How complicated are social interactions really?

[disillusioned]

People treat social behavior and communication as if it's somehow this really deep and complicated thing. But is it really? In terms of dialog, mannerism etc are human social interactions (even among the "higher" classes) really THAT complicated or deep at all???

 

[stuckneworleans]

No, they're just a display of genetics and acting in accordance to each other's genetic package

 

[jackthenerd]

It's pretty basic stuff, but PUA's try to make it as advanced as possible so they can sell you something. Just be confident, good natural eye contact, have a good genetic voice, lower your filter before talking (assuming it's in a "fun" setting, and not a business one). That's pretty much it tbh.

 

[Deleted member 6400]

 

[balding17yomanletcel]

jk banger thred

 

[lookismfugee]

nothing insane. if they like u tbh u can say retarded shit and they will laugh anyway so u dont feel bad or to even please u. tbh this is pretty good way to test what u are like from someones view

 

[deer]

nothing insane. if they like u tbh u can say retarded shit and they will laugh anyway so u dont feel bad or to even please u. tbh this is pretty good way to test what u are like from someones view

i had to read that 5 times to understand it

 

[lookismfugee]

i had to read that 5 times to understand it

man its not first time im being told that

 

[Deleted member 7079]

People treat social behavior and communication as if it's somehow this really deep and complicated thing. But is it really? In terms of dialog, mannerism etc are human social interactions (even among the "higher" classes) really THAT complicated or deep at all???

For us autists or anyone who has been living in social isolation for years, social interaction is like rocket science, brain surgery, etc. But the truth is that for NT people who've led healthy social lives from day one out, it comes as naturally as breathing or sleeping for them. Such is life.

 

[Gaia262]

No, they're just a display of genetics and acting in accordance to each other's genetic package

Couldn't be said any better.