How did you all come to accept that it's over?

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How did you manage to kind of give up and just focus on other things?
 
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you can never escape son
 
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after a lot of time youll become tired and look in the mirror without squinting or other frauds.

youll realize its trully over and you are not desired by any girl

then youll logically come to the conclusion "why should i care I have no chance at all with any girl"

then your fear of being judged dissapears. you just dont care at all anymore.

you decide to do what interests you and makes you happy
 
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The problem is that I don't see any potential in myself; my prey eyes are bad, and my jaw isn't very good.
Never over:BASEDCIGAR: Work hard until you archive what you desire
 
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after a lot of time youll become tired and look in the mirror without squinting or other frauds.

youll realize its trully over and you are not desired by any girl

then youll logically come to the conclusion "why should i care I have no chance at all with any girl"

then your fear of being judged dissapears. you just dont care at all anymore.

you decide to do what interests you and makes you happy
I think I'm on the right track.
 
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The problem is that I don't see any potential in myself; my prey eyes are bad, and my jaw isn't very good.
Don’t stress it too much, bro. None of us start perfect. My eye area isn’t ideal either – my PFL is kinda short and my brows aren’t exactly top tier. But instead of doomposting about it, I started doing something. I’m using minoxidil, a lash serum, fixing my grooming, learning about bone structure, posture, all that. And I’m already seeing small changes.
It’s not magic. It’s just effort over time.
There’s so much information out there now. Way more than guys had 10 or 20 years ago. If you actually research, experiment carefully and stay consistent, you can improve a lot. Most people quit before they even start.
It’s never “over.” That mindset is the real enemy. As long as you’re alive and willing to put in work, you have options. Slow progress is still progress. Stack small wins and you’ll look back in a year and barely recognize yourself.:BASEDCIGAR:
 
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Relaxa, cara. Ninguém começa perfeito. A área dos meus olhos também não é ideal – minha linha papilar inferior é meio curta e minhas sobrancelhas não são lá essas coisas. Mas em vez de ficar me lamentando, comecei a fazer alguma coisa. Estou usando minoxidil, um sérum para cílios, melhorando minha rotina de cuidados com os olhos, aprendendo sobre estrutura óssea, postura, essas coisas. E já estou vendo pequenas mudanças.
Não é mágica. É apenas esforço ao longo do tempo.
Hoje em dia existe muita informação disponível. Muito mais do que os homens tinham há 10 ou 20 anos. Se você pesquisar, experimentar com cuidado e for consistente, pode melhorar bastante. A maioria das pessoas desiste antes mesmo de começar.
Nunca "acaba". Essa mentalidade é a verdadeira inimiga. Enquanto você estiver vivo e disposto a se esforçar, você tem opções. Progresso lento ainda é progresso. Acumule pequenas vitórias e, daqui a um ano, você olhará para trás e mal se reconhecerá.:BASEDCIGAR:
wow,this is pure motivation thanks
 
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Don’t stress it too much, bro. None of us start perfect. My eye area isn’t ideal either – my PFL is kinda short and my brows aren’t exactly top tier. But instead of doomposting about it, I started doing something. I’m using minoxidil, a lash serum, fixing my grooming, learning about bone structure, posture, all that. And I’m already seeing small changes.
It’s not magic. It’s just effort over time.
There’s so much information out there now. Way more than guys had 10 or 20 years ago. If you actually research, experiment carefully and stay consistent, you can improve a lot. Most people quit before they even start.
It’s never “over.” That mindset is the real enemy. As long as you’re alive and willing to put in work, you have options. Slow progress is still progress. Stack small wins and you’ll look back in a year and barely recognize yourself.:BASEDCIGAR:
But I think it's really over.
 

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wow,this is pure motivation thanks
No worry if you have any questions ask me or @ me in any of your question threads bhai:BASEDCIGAR: Good luck and see you in the htn club:soy:
 
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But I think it's really over.
Right now I would say that you are ltn but with Hella work you may be able to reach hmtn to lhtn. And you were sadly right about your jaw this is your biggest failo rn but fixable. Your eye are isn't even that bad I'd say a good place to start. First off all how old are you and what are you already doing
 
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Right now I would say that you are ltn but with Hella work you may be able to reach hmtn to lhtn. And you were sadly right about your jaw this is your biggest failo rn but fixable. Your eye are isn't even that bad I'd say a good place to start. First off all how old are you and what are you already doing
I'm 15 years old, I'm wearing braces, I don't know if that helps, I also do taekwondo 3 times a week and I usually do physical exercises, I'm taking Roaccutane, and sometimes I cheat by using height adjusters in my shoes, I don't have much of an idea about anything.
 
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I'm 15 years old, I'm wearing braces, I don't know if that helps, I also do taekwondo 3 times a week and I usually do physical exercises, I'm taking Roaccutane, and sometimes I cheat by using height adjusters in my shoes, I don't have much of an idea about anything.
First off all accutane is good but has some bad effects on height growth. If you want to improve your skincare routine is can recommend you my thread with ky routine. You will be able to use this while on accutane but also try to get off accutane once your skin is used to tretinoin bc accutane makes you shorter. And yes physical activity is good taekwando is great even though going to the gym would be the most optimal. How tall are you to be wearing height boosters.
Here is my thread:
Also how is your nutrition and sleep:BASEDCIGAR:
 
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First off all accutane is good but has some bad effects on height growth. If you want to improve your skincare routine is can recommend you my thread with ky routine. You will be able to use this while on accutane but also try to get off accutane once your skin is used to tretinoin bc accutane makes you shorter. And yes physical activity is good taekwando is great even though going to the gym would be the most optimal. How tall are you to be wearing height boosters.
Here is my thread:
Also how is your nutrition and sleep:BASEDCIGAR:
My diet isn't 100% clean; I eat eggs sometimes, but generally I eat rice, some pieces of meat, and drink Coca-Cola.
 
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I am extremely short, I am 5'3".
 
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I am extremely short, I am 5'3".
That is really not that good. How tall is your mom and dad and did puberty start late early or normal. Also are you still actively growing
 
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My diet isn't 100% clean; I eat eggs sometimes, but generally I eat rice, some pieces of meat, and drink Coca-Cola.
Eggs meat and rice are great for nutrition and even coca cola is not that bad. Try implementing milk. I will leave a few good threads on nutrition just wait a bit. Also could you please rep my threads so my post to rep ratio stays clean
 
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My diet isn't 100% clean; I eat eggs sometimes, but generally I eat rice, some pieces of meat, and drink Coca-Cola.

These are good go read them
 
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That is really not that good. How tall is your mom and dad and did puberty start late early or normal. Also are you still actively growing
I think my puberty started around age 10.
 
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That is really not that good. How tall is your mom and dad and did puberty start late early or normal. Also are you still actively growing
I don't know if I'll grow any more, I hope so.
 
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São bons, vá lê-los.
OK
 
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we didnt, we got lean and jacked
 

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