How did you guys get over ur first breakups?

[pubertimaxxxng]

Low asf effort thread before bed but..

I’m curious to see what ultimately helped u guys get over that first ex. It’s been 6 months post breakup and I can’t stop looking at her table during lunch. And whenever she texts me I fold and go hangout for nothing in return, no blowie , no sex, just a kiss at best. It’s kinda fucking funny because i’ll genuinely forget about her until she hits me up or I think about sex in any way bro. Niggas can’t even watch porn anymore without thinking of her getting railed by some other option. I know she doesn’t have true desire for me anymore, I ruined that long ago being a stupid loverboy but she was my first real connection with a foid, how could I have known they don’t want flowers and a boyfriend? Either way I guess I mogged her hard enough that she can’t find better, keeps coming back to the king. but I genuinely cannot get over this girl even tho I broke things off originally with her, she has some sort of demonic foid spell set on me that makes me forget what she did
HELP
Edit: Finding a new girl isn’t an option. I want this foid and this one only fuckkkk i’m cooked

 

[pubertimaxxxng]

bumpy bump bump, bump bump

 

[orchlonsbadsaik]

i didnt ever had a breakup, only had sex first time when i was 13

 

[iroh]

Low asf effort thread before bed but..

I’m curious to see what ultimately helped u guys get over that first ex. It’s been 6 months post breakup and I can’t stop looking at her table during lunch. And whenever she texts me I fold and go hangout for nothing in return, no blowie , no sex, just a kiss at best. I know she doesn’t have true desire for me anymore, I ruined that long ago, but I genuinely cannot get over this girl she has some sort of demonic foid spell set on me
HELP
Edit: Finding a new girl isn’t an option. I want this foid and this one only fuckkkk i’m cooked

Stop speaking to her and accept the fact that the love is gone

Only after that will you get over her

 

[HaileyWelshMogs]

next time u hangout force yourself on her

 

[pubertimaxxxng]

i didnt ever had a breakup, only had sex first time when i was 13

first off, I envy you getting a slay at 13, mirin, and honestly i’d rather we just have fucked or something casual cus this emotional baggage is not for the weak

 

[idontlikemyself6]

first off, I envy you getting a slay at 13, mirin

You realize this ain’t the flex you think it is right

 

[pubertimaxxxng]

next time u hangout force yourself on her

bet that like deadass. If she doesn’t suck this bbc and doing what the other comment above u said

 

[pubertimaxxxng]

Stop speaking to her and accept the fact that the love is gone

Only after that will you get over her

b-but what if she asked me to get back tg? doesn’t that mean I can string it along and get affection and ?

 

[Regular Doomer]

You choose to forget and move on to be honest... that is it

Ofc you'll suffer you're only human afterall, not a machine, but just give it time and move on as you can

Think of things in the most logical way so you don't drown yourself in sorrow or ilusions or emotions.

She is a hoe, just like any other girl, and you suffered exactly the same as any other guy and thought that she was special or the one and got wrekt

 

[Regular Doomer]

b-but what if she asked me to get back tg? doesn’t that mean I can string it along and get affection and ?

Never do that no matter what, never get in touch with her ever again

 

[{Vesper}]

Never rlly got over her. Still deep down low key get jealous when I see her with other dudes. We have had 2 talking stages sense than but I don’t want that commitment because I always still remember what happened the first time we broke up and rlly don’t want that to happen again.

But ig you have to remember she would have left you for Chad in a heartbeat anyways….

 

[iroh]

b-but what if she asked me to get back tg? doesn’t that mean I can string it along and get affection and ?

No because that's not how love works

When you break up it's a declaration by one party or both parties that the love you both shared is gone and the dreams of being together are shattered

I don't believe a person who broke up with you wants you for who you are they just want a thing you have (unless the breakup was for other complicated things)

Once I break up w a girl I never speak to her again and I never re date cause it's stupid in my eyes

 

[pubertimaxxxng]

You realize this ain’t the flex you think it is right

it is to me bro. I have been criminally deprived of female attention my WHOLE life. Like I was a genuine truecel until like 2 years ago. My entire life’s mission is to slay. Now i get attention from foids but am too ND to even slay. I have no fucking rizz, and don’t know how to escalate at all. I mog based on how i’m treated, but if i’m not chad enough to slay without trying

 

[pubertimaxxxng]

You choose to forget and move on to be honest... that is it

Ofc you'll suffer you're only human afterall, not a machine, but just give it time and move on as you can

Think of things in the most logical way so you don't drown yourself in sorrow or ilusions or emotions.

She is a hoe, just like any other girl, and you suffered exactly the same as any other guy and thought that she was special or the one and got wrekt

Thanks for this. Logic is law, sometimes I get emotional and just needed to vent, but you’re completely right. literal whore man damn

 

[pubertimaxxxng]

No because that's not how love works

When you break up it's a declaration by one party or both parties that the love you both shared is gone and the dreams of being together are shattered

I don't believe a person who broke up with you wants you for who you are they just want a thing you have (unless the breakup was for other complicated things)

Once I break up w a girl I never speak to her again and I never re date cause it's stupid in my eyes

Never do that no matter what, never get in touch with her ever again

will do tho, thx

 

[tomacōck]

Cried

 

[pubertimaxxxng]

No because that's not how love works

When you break up it's a declaration by one party or both parties that the love you both shared is gone and the dreams of being together are shattered

I don't believe a person who broke up with you wants you for who you are they just want a thing you have (unless the breakup was for other complicated things)

Once I break up w a girl I never speak to her again and I never re date cause it's stupid in my eyes

Your right , i started the rls out of lust. she’s a ltb with an insane body halo, body’s my ideal but i never truly liked her as a person.also she cheated which is why i broke up so yea ill try to apply from here on out. thanks

 

[pubertimaxxxng]

Cried

Me too bro me too

 

[Regular Doomer]

Thanks for this. Logic is law, sometimes I get emotional and just needed to vent, but you’re completely right. literal whore man damn

It is hard man, people don't treat us men as humans with emotions and needs and feelings so we need to learn to be logical and close our hearts to desperation and grow stronger

It is actualy super tough

I hope you get better soon and be in your good senses, redpill is good to let you know what happened exactly, understand women and everything, it helps you woth disclosure and making sense of things


It is not easy and thats the reason so many men go through the redpill rage and some for years

The emotional toll ot takes on us is not to be underestimated

I hope you get strong brotherman

It is good to talk and vent about it, specialy in places like this

 

[Acquiescence]

By being a perma loner womb to tomb

 

[Regular Doomer]

 

[pubertimaxxxng]

Never rlly got over her. Still deep down low key get jealous when I see her with other dudes. We have had 2 talking stages sense than but I don’t want that commitment because I always still remember what happened the first time we broke up and rlly don’t want that to happen again.

But ig you have to remember she would have left you for Chad in a heartbeat anyways….

Never rlly got over her. Still deep down low key get jealous when I see her with other dudes. We have had 2 talking stages sense than but I don’t want that commitment because I always still remember what happened the first time we broke up and rlly don’t want that to happen again.

But ig you have to remember she would have left you for Chad in a heartbeat anyways….

it’ll all hopefully get better when hs over so we don’t have to look at them everyday

 

[pubertimaxxxng]

By being a perma loner womb to

It is hard man, people don't treat us men as humans with emotions and needs and feelings so we need to learn to be logical and close our hearts to desperation and grow stronger

It is actualy super tough

I hope you get better soon and be in your good senses, redpill is good to let you know what happened exactly, understand women and everything, it helps you woth disclosure and making sense of things


It is not easy and thats the reason so many men go through the redpill rage and some for years

The emotional toll ot takes on us is not to be underestimated

I hope you get strong brotherman

It is good to talk and vent about it, specialy in places like this

thanks a lot bro, I will definitely look into it tomorrow during my morning walk why not, have a goodnight bhai