shit If your good looking you’ll get matches. Idk though I get iois in person women will touch and smile call me sexy etc I don’t get it

You're unphotogenic as fuck then

 

[Yoyo2233]

You're unphotogenic as fuck then

This could be it. Is this actually a problem? Thought good looking men are photogenic

 

[shibo]

Maybe you look better irl than through photos

 

[Hozay]

This could be it. Is this actually a problem? Thought good looking men are photogenic

It is it. It's over for you in photos.

 

[Yoyo2233]

Maybe you look better irl than through photos

How is that even possible

 

[johncruz12345]

How is that even possible

I also like to think that I look better irl, than in photos but its probably cope.

 

[Deleted member 8846]

I caught this chick crying in public at the train station yday. And she looked at me, like twice. At me, specifically it was a crowded place. The fuck does she do that for? I'm an ugly fuck why am I getting girls looking at me fuck this gay earth

 

[Hozay]

How is that even possible

you tell me

 

[Hozay]

I caught this chick crying in public at the train station the other day. And she looked at me, like twice. At me, specifically it was a crowded place. The fuck does she do that for? I'm an ugly fuck why am I getting girls looking at me fuck this gay earth

Pray.

 

[Deleted member 5393]

U are probably imagining things...

post a pic of urself or this thread is tales from the basement

 

[johncruz12345]

I caught this chick crying in public at the train station the other day. And she looked at me, like twice. At me, specifically it was a crowded place. The fuck does she do that for? I'm an ugly fuck why am I getting girls looking at me fuck this gay earth

Thought you were gonna take advantage of her emotional weakness and rape her.

 

[johncruz12345]

I caught this chick crying in public at the train station the other day. And she looked at me, like twice. At me, specifically it was a crowded place. The fuck does she do that for? I'm an ugly fuck why am I getting girls looking at me fuck this gay earth

Just joking lol

 

[Deleted member 5891]

Lmao inknow not that kind of ioi. Women will look stare hop out of there cars near me smile etc

On what drugs are you brah

I want them too

 

[Deleted member 6273]

Title. I get iois in person even numbers some make outs etc yet tinder I hardly get any matches. I’m 6’1

You are either imagining it or have absolute dogshit pictures probably due to a trash camera.

 

[Deleted member 5891]

I caught this chick crying in public at the train station the other day. And she looked at me, like twice. At me, specifically it was a crowded place. The fuck does she do that for? I'm an ugly fuck why am I getting girls looking at me fuck this gay earth

She was thinking no matter how shitty my life is at least I don't look like this subhuman

 

[St. Wristcel]

Autismo

 

[Deleted member 6908]

A professional photographers' answer on Quora:

In my experience, the main reason for the difference between our true image and the photographic image is the lens. Most lenses distort the image, and this distortion is extreme in cheap cameras or mobile phone cameras. This distortion allows for a more panoramic view, but you pay the price of distorting the image. Some people will look good because the distorted version of their image results in an appealing image. It is still distorted and far removed from the original, but it just so happens that the distortion is pleasing to the eye. Cases where someone complains that they look bad in photographs or that they are not photogenic is usually because their distorted image is not appealing to the eye. To prove this is true, you can use a lens with very little distortion, such as the Canon 85mm f/1.2L. The closer the number is to 1, the less distortion you get. In this case the lens has a value of 1.2, very close to 1, and it’s a lens especially thought for portraiture. The only problem is that such a lens costs in the region of $2000. That is only for the lens. You need a good camera to attach it to.

Then there is a secondary source of distortion which is worth mentioning, which are the flash lights on cheap cameras or mobile phones. They are completely wrong in the sense that they project frontal light, which results in squashing the image like pancake. Again, some people’s faces when distorted in this way result in a not too displeasing image. Lighting properly a face to take a photograph is an art unto itself, not to be left in the hands of instagrammers or other people armed with a mobile phone and a flash.

 

[Deleted member 8846]

She was thinking no matter how shitty my life is at least I don't look like this subhuman

 

[Deleted member 6908]

A professional photographers' answer on Quora:

In my experience, the main reason for the difference between our true image and the photographic image is the lens. Most lenses distort the image, and this distortion is extreme in cheap cameras or mobile phone cameras. This distortion allows for a more panoramic view, but you pay the price of distorting the image. Some people will look good because the distorted version of their image results in an appealing image. It is still distorted and far removed from the original, but it just so happens that the distortion is pleasing to the eye. Cases where someone complains that they look bad in photographs or that they are not photogenic is usually because their distorted image is not appealing to the eye. To prove this is true, you can use a lens with very little distortion, such as the Canon 85mm f/1.2L. The closer the number is to 1, the less distortion you get. In this case the lens has a value of 1.2, very close to 1, and it’s a lens especially thought for portraiture. The only problem is that such a lens costs in the region of $2000. That is only for the lens. You need a good camera to attach it to.

Then there is a secondary source of distortion which is worth mentioning, which are the flash lights on cheap cameras or mobile phones. They are completely wrong in the sense that they project frontal light, which results in squashing the image like pancake. Again, some people’s faces when distorted in this way result in a not too displeasing image. Lighting properly a face to take a photograph is an art unto itself, not to be left in the hands of instagrammers or other people armed with a mobile phone and a flash.

Saying all that^ post your photo.

I too look better irl.

If you have subtle flaws which only partially show irl, then you can bet they'll be prominent in pictures.

On Tinder now they are allowing you to put up short gif type videos.

Another thing is tinder is now a sleazy hookup app. All these mediocre/average looking girls tart themselves up to try and look like they are 7+ in the looks the department, when they're not. They get validated when Chad/Tyrone/Chang/Chirag selects them and tells them how sexy they look and is making efforts to hookup with them. Ontop of that it is a way of having sex with somebody significantly more attractive than they are and someone they would not feel comfortable in a relationship with for fear of cheating.

So while these 5s, 6s and may be even 7s irl are looking at you and finding you attractive, if given the chance to upgrade from a semi good looking cute guy to an 8+ Chad, they will take it every day of the week. You're also likely cute/pretty or whatever and don't look like you could trouble the way she walks the next day. You probably look long term relationship material. Not fling stuff.

 

[piscicide]

Tinder is degenerate, why do you care, do you think you're gonna find a loyal wife on tinder or something, LMAO

Nobody goes on tinder to get a loyal wife, the go on tinder to get laid

 

[Deleted member 8706]

theres only extremely hypergamous whore on tinder

 

[Deleted member 1127]

ioi = p in v.

 

[Deleted member 8919]

There is no point in having tinder unless you are gigachad

 

[randomuser2407]

Because you need to meet some very difficult requirements for Tinder:

1) You have to be 6 feet tall or taller (and put it in your bio)
2) You have to be at least slightly muscular with a six pack and cool shirtless pics on the beach or at the lake to prove it
3) You have to be above average in your face (good eye area, good thin nose, nice mouth, strong jawline)
4) You need a thick neck
5) You need quality pictures that were taken with a good camera (the latest iphone's camera or DSLR camera)
6) Each picture has to be different and set in a different location
7) You need to be able to pull off a seductive stare, not a cold serial killer/autistic stare
8) Your style needs to be cooler than the average man (look like a guy who gets laid easily)
9) You need to look like you're in your mid to late 20s (the only men who can pull of the baby face are the Chad pretty boys)
10) You need a cool group picture with friends (and preferably hot girls to boost social proof)
11) You have to be super picky but not too picky (the algorithm will not show you profile if you swipe too often or for too long)

Meanwhile the only requirements to succeed in real life are:

1) You have to go out during the day to places where there are lots of young women
2) You test whether they like you through eye contact and only approach those who hold it for longer than 2 seconds to maximize your success rate
3) You limit yourself to indirect approaches to maximize your success rate either by asking for help about a product that you are searching for or by asking whether a place or product is good and by going into details about it. Then you can shift the conversation onto you and close by asking her out for a date.

On a final note, I must say this, many guys think that no women ever check them out but they are wrong. Often times, we have blinders on for those girls because we are only thinking about the hottest women, so we don't notice when the ugly girls check us out. The longer a girl maintains eye contact with you, the most likely she is to want to have sex with you. So even if your standards are too high, you'll miss out on some great easy opportunities where you could have gotten laid for almost no effort.

The benefit of Tinder is that it's convenient and doesn't require you to put any effort into an approach, the biggest downside of Tinder however is that most men don't stand a chance on Tinder no matter how much they looksmax, but everyone can succeed in real life if their standards are low enough and they know how to approach women and where to find them during the day.

 

[Yoyo2233]

theres only extremely hypergamous whore on tinder

I think this is the problem. All the women on there are hypergamous as shit

 

[Deleted member 7580]

What type of pics are you using ? Close up pics (selfies) can make your jaw look narrow, selfies while looking down can fuck up your eye area so maybe you’re using bad pics

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

Do you think your gonna find a loyal wife at all?

Yeah in the kindergarden

 

[randomuser2407]

I think this is the problem. All the women on there are hypergamous as shit

It's because they get bombarded with hundreds of messages every day. So they have a very wide variety of men to choose from. However, even though online dating is very popular. If you approach girls during the day and they are attracted to you and available, they will trust you more than the guys that texted her online because she has already met you in person, so if she liked the conversation, she'll remember you, not for very long but long enough to ask her out the next day. So if you want to skip straight to the head of the line, approach the girl in real life. And if she rejects you, it never would have happened in the first place. Also, like I said before, through eye contact alone you can tell which ones are attracted to you.

 

[Yoyo2233]

It's because they get bombarded with hundreds of messages every day. So they have a very wide variety of men to choose from. However, even though online dating is very popular. If you approach girls during the day and they are attracted to you and available, they will trust you more than the guys that texted her online because she has already met you in person, so if she liked the conversation, she'll remember you, not for very long but long enough to ask her out the next day. So if you want to skip straight to the head of the line, approach the girl in real life. And if she rejects you, it never would have happened in the first place. Also, like I said before, through eye contact alone you can tell which ones are attracted to you.

What just girls looking in your direction and shit? How can I tell through eye contact? So is it normal for attractive men to not get matches on tinder?

 

[stay coping]

You don't get actual IOIs if this is the case. Drop the ego. You will stop imagining shit.

 

[Yoyo2233]

You don't get actual IOIs if this is the case. Drop the ego. You will stop imagining shit.

Why do women follow me and smile at the me then?

 

[stay coping]

Why do women follow me and smile at the me then?

That's called being polite and not being socially awkward. It's rude to just stare at someone so they will usually smile to make it less awkward. Just because someone looks at you for one millisecond doesn't mean they want to fuck you as well.

Drop the ego my man, this is comedy tier how every dude thinks he's getting IOIs every day. If you're getting nada on tinder then you aren't getting any IOIs in real life.

 

[EckhartTollemaxx]

Irl you compete with men in the same bar or social circle. On tinder you compete with everyone: male models, celebrities, gigachads.

 

[Yoyo2233]

That's called being polite and not being socially awkward. It's rude to just stare at someone so they will usually smile to make it less awkward. Just because someone looks at you for one millisecond doesn't mean they want to fuck you as well.

Drop the ego my man, this is comedy tier how every dude thinks he's getting IOIs every day. If you're getting nada on tinder then you aren't getting any IOIs in real life.

I mean shit I got a girls number the other day and she said nice meeting my hottie I even asked her if she had a boyfriend so I gave her the option

 

[stay coping]

I mean shit I got a girls number the other day and she said nice meeting my hottie I even asked her if she had a boyfriend so I gave her the option

No sex, no relevance.

 

[Yoyo2233]

No sex, no relevance.

This is true

 

[Yoyo2233]

No sex, no relevance.

So you’re telling me some women will literally pull there pants down for a dude without him saying shit?

 

[stay coping]

So you’re telling me some women will literally pull there pants down for a dude without him saying shit?

Not to that extreme unless you're giga Chad lol, but the whole teehee you're so handsome/cute or whatever is useless bullshit that means nothing and isn't likely true if there's no closer. So referencing that is pointless.

But, if you're dealing with a slut, it's alot faster than you think if you are agressive and she is attracted

 

[Subhuman trash]

Title. I get iois in person even numbers some make outs etc yet tinder I hardly get any matches. I’m 6’1

Iois are cope