How come I get iois in person but hardly any matches on tinder

[AlmostPerfect]

Its all about your pics and bio. PM your pics if you want and I can tell you what to change.

 

[Deleted member 8765]

Don't trust what these idiots are saying, they're just trying to destroy your self confidence so you stay just like them. Like I said, it's normal if you can't get matches, women have too many options with online dating but in real life, most men don't even dare to approach women during the day so on the rare occasion where it happens, she is definitely going to remember it and talk about it with her friends and family.

Insecure incels will tell you that women would approach a hot guy but they are wrong. Women never make the first move most of the time even if you're hot. If this wasn't the case, if those incels were really right, then girls who are many points below you would approach you, but clearly it does not happen. That's because most girls are very shy in person around strangers and if they want to create opportunities, they'll use online dating.

But make no mistake, although girls have hundreds of options on Tinder, they'll reject the vast majority not because they have options but because most of the men on there are considered to be low quality, that is because on Tinder, she can only judge you based on your pictures. But in real life, she can judge you based on other factors such as your height, your vibe/personality, your self confidence and how you look in person. Also, it's not hard to be visible in real life, you just have to go out, but on Tinder, your ELO score can be ruined by so many factors.

Also, yes you can tell if they like you through eye contact. If they hold eye contact with you for more than 2 seconds, they are very attracted to you and if you talk to them with a good indirect opener, it's nearly 100% guaranteed that she likes you and you don't get rejected.

If girls don't look at you at all even after you spend some time checking them out, then they're just not available. And if they look at you but only for half a second before looking away, they are available but not necessarily attracted to you but wanted to see who was checking them out. Most of the time, a girl will never look at you if she has a boyfriend, that is because she doesn't want to get approached.

TL ; DR: The trick to succeeding in day game is to only approach the ones who make eye contact with you for 2 seconds or more and stick mostly to indirect openers, especially when you are in a risky location with security guards. A direct opener could get you cockblocked, but an indirect opener will always make you go under the radar. If you want a more detailed version of everything I have said here with more great advice, I recommend you read the book where I got all this information, it's Game by Roosh V, it was published in 2018 and so it is updated to match with the current #metoo hostile social situation with talking to women. You can get the book for free here from zlibrary: https://b-ok.cc/book/5206813/0e94cf